New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

244966 questions, 1084314 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in June, 2009, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (26), 2 (32), 3 (19), 4 (21), 5 (21), 6 (17), 7 (26), 8 (42), 9 (33), 10 (41),
11 (25), 12 (24), 13 (14), 14 (22), 15 (32), 16 (24), 17 (41), 18 (36), 19 (18), 20 (23),
21 (19), 22 (32), 23 (37), 24 (45), 25 (30), 26 (25), 27 (32), 28 (23), 29 (24), 30 (46),

Archived questions from: June, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

First Time....Viginal Problems

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I had sex for the first time on a Sunday evening. the sex was rough and painful(used protection by the way) since i was with a more experienced person. As what most female would expected, i bled. But now for two days (Tuesday) i continue to bled ...

I went online pretending to be another woman and my boyfriend fell for her!!!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I used this fake account and added my boyfriend on it. I started talking to him as her, and he started to flirt with her. He said he would kiss her and most probably have sex with her! I kept asking him about me his girlfriend and he was acting like ...

Why has my teacher been treating me differently than anyone else?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Why has my teacher been treating me differently than anyone else? This year, he's given me full credit (twice) for an answer that I put, and half to the rest of the class who wrote the same answer. He's also thrown papers to everyone else bu...

I really want to get on with my boyfriend's family.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I have a problem.. My boyfriend is a different nationality to me and his mum and dad speak a different language to me and know limited english. I've met them a lot of times but have barely said anything more than 'hi'. I don't know what to...

He feels more like a friend than a boyfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5414 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for three years, a long time considering we are both only 18. However When we kiss I start to feel weird and as if the act is wrong, so we stop. This happens 80% of the time and I don't ever feel like I want to s...

Help! Anger problems...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Ok so heres my problem.. I think I have a problem with my anger.. I always fly off the handle for stupid reasons, especially at my boyfriend. It's putting a strain on our relationship as I get really angry at him for no reason. When I'm angr...

Can I make my butt bigger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I have a really sensitive tailbone that hurts when I sit for a long time, and it makes it hard to do certain exercises like sit ups and stuff. It still hurts if I put a pad on the floor or do sit ups on a bed. I'm 5'4" and weigh around 115 lbs ...

Is it normal to masturbate "to porn" while in a relationship?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I have been with this guy for 3 years and I was just wondering if it is normal to masturbate "to porn" while in a relationship. I understand that it is a natural thing but when I think of him masturbating to another naked women it makes me feel ...

I miss them sexy moments with her, I'm desparate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5414 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - hi im mitesh n im 19years old i had sex withmy gf many times....but now i had a break off...im missing those sexy moments of my life...n problem is its making me more desperate...as any women passes by i jus check her out 4rm top 2 bottom n it feels ...

How do I tell her I think about her when I masterbate?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - ok well i don't know how to say this but my gf just resently asked if i masterbated and i said yes and i have been wanting to tell her that when i masterbat i think of her but idk how to tell her i mean i want to tell her bcuz we tell each other ...

I don't know what to do. I'm falling for my ex's brother!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5414 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Helpp! im really lost and confused. need some advice because everyone keeps telling me something different everytime i bring it up. my ex and i broke up in january and we never told anyone we were dating. he always denies it now even his brother...

Are porn sites bad for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - When I was 11. I was goning on porn sites till I was 15. Why? Because I was curouse and I want to know if that it can change the way I act? Also, is going on porn sites is bad for you and me? If yes, tell me everything please. ...

He told me he was divorced now I want him to leave his wife for me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I know your all gonna call me bad names but its so hard, i really like him and miss him loads, when i met him he told me he was divorced and i deserve a nice rich boyfriend and said he would fit that category, hes a lawyer and gets paid a fair ...

I like his friend, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5404 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Me and my friends have started hanging around with one of my friends brothers and his mates. They all go to a different school from me and my friends. All of us have a sort of thing going with a different one of these lads. Its nothing official. But ...

Are the rumours true or is he lying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5414 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - well pratically i don't know what to believe. i found out that the other day my boyfriend said he fancied one of my mates, but i took a long time to think about it, and i figured that was false, as i spoke to him and he said this was a couple o...

I cry hysterically on rollercosters, how do I get over this fear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Im going to bush gardens tomorrow with my family and I don't want to be a party pooper ... so I kinda wanna ride the roller coasters too but I get so scared and I cry hysterically the last time I was on one I was 11 ... and im 17 but still any ...

Did I have a miscarriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5414 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I think I had a miscarriage back in january. I was in a relationship back then and we had unpretected sex once or twice..I was 2 weeks late with my period, and then my stomach started to really hurt. It was an unbearable sort of pain, that was so ...

4 Problems! What my sexuality?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - I'm so confused and emotional. I have a lot of compliacted situations and I really need help and someone to turn to. I've known I was different since I was 13. I was friends with a boy lets call him Tom I was kinda attracted to him, and sa...

She blames me for everything and split me and him up!

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

30 June 2009 (F) - friends who dont like you being friends with other flamen people! im sick to death of this. seriously. my so called best mates have a go at me over being out with someone older than them. making me hide the fact im out with him from them so they don...

I'm horrible to guys when I'm with them. Help me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5414 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I have major issues with relationships , I'm 19 and I've never been in a serious relationship I always end up kissing boys once and that's it , I rarely ever end up being with them more then once. I'm not a slut or anything I have never even had sex ...

Should I be worried about this teenage crush? Advice needed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5414 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - My 40 yr old boyfriend has a 17 yr old daughter. The daughters friend is 15. They have been friends for a few months and the 15 yr old has stayed at our house a few times. It appears to me the friend has a crush on him but he doesn't see it. If he ...

I feel my friend and I have a connection, should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I have this crush on a friend I have known for quite sometime now, and have only recently realised that I might have feelings for him. But I'm not sure if I really like him, or if I just want a boyfriend. I've never exactly had an official boyf...

What is this weird pulsating behind my eye?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Ok i know this isn't a relationship question, but i've gotten a lot of health help from this sight. My question is that there's this weird pulsing behind one of my eyelids. Could it be something serious? Some people said it could be allergies but i ...

How do we go about handling this and will it affect us in the future if we do decide to tie the knot?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

30 June 2009 (M) - Well here is the Breakdown... I have a girlfriend now who i care about deeply. We are both starting college and are saving up for a house. We both have good parents who love us and spoil us, along with that we both go to church and love the one who ...

How long should elapse before you give them your mobile number?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

30 June 2009 (F) - hiya guys, I'm just wondering when everyone you saw a cute guy for the first time and you were really good friends how soon was it before you gave your number to them, in "that" manner? any answers would be much apreciated thank you...

How do I tell him that I know!!!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 23, i am 13 weeks pregnant and have just found out he has been cheating on me. Because of my past i have trouble trusting people. A few things made me think that he was cheating like he took my picture of his wallpape...

Can anybody help me with what to say to him I'm really nervous.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5414 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Hear's the thing i met this boy when i was nine at school and i really fancied him but i thought that maybe my crush would fade like all of the others that i liked before him so i didn't say anything to him about it.But what i didn't realise was ...

I can't get over my exboyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Ok, so my boyfriend {now ex} broke up with me a few weeks ago, and i really can't get over it xD. He told me it wasn't working out and tht we were better of as friends. I had saw it coming I guess...I just had blindsighted myself to just ignore it. ...

I'm NOT going to give him another chance but I can't leave him. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5413 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I love a boy and he love me too. we are in a relationship from the last four years. now he is ignoring me saying that he want to concentrate on his studies but one of my friends told me that she found him with a girl. after this lots of my friends ...

This "cold spell" is going on too long!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5414 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I'm not sure what to do. This guy liked me and I liked him but he is shy and if im honest a bit strange... and I hardly ever saw him. But for some reason I still liked him. Anyway if any of you watch 90210 (series 1) where Liam is hot and cold all ...

I only orgasm during sex while on my period

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5415 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have sex quite often. It feels good, but I never orgasm and I feel discomfort. But when we have sex when I'm on my period. It feels much better, I don't feel no pain and I orgasm. Why is this?...

The girl I like says I'm 'too easy' what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - I've known this girl (girl-1) for 2 years. We met and I was obviously into her, and she could tell. We hung out a lot but I was stuck in the friend zone even after trying to ask her out and getting denied 3 times. Finally I decided I had to just ...

Did I make a mistake by not talking to her? I feel so stupid...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - okay.. so I'm going to be a senior in high school. the girl my friends told me I should have talked to has recently graduated. I would always see this girl everywhere at school walk out of a room or down the hall and see her. this girl was soooo ...

We broke up yesterday, I want her back, how long should I wait before I text her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - ow do i get back my ex-girlfriend? She respected me enough to talk about it in person. She sed she loves me as a friend, and isnt in love with me, what should i do? i would like her back, but i dont know how to go about it.... We broke up yesterday, ...

Do certain foods affect how a guy tastes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - my friend told me that eating pineapple makes a guys cum taste good, but idk is that true?? is it true that drinking dairy products makes you have bad tasting cum??... is it really needed for a girl to have big boobs to be hot? MOD NOTE: These q...

Is there something you can eat to make your sperm taste sweet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I hope this isn't a dumb question -,- lol But I was reading a question on here and I was wondering if you could eat something to make your sperm sweet??? okay so I love eating out my girlfriend, I do it on almost a daily basis BUT she rare...

How to give a good lap dance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I want to give my boyfriend a lap dance, I'm just not sure how to. I don't want to screw it up or anything. Any help?...

Any advice on sex and what to get him for our anniversary?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I Have been dating for 8 months now. I lost my virginity to him in March, and he's fingered me, we've done doggy style, regular sex(With condom and birth control pills, of course) but there's one problem. I've never given him or any ...

How can I get my girlfriend to go down on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - okay so I love eating out my girlfriend, I do it on almost a daily basis BUT she rarely ever goes down on me. i'd say i get oral once every 3-5 months. i've tried doing the whole "I go down on you, you go down on me" thing and it never works, ive ...

How do I regain my parent's trust? They found a hickie on my boob.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - My parents recently found out about the hickie on boob from going through my text messages. My mom already had a talk with me which didn't go so well but now its time to have a talk with my dad. I dont know what to tell him and they have already ...

Any advice for a 16yr old dating a 37yr old married man?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I am 16 years old.. and my boyfriends is around 37 years old and he has 2 kids and he is also married.... He is my coach in table tennis when i was in high school, we bond together, we go out together as friends.... yet unfortunately, as the yime...

He's my first love but is it worth being in this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - okay so i have this really big problem I've been with this guy for 3 years and I love him soo much we had the most amazing relationship and he was the perfect boyfriend. I guess I was really annoying and would get mad at dumb stuff he would always ...

Where is this supposed to go? He's hot one minute and cold the next.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5414 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for over a year now and lived together for about 8 months of that. I just moved out 2 weeks ago because we started fightening and we decided it would be best for us. The last month or so we have said alot of ...

I feel so left out! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5415 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - ok what do i do im at my wits end. heavily pregnant, still a teenager, my brother goes to the football with mum every weekend and leaves me at home, dads not in the scene, my boyfriend is being difficult at the moment not even sure what im going to...

How do I come to terms with the abortion?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - 2 years ago when i was 16 i had an abortion 7th march 2006 i cant stop blaming myself for killing part of me, i split up with my ex 5 months after, he seemed to be over it within the next few week.. He said that i killed his baby when it was mostly ...

How do I get over this guy, or is it even the right thing to do by getting over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5415 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - i'm 16. ok so i really really like this guy. he's just so amazing! i've liked him for almost a year now. on the last day of school he found out i liked him. he liked me a little to. we hung out and we talked and decided to just be friends. i was ok ...

Will what I did make him worry more? I don't want to lose him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Hi guys :) Well, basically, I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months and we've been going really strong so far. I have two problems that I hope you can help me with: - I have an anxiety disorder which means I get panick attacks. This anxiety dis...

Can a guy tell if a girl is a virgin during sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, Okay i was just wondering when having sex can guys tell if the girl is a virgin? Would they feel any different? Thanks :)...

Would it be terrible if I kept this as a secret? I don't want to hurt my friend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me and two days later I went out with my friend (I'll call her Jill). We went to this party and my ex boyfriend's best friend(I'll call him Pete) was there. He just happens to be Jill's secret crush. I started dating ...

Stressed by school and exams - I need tips on how to calm myself down!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I need help! Im really stressed with school work and its really getting me down. Im doing my GCSEs and i go to a very high profile school which makes us work really hard and im finding it really hard to cope with the stress, i leave the house at ...