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anonymous
writes:Yesterday my boyfriend and I were having sex and I randomly got lightheaded when we were switching positions. I told him and he laughed and said something like, "What, did you have too big of an orgasm?" I just laughed and didn't really answer. I have never had an orgasm during sex (with anyone) but from that comment im assuming he thinks that I am with him. I haven't been trying to fake them or anything but I guess i can understand why he thinks Ive been having them. Should i tell him i've never have one or just let him continue to think i am? It isn't personal to him or anything and I don't want him to think he isn't performing well or that i was faking it, but I kind of feel like i should say something at some point.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2010): Yes you should tell him! I mean, let him know what you just told us, that it's not his performance but you'd like to try something different to satisfy you. I had the same problem with my boyfriend before, and when I let him know, he was fine with it and we just tried different ways that way we were both pleased.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2010): For GOD SAKES YES! He needs to know, you need him to know.
Your young, you need to explore your body and find the magic that makes you come. Many Many women face this... the WORST thing you can do is pretend... bad for you, him and other future partners he may have..... your going to teach him how to be a better lover, he's going to learn how to get you off, but you need to know how to get yourself off, and then be able to share that with him!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (14 January 2010):
 The truth is always the best course, even if it hurts.
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reader, nelle2472002 +, writes (14 January 2010):
 yes...definately, communication is the key. he's getting what he wants why cant u get yours? i definately told my man what i like and how i like it done, this way im satisfied, hes satisfied that im satisfied and everyones good. he might feel a little bruised, but like the other person said if a good guy he will want you to have them and explore ways to make you get there.
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