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Archived questions from: 9 January, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

How do you get over a guy???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - Hey, I have one slight problem I have a bf and he's just gorgeous and I broke up with him because he was just a player and couldn't be with just one girl so I said that if he's gonna continue treating me like this we have to be over, well it happe...

I'm just tired of everything and don't want new boys I just wanna stick with what I had...

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9 January 2009 (F) - Please just give me advice about what I should do next.. Thank You in advance. I just moved to a new city same state. At my old school I was just getting involed with boys. I was in 7th grade then. And now I am in 8th and I moved here over the su...

Ahhh! I accidently gave my teacher a sex symbol!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - For the holidays, I gave this male teacher a little stonehenge thing. He seemed happy, but after break seems to be acting odd around me. Friendly but not as friendly. I looked online; as it turns out, stonehenge is an ancient sex symbol of the ...

What's with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - I’m really happy that I came across this page because I’ve been looking for someone who can help me. Well, I thought that I was over my ex boyfriend but apparently that’s not the case. It’s that I just get manage to get over the fact of why he left ...

Authority figure: How can I get to know him without crossing the line?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - I'm attracted to this guy, not that I'm thinking about doing anything (I don't wanna get that exam at the gyno when they use that scary tool thing lol). The problem? He's my "authority figure" you could say, though he isn't much older than me. How ...

What can I do to stop blushing every time I'm with him???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - I'm 13 and I really really like this guy, we get on realy well, except every time I go near him or he smiles at me I go bright red! As in tomato red! It is realy embarrassing, but I can't stop it. help!...

Something is bothering my girlfriend and I don't know what...

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9 January 2009 (M) - So basically, we've been going out for 2 months, might as well be three but it wasn't official, we have a pad because she was my ex 3 years ago for a year we went out, in that time she went out with another guy for three years, but over the summer ...

I'm scared I'm going to get anorexic again, I need someone to talk to...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - I'm nearly 17 years old and I have been anorexic before, because of depression. Over the past few weeks I've not been eating often and when I have eaten it has only been a slice of toast once every few days, I just don't feel hungry, the thought of ...

What kind of things do you like from your girlfriend on valentine's day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - Hey everyone (: hope the new year is all good for you all (: Basically I like to be organised and I know I have a month to decide, but guys, what kinda things do you like from your girlfriends on valentines day? (I always run out of money rea...

I've had enough of him in my face talking crap about me all the time. What can I do???

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9 January 2009 (F) - Hi guys, My friend and I became friendly with this guy way back in July, we would usually just talk to him and his cousin when we saw them around. Next thing, he is going around telling folk I'm his girlfriend, showing off in front of me all the ...

How far would a partner need to go for it to be considered as cheating???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - hi What would your girlfriend/boyfriend have to do for you to consider they have cheated on you? Thanks I'm really confused right now :( x x x x...

Can she get pregnant from this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

9 January 2009 (M) - okay well i fingered a girl on new years and i think i might've gotten sperm/cum on my fingers and i am scared for her she is freakin out and does not know what to do ...

Quickest way to get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - hi i am 16 years old and i really like this boy for couple of months now, and it felt like he liked me bk, every where i go his eye were always on me, he started flirting wiv me but i avoided it n i told a couple of my friends tha i hav a crush on ...

Will it ruin the relationship if we pleasure ourselves too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - well me n my boyfriend are still virgins but we pleasure ourself which i dink is best instead of having sex an well since he started fingering me now it has become an addiction. Is that normal that we want to mostly do that everyday an is kinda ...

How can I become a great man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

9 January 2009 (M) - Hello , Please read my whole story and then tell what to do? May it is annoying, but it will tell you whole about me? I got your email and it was really nice that your advice was able to help many people. I am little disturbed soul t...

My mum seems to hate me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - My mom seems to hate me We are an asian family, and, well, to be honest, because we don't live in our homeland i've grown accustomed to fast food, aka food that's not 'home-food'. today, only half an hour ago, my mum called me into the kitchen...

18 in love with a 40 year old man

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am an 18 year old and I am in love with a 40 year old man. He doesn't know. I can't help it but everytime I see him or talk with him, I just want to be in his arms. I feel like there is no care in the world when I am around him. ...

If he wants to be with me, why is he seeing another girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - i have been friends with benefits with a guy for sometime now. the thing is, he doesnt like it when i see other guys and because we've been close friends for a long time i respect that and i have chosen not to see anyone else. but recently, hes been ...

We messed around and did everything but. Now I'm scared!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - hi! im 17 and still a virgin but new years morning i was at my boyfriends house and we started messing around we did everything but _____ . after taking both our clothes off i asked him to put a _____ on and he did then began rubbing ...

The first few times of sex, I don't understand why it's still uncomfortable.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - About a month ago, I told my boyfriend that I was ready to have sex. He told me that if I really thought that I was ready, then we could do it. I said that I was. (We were both virgins.) We had sex for the first time three nights ago. I knew that...

I occasionally think of my ex, should I talk to him or stay happy with my current boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - there was this guy i had a relationship with over the summer... we loved each other (keep in mind i am only a teenager so i think it was love but i definitely felt it) and our relationship stopped because of our parents, we don't talk anymore but ...

LDR advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - I was wondering how to make a long distance relationship work? My boyfriend and I have been together for a while, the only problem is that I've recently moved to a different state. I really like him a lot, and he's head over heels, and we have ...

Boyfriend isn't spontaneous!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months now, and i told him i loved him about 4 months in because that is how i felt. I wanted to say it before he did so i knew i felt it and wasn't saying it in guilt. Like i have done in the past.It's just i am a ...

I know he can't like me and it makes me sad

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5588 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - i think you all might of heard of a girl falling in love with their teacher! you might and you might not.. well if you guys didn't well here's what happened to me well i am the kind of girl that if a guy likes me i am like okay that's okay becau...

Virgin? Or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - My bf n I have been dated for 1 yr n 3 months. we haven't have sex bc i wasn't ready for that step. Other than that he n i did everything else. On xmas, i was spending time with him, we was making out and stuff n i was really horny so he ask can he ...

I'm not sure if he wants me but he doesn't want anyone else to have me either

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5588 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - Well where do i start i went with this boy in november and i really like him bt he hurts me first he broke up with me and then talked mad shit about me but he said he never said any of it he was writing me on my space talkin about how my pussy ...

14, possibly pregnant b/f wants me to move..should I?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - okay so i am 14 and i might be pregnant!! i told my mom my boyfriend and his parents!!! but know he is movin to phoenix and he wants me to go with him my mom says i am going to ruin my life if i go but for me to do whatever the hell i want and i wa...

Any way to hide or make stretch marks disappear?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5588 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - I'm going on my first holiday abroad with my boyfriend. I have alot of stretch marks on my sides and stomach. is there any way i can make them disappear or at least really unnoticeable as i find the sun makes them stand out more. Please help...

Warts on his penis and now I have them too. What is it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - Im an 18 year old girl and ive been with my boyfriend for a good few years now. I noticed a few months back that he had developed some califlower looking lumps, like warts, on his penis. I know he hasn't or would.t cheat but i just dont want to ...

Visiting America and VISA's??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - Ok. I'm planning on going to Philadelphia towards the end of summer for a week or so. Do I need a Visa of any sort? I didn't think I needed one as it isn't for a long time period however my mum told me differently. Help?...

What does foreplay really mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

9 January 2009 (M) - I have read that size doesn't matter and stuff and that foreplay is very important. What actually does foreplay mean? And why doesn't penis size matter? I have a 5.5 inch penis when erected and 5 girth.... Is that good to satisfy a women? I'm also a ...