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Archived questions from: May, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

Stepmom thinks I'm gay!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (M) - My step mum thinks im gay, which theres nothing wrong with, but its annoying. How can i convince her? ...

Why do guys wake up with an erection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i were chattin, and we got onto the subject and he said he often wakes up 'fully erected'. my question is, who knows why this happens? maybe its a stupid question but i realised i really dont know why. thanks for any answers!...

I'm confused, he is so bi-polar with his feelings!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - ohkay so this is a little long but i need to say it all. and thru the whole thing dont think im a slut. im 13 and in 7th grade. one day on my bus i met this guy that i saw everyday and thot he was hot for along time. but i never talked to him. then ...

Boys and grad parties!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - K i have three things to ask!! : 1- can i invite the guy i really like to my grade eight grad?? Or is that too weird.... I like him and want him to be there but i dont know..... He has a sister that i babysit could i invite her and then say he c...

Should I call him? Or should he call me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - heyy friends well i am desprete for help. wel first thing is my best guy friens lives in Mississippi and i live in chicago and he comes to visit and well this summer he is going to stay with his hometown in Mississippi and he hasn't called me ...

The annoying thing on my mind

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (M) - Hey, I'm a 16 year old guy and will be 17 in 2 weeks. Me and my gf both lost our V plates to each other when we were 15. My girlfriend is 3 months younger than me which makes her a year behind me in education. Thing is, even though now we ar...

How can I get over my erection phobia?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

31 May 2009 (M) - This is gonna be long..sry ! i need help tho.. Ok so today me and my girlfriend were alone in the house..we started taking of our clothes etc..started foreplay and stuff butshe had her panties on and i was trying to think a way to go inside her ...

I'm terrified of make-up shops, after security strangled me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5444 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Im seventeen, and when i was 13 i did a pretty stupid thing and its hanuted me for the rest of my life. It was they day before my mums birthday, and i was off school because it had been snowing. I went into the city with 3 other girls (my best...

I need change...any recommendations?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - okay so summers coming and im on to high school and i want to change. hears how i am now: im VERY shy, skinny and bony, unconfident, selfconscious, NOT very popular, and i fall for guys too easily. i know that the only wayt o fix all of that is by ...

If I fail my next exam mom says I have to finish with my boyfriend!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - I dont know what to do. At school I have alwaiis been good at maths and now am failing it as i failed my first exam. I have another one coming up in a weeks time and my mum said that if I do not pass it I have to break up with my boyfriend cause ...

Mixed reactions!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5444 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - hiya, please help me. Well, It was my birthday party on friday night,,. and it was a joint party with my friend.. So.. I have fancied this boy for nearly 2 years now... and lately friends have said he acts differently around me. But he is a ladi...

Still in love with my ex! Could he still love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - I am still in love with my ex-boyfriend. He was my first high school boyfriend, my first homecoming date, and my first "love." We dated from October 13, 2008 to January 18 or 19, 2009. 3 months and 5/6 days. He was the first one to say, "I lov...

Crush? Or something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5226 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Ok - I like this guy but I can't decide whether its a crush or something more than that. I have known him for about three years now. I know I was immediately attracted to him - but now I have got to know him better and we are fairly friendly ...

Do I pay for his band or does he?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - my bf and i have been discussing the kind of ring that i want for engagement and the kind of bands we want. Do i pay for his band or does he? He hasn't brought this up but i'm sure it would come up eventally. ...

Shoud I ask him out or something?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Ok so here it is.. I am 13 ( i know it sounds too young but its not to me) i really like this guy and it is not just a stupid crush. When i am around him i feel happier and safe. He always sticks up for me and stuff, but he is just a new frien...

Does this mean that I am pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - what are the early signs of pregnancy? i felt very sick and run down a few hours after i had sex and went to be sick a few times but nothing came up. i also had stomach cramps a day later. does this mean that i am pregnant?...

Should I suggest him a LDR and how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - i think i'm falling in love with a friend. we live hundreds of miles from each other but it would be perfectly plausible to meet up every couple of weeks and we speak daily for hours do you reacon it would be plausible to hold down a relationship? ...

Should I try and find her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (M) - a year ago when i was 15 i was in this one school and there was a girl who was a grade older than me and every now and then in school we just said hi to eachother. then one day i was on the bus that she was on and i went and sat next to her and we ...

I want to break out of my shell!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5444 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Hi, so i need advise. SO after my boyfriends prom (we go to diff. schools) we are going to an after party. I'm a very careful person and im scared to do anything bad beacuse my dad lives through me. But i want to break out for once. Neither my ...

What was the meaning of her looking at me this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

31 May 2009 (M) - sometimes in church our eyes usually meets that's i and a girl of about 17.when our eyes meet we shyly remove it.it was one sunday on which i went to church alone just by coincidence our eyes met we look ourselves for close to 25 seconds before i ...

Is shyness making her like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5444 days ago

31 May 2009 (M) - am 19 years old just getting to 20 this year am cute too.there is a girl of about 15 years old just a neighbour to my friend. when my friend brought me to their house i saw this girl and she was some kind of shy looking at me, which caused her to ...

Lied about my age, will he still love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Hi, i met my boyfriend online 2 months ago. We got chatting and really hit it off, met a couple days later and we got along so well and fell for each other so bad that i didnt end up leaving and so now ive moved in with him. We've already been thr...

Should I still go to the clinic to be on the safe side?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend had sex two days ago. i went to the clinic but they cannot supply the morning-after pill until tomorrow (which would be the third day after). he cummed in the same condom more than once when we were having sex and although i ...

How could he just stop loving me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - iv been going out with my boyfriend for one year and 6 months. i went on holiday for 10 days and rang him a copoul of times and when i did he turned his fone off and stuff and was really nasty for no reason. i came home expecting him to be wait...

My anger slowly builds up and I lash out, help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5444 days ago

31 May 2009 (M) - Hey again everyone. I'm worried about myself, as from time to time, I get fairly angry over a lot of small things parcelled up into one, as I try to suppress the fact I'm angry. And I fear this may turn me into someone violent, when I'm actual...

I find older women very attractive, is there anything wrong with that?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Ok im 18 f i have this problem. I seem to find older women attractive but i simply cant be coz its just wrong it says in the Bible. I dont know what to do. Please help!...

He's with me now, was with her, now she wants him back, tried to seduce him, should I confront her or ignore it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - my bf's ex, who is also a friend of mine is unbelievable. i had gone out with him first, then she did, then he came back to me. we used to be really close but after she started going out with him the friendship just died from there. i was reluctant ...

In love with my dad's 28 year old best friend, I am 14, please help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - I am in love with my dad's best friend.The guy i love is 28 and i am 14.I love him so much but i dont want to tell him because i am afraid of my dad and i am afraid of losing the guy i love.What makes it worse is that my dad's bestfriend 23 yeal old ...

Fatherless and always get attached

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Hi, my parents got divorced when I was about five or six years old. My dad has been in and out of my life. It's been really hard growing up without a dad. I usually get to see my dad twice a month, but these past three months, I haven't seen him. I ...

Help me win her back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

31 May 2009 (M) - Okay..... Me and my girlfriend of 1 year and 1 month love each other very much. But i recently made a huge mistake. At my graduation they was a group of people who dont like my girlfriend. And i hung out with my girlfriend the entire night, but i ...

He has a past that I am having a problem dealing with now, how do I get past it, he has tried to change?

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31 May 2009 (F) - Okay So.. I guess I have a problem.. A major problem. I've been with my "fiance" for A year and 9 months. Truthfully, I should have stayed away from him in the beginning. Let's just say he was the popular boy in high school who went to parties, ...

Had a vivid dream about a guy I hardly even knew, what does this mean, if anything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Last night I had a dream about this guy I used to go to school with. In my dream we were talking and stuff. Then the next thing I know we are having sex. I haven't seen him in like two years and I wasn't thinking of him. I never even really had a ...

How do I know if I'm really in love with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 months and i am really starting to love him, but how do i know if I 'm in love with him?...

Guy is asking me to do things that I said I would do, but I really don't want to do them

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Ok , my friends ( a mix of boys and girls )and i at P.E. always talk about dirty stuff and we were asking eachother would we give someone a blowjob or would we go down on someone in the group, and my friend random says ( he's a boy) he would go ...

Should I send him a picture?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Hi, so i've been talking with my friend from school and we've decided that were going to have sex. He's only 2 years older, but my question isn't whether to have sex with him or not. I'm going to. But he asked me a few weeks ago if i would send him ...

Still like my ex, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5292 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Well i have this problem...i still love my ex boyfriend! He was my first love i have had and i dont know what to do! He goes out with all of these differnet girls to make me jealous and im breaking down! Teh first time we broke up was just out of ...

Are these feelings that I have for him normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5445 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - i'm 16. i was wondering about this feeling i'm having. there's this guy who goes to my school. we have no classes together, but ride the same bus. i met him this year. i really like him a lot. but lately i have this diferent feeling. he doesn't know ...

Got stoned and had unprotected sex! What should I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I'm am 15 years old, i have not done any drugs for 5 months. A couple days ago, my friends had some weed, so i smoked it. A friend(19) I haven't talked to for a long time called me, and I told him I was high. He was like really, well want me to come ...

Need hairstyle suggestions!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

30 May 2009 (?) - hey, sorry this isn't a relationship question but I really want to change my hairstyle and don't know how to go about it, i've always turned to this site with my problems and i've had great advice from it. first of all my hair is about just past ...

The best night of my life...now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - hiya, please help me. Well, It was my birthday party last night,,. and it was a joint party. So.. I have fancied this boy for nearly 2 years now... and lately friends have said he acts differently around me. But he is a ladies man. So at this ...

How do I have a vaginal orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I have clitoral orgasms but I have no idea how to have a vaginal one! Anyone any advice? Different positions? How? Thankyou x...

I really want a baby!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - Im thirteen and i want a baby but dont want to have sex, what should i do ?...

Is there a chance that I am pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - My partner and i recently had sex and he ejaculated in the same condom more than once. However i was unaware of this, could there be a chance that i am pregnant?...

Worried my insecurities will ruin sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I know I am to young to have sex and I should wait till I am ready and in love but lately I have been very self-conscious about my body. All my friends have almost perfect bodies…but I don’t….when I get undressed its obvious I have baggy breast t...

How do I control this sweating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - Hi :) I have a problem and I'm not sure what to do so I'd like some advice! I use deodrant all the time but somehow I still sweat and it makes sweat patches on my clothes. I have like 5 different ones so my body doesn't get conditioned, but it still...

Does he really want me or her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I have a friend who lives long distance. When he moves to my town he always breaks up with his girlfriend to date me, but when he moves home he gets back together with her. He hasn't told me about her but he is from a very small town so I hear about ...

Why did my period end so soon and was so late?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - Hi, was having unprotected sex with boyfriend for about seven weeks. Period was three weeks late and finished after two days (my periods last 5 days) tests came up negative, and i took four including a hospital one. Whats going on with my body? Wh...

He misses me but doesn't show it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5445 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - My friend he misses me when I'm not with him but doesn't show it. I know because he talks about me when I'm not there! When i am there he sometimes talks to me. I'm trying to give him space and maybe he will be close to me again. Why does he miss me ...

Should I have sex with this girl I don't know well just for the sake of it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

30 May 2009 (M) - Im going to a party soon, and this girls going i was wondering if i should have sex with her there or just mess about as this would be my first time and i want some experiance. And i dont know her that well?...

Had unprotected sex 2 days before my period was due. Any risks?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - i had sex with my boyfriend few days before i.e. 2 days before my periods.after having sex i had my periods at the right time.The problem is that even after having my periods safely,do i have chances of being pregnant.plz help..... ...