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Archived questions from: 12 September, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I just cannot make him cum!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - I cant seem to make my boyfriend cum. I have literally sat for hours going down and giving him hand jobs but he wont cum. I'm beginning to feel like theres something wrong with me!...

Do I have to lose my hymen to squirt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - Yeah, so i'm 13 and sometimes when i'm alone i like to play with myself. I managed to orgasm in like 40 minutes on my first time and i have been doing it 2-3 times for the past two weeks i am on my bed playing with my clit. I really want to know how ...

He watches porn more than having sex with me, and then lies about it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - (It's long, but please read the whole thing before giving advice so you understand everything. Thanks :-D) First off, I want to say, I do not have a problem with porn as long as it's not an addiction. I believe porn can be healthy for a relationsh...

I want to have sex whilst I'm spotting, how can I talk to him about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - I'm currently on birth control. Its my second month taking it, and now im starting to spot. I know its normal but I really was looking forward to seeing my boo today and having both oral sex and penetration. I know it may sound nasty, but I just ...

Relationship where we've never had sex, he's never said I love you

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - Hi I am a 28 year old woman and have been in a relationship with a 32 year old guy for over 3 years now. He has never said I love you to me. Also he will not have sex with me- we have never even slept in the same bed. He always has an excuse and we ...

I don't like sex, it's despicable, what do you think?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

12 September 2009 (M) - I don't like sex, I never have and I don't think I ever will. I'm not asexual, I'm anti-sexual. For me, sex has a negative impact on a relationship not a positive. I think as a man, if you have a sexual relationships with a women they ...

How can I keep his attraction for me long term?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - Hi there. I'd be very grateful for some suggestions from women out there on how I can remain attractive to my man in a long term relationship. I sense he is very dissatisfied with me - disgruntled to the extent of having low self esteem. He doesn't ...

Strange physical sypmtoms are really concerning me. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - I know this isnt love advice but it is necessary. I have recently been feeling sick/nausea, always tired, i have lost my appetite and have a metallic taste in my mouth. Not to mention the hair on my legs seems to have a life of its own and is ...

I'm turned off by my girlfriend's tattoo, this is causing problems during sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

12 September 2009 (M) - I have a problem with my girls tattoo. Its quite large and of a tribal/spikey design. I love her to death and before people jump in and tell me about self expression and accepting her for who she is - I totally except her for who she is and love her ...

I'm a 16 year old boy trying to understand myself and these feelings. Any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

12 September 2009 (M) - Hey, Im a 16 year old boy. I think Im normal. I think I suffer all the lessons most people go through, like annoying urges for sex when you cant have it. Im smart, I think befor I unzip, but that the point, ive never unzipped as im still a virgin, ...

Ex "disappeares" again and again! Did sex made things worse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid- Sorry this is so long but it requires every detail....Well, in January of this year, i met this guy "matt" at a club and we exchanged numbers. Soon after that, we went out on a date to the movies. We continued going out like this for...

Why is it becoming harder to have an orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - Hi I cant orgasim anymore..or not as much as I used to. When my boyfriend and I first started going out I used to have 3-5 orgasims while having sex. Then it changed and it is harder to orgasim and sometimes I have one or none at all.. I w...

Sex painful and uncomfortable for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend and I had sex for the second time he had an orgasm but I didn't He says it was amazing for him but I didn't enjoy it It was still painful and uncomfortable for me Is it just still to soon or is there something wrong with me????...

Am I the only one to fantasise about having sex, only clothed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

12 September 2009 (M) - hi , can you pls tell me whether women will enjoy sex when man is fully clothed.i am a man i like to be fully clothed with woman wearing short skirts and i enjoy very much when she grind,rub her thighs against my thighs which is fully clothed ...

Birth control confusion...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - Like i said before im just a teenager. i still live with my parents for a while, Mom was talking to her sister, and her sister has a girl a couple years older then me, but when her daughter was my age she put her daughter on the birth control pill ...

Why does he jolt when we are being intimate? Is it just a result of his orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - i am currently seeing an older guy and i have found when we are being intimate, at a certain point, he will start to have strong jolting sensations, so strong he physically moves back and forward. i have never experienced this before, is it just the ...