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Archived questions from: 8 September, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I'm not sure how to masturbate

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - i want to finger myself but dont know how to do it the right way help plz...

Am I going to be used?

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8 September 2009 (F) - i met this guy at a festival a few weeks back and we swapped numbers and got eachothers facebook addys etc. even though nothing happened at the festival there was definately an attraction there and we both admitted to wanting something to happen. w...

What does she mean by slow?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

8 September 2009 (M) - My girlfriend told me she wanted to take things slow and I wanted a few opinions from other women on what that means. I've been dating my girlfriend for almost two months and we haven't done anything sexually intimate other than kissing and making ...

Did I miscarriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - I think I might have had a miscarriage...I don't really know. I was suppose to have my period 3 weeks ago and I didn't get it so i figured I was pregnant since I didn't get it and there were no signs that it was comming any time soon...and a couple ...

Sex is always painful

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5348 days ago

8 September 2009 (?) - soo i lost my virginity about 8 months ago. it didnt hurt too much but i didnt feel any kind of pleasure at all. not from any kind of sex we had. and i had sex with the same guy about 20 times after that until we broke up and didnt feel any sort ...

Sexual position suggestions

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

8 September 2009 (M) - Hello people, I have a sex question. My girlfriend has told me that my dick is a little bit larger than she's used to, and we've been having problems finding a good position. If we're not really careful, it comes out, and it's a hassle when I h...

Why won't my boyfriend take me might being pregant seriously?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

8 September 2009 (?) - ok so this is hard and its really bothering me. im 15 and my boyfriend is 18. we have only been together for about 3 months but we have sex almost every day. a lot of the time its as much as 3 times in the same day. no exaggeration. he refuses ...

Trying to have sex for the first time and it's not working to well

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - Ok so few days ago i tried to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time and we just couldn't...at first i bled little, the next day same, then in the next 3 days i started to bleed more and it was hurting a lot.I noticed that my hymen was ...

Confused about ex

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8 September 2009 (F) - Ok hes my ex, but he has a gf whos pregenent, anyway he said he loves her and would be lost without her and would be heartbroken if they where to split BUT why is he still SLEEPING WITH ME and other people of he says he loves her so much Guys plea...

He was unsatisfied now I'm unsatisfied what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5348 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. about 6 months ago he sat me down and we had a discussion about how our sex life was unsatisfying to him. he told me that he wasnt questioning our relasionship he just wanted to improve our sex life ...

Disgusted with my boyfriends promisquus past

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - how do you get over your boyfriend promisquous past .......when you are not at all like that ?i have been in 3 relations so far was fooled and dumped in one and the second guy cheated on me after 3 yrs of engagement we parted....i am now with my ...

Confused he wanted it then changed his mind!

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8 September 2009 (F) - hi i'v been seeing an old flame for 2mths causal as we are both just out of marriages it was really just 2old mates goin out few kisses n cuddles he is gorgeous in every way make's me feel so special he said we cant get serious as he doest want a ...

What is an orgasim?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - okay so i fill rilly stupid askin this but i fill even stupider not nowin so here it is. wut the heck is an orgasim? like i no wut it is but i dnt no wut it is. and try not to give me all medical terms and stuff cuz i aint smart enuff to understand ...

How should I deal with my situation?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - Please, no judgment. All I want is a sympathetic advice. I met this man 3 years ago, and it was a love from first glance. Our situation is:he is single, divorced 12 years ago, never got remarried, i am married my wholle life to a wonderfull man, we h...

Possibly miscarriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - So I've been on the pill for 3.5 months now and have regular sex without a condom. Last month, about a week and a half before my scheduled period I started spotting heavily, like almost a full on period for the full week and a half. I had skipped my ...

Emotional issues causing problems in the bedroom?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - I'm in a sad situation. My husband never told me he wants to leave. Yet before his erection problem started,we had the biggest fight, when he accidentally told me,that he never loved me at all,he just stuck with me. And 2 weeks after his ...

Feelings for a close friend crushing me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5348 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - I feel pretty stupid asking for advice about this situation I'm in, considering I give advice so frequently on here. But it's obviously totally different when you're in the situation yourself, and I would appreciate any opinions/words of wisdom. I...

I really like him, but I think he is just using me for sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - I want to know if I did the right thing: I met a guy at a near by dog park, a neighborhood I am now moving to. His dog was bitten and I made my move offered help (I had a crush on him for awhile). We walked our dogs together and went on a date. We...

Met someone on the internet, but now I think he is gay!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - Hey guys. I feel really strange typing this, but I need someone else´s advice. Ive been chatting to an english man for more than 2 years. Ive made a big big effort to go to his country and finally we met. I went to the city where he lives. The first ...

I waited to have sex but now he doesn't want to!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 4 months. I have always respected my body so I wanted to make sure things were steady before I even thought of having sex with him, even though I have had sex before with other boyfriends in the past. ...

Help, I'm a sex addict and I think it's ruining me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

8 September 2009 (M) - Iv'e always had a high sex drive but it's getting ridiculous. I have been with my girl for 10 years now. We used to have more sex in the begining and it was great but now that she doesn't want so much anymore, I find myself turning to porn and i'm ...

When is sex just sex?

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8 September 2009 (F) - when is sex just sex for you,dear men (not talking about one night stands and casual hook-ups with women you don't really care about) and when do you know skip over that hill and make love to your partner? How does your behavior in bed change, ...

How do I get my new boyfriend to talk dirty to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - I really get turned on when my partner talks dirty and kinky to me during sex. I also like it rough. I find it hard to orgasm or get wet without this verbal stimulation. However, my new boyfriend won't talk at all during sex, and he is too gentle ...

I get close to orgasm, but feel pain and make him stop

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

8 September 2009 (?) - Alright so this is a rather embarassing topic. My boyfriend and I have had sex about 5 or 6 times. I have never orgasmed. I know this in itself is a pretty normal thing but I am feeling pain the closer I come to a climax. It feels like this ...

It burns when I pee

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - this passing weekend...i went over to a friend's house.... i had met him before and was very attracted to him, he was very nice to me and everything(this was 3 weeks back) the day before this friday...he told me that he wanted to have sex with ...

Is thinking of preteen boys ok when I masterbate and am I gay or straight

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

8 September 2009 (M) - when i masterbate, is it ok for me to think of preteen boys. i dont know if im straight or gay because sometimes i like to think of girls and sometimes i think of boys. im 14 and i need to know what i am and whats wrong and rite...

He's perfect for me apart from the sex...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - I had been dating and intimate with the same man for over a year. He is quite a bit older than me. The sex is over-the-top, yet I backed out of our engagement due to some issues of his that seem to be unresolvable (financial, family, baggage, etc). ...

My husband has lost interested in making love... what's the matter?

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8 September 2009 (F) - Hi, i have been married for three years and have a 1 year old daughter. Recently I have noticed that my husband has lost interest in making love. I know he is not having an affair and has recently been very stressed due business issues. But ...