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Archived questions from: 1 September, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I saw precum on his underwear, I sat on it... could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - hi u can call me shan. Recently me and my boyfriend were fooling around and i sat on his penis but i was still in my panty and a shorts and he was still in his underwear too. Before i sat on him i saw precum on his underwear. Our clothes were very ...

Everyone expects us to marry, but I can't stand sex with him anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - i have been dating this guy for 15 years, everbody is expecting us to get married, my problem is sex is no longer pleasurable with him, i cant even bear him touching me and am thinking of how to make sex pleasurable....

It's the wrong time of the month, so should I postpone this date, or go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - What should I do, this amazing guy has asked me to his house on Friday to watch a DVD so we can spend some time together, we have known each other for a while and we have a lot of chemistry (I know that he want sex, throught a friend of a friend), ...

He won't give me an orgasm because my semen smells too strongly

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - Hi. I'm a 22-year-old gay guy, and I have an extremely difficult decision to make. My partner and I are on the verge of breaking up. The reason for our break-up has to do with our sex life. For the two-and-a-half years we've been together, my ...

My husband hasn't been interested in sex for the last several weeks

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5355 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - Me and my husband have been together since April 2005, married since March 2008. In the last few weeks, well, 6 weeks actually, for the record, he's not been interested in any sex at all. I've tried everything from sexy outfits ordered online...

He says he's not in the mood and then watches porn all night

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 3 years now and all was great until the past few months. Suddenly he seems very uninterested in me sexually. It makes me feel unattractive and not like a woman at all, I've tried everything from ...

Is it a one night stand if you've know the person for awhile?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - Do you consider it a one-night-stand with someone if you've known them for a while. I've always thought a real one night stand is when you meet someone at a bar, club or party for the first time and sleep with them that night. If you've known a ...

No sex in my marriage and I'm very disillusioned

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - I'm sorry to be so negative ,but I;m getting very disillusioned,,,, My husband stopped having sex with me few years ago, and I can do what ever I want ,but he won't even look at me. I look fine, I have no problems with my look. So he is turning ...

Help! I'm worried about smelling "down there"!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - help! ive been hooking up with this guy and hes really lovely. but ive never had anything done to be by a guy before (if you know what i mean) and im really paranoid about smelling down there! sorry to be graphic. but i think something might be ...

Can I damage my husband's testicles during sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - My husband and I are trying to get pregnant. When we are having sex, I massage his testicles to make him ejaculate more. I have noticed that they seem to get less sensitive to massaging as he is nearing climax. Usually when he is getting close, ...

Issues with vaginal farting!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - I have been having issues with vaginal farting. Every morning i seem to wake up and have queefing episodes regaurdless if i had any type of sexual activity the night before. If i wake up in the middle of the night it will happen then too. i dont ...

Lack of confidence and ideas, I want to surprise and treat my man.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - I am in a relationship with the most loving and caring guy you would know. However in the bedroom he always takes the lead and control because I struggle to know what to do and get really self conscious. I was wondering if anyone had any ideas ...

Sex positions for females?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - Can you briefly mention sex positions that can make sex less painful for females. Thanks!...

My boyfriend has premature ejaculation problems, and a small penis. Should I break up with him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - Girls: does your boyfriend have premature ejaculation? Mine (who is 25) only last seconds in bed, in fact sometimes he's cum before I've taken his shorts down (I can feel the wet through his pants) or even as I'm putting it in - its depressing and ...

I slept with him, but is he still interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - Slept with him, but is he interested? I recently met a guy i get on really well with. I have seen him 3 times over a period of 2 months as he works away a lot. We keep in touch through email and occassional texts, but thats it. I dont want to be ...

We got caught on camera having sex! What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - omg im so embarressed,my grandparents own this truck stop and i kinda forgot that we had eight cameras that show the whole yard well me and boyfeiend didnt want to get caught so we went under the truck and had sex well now everyone one who works at ...

I need a male sex buddy..where would I find one?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - I am a 22 year old female that wants to have sex but I can't find a good partner that would do it with no strings attached Am I wrong for wanting a very sexy man to put it on in my area that wont kiss and tell and that will promise not to force a ...

College and massive orgies?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5355 days ago

1 September 2009 (?) - hey, I am just owrried about college and those stories they talk about. You see, my bf is in college now, and I've heard that there are a lot of parties where there is like, massive orgies.. is it true? should I worry?...

Once the condom is on, the fun is gone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - My bf and I have just started to have sex. However, when ever we go to put the condom on he completely loses his boner and can't get hard again. He spent an hour looking at porn to see if that would get him up but it didn't. However, if we do it ...

He seems to want a celibate marriage

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - Ok, so here is my situation. I am 26 and my husband is 30. I have been married for 8 months. In the beginning of our relationship my husband had problems *performing*. I just gave him love and support and tried to let him know that I loved him no ...

I want him to finger me, but sometimes I don't

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - Hello. My boyfriend and I are going to be dating for 5 months this Saturday the 5th. And he wants to finger me. I want him to sometime and sometime I dont. I don't knw if I should just let him or not. And ...

Could I be pregnant? What is this bleeding?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - Okay I'm on Birth Control. About a week ago I missed 2 pills. so when I went to take it on that morning I had to take 3 pills so I wouldn't skip the other ones. the next day I woke up and was bleeding. my period pills don't come until another week ...

Slept together the night we met: not sure if he's interested, or just being nice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - So two weekends ago I met this guy out at a club. I found him very attractive and he kept complimenting me, etc. Being that I had been out of a relationship for several months, I was feeling the need for...sex. So to make a long story short, we ...

Is it normal that the man goes without sex for a month?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - Hi guys, I want to know is it normal that the man go without sex for a month? I ve just got married lately,and my husband is not that sexually active now, because before we got married he always was horny and wanted sex ,but I did not have sex wit...

Do guys actually like going down on girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - Okay then . . . Well, I'm 17 and with my bf of nearly two years and we've just started getting into the whole sex thing. We haven't actually done it but we're working our way up to it. (So far; extensive make-out sessions, topless and fingerin...

Is this something that turns him on? Or is it something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - ok this is a sex question and all advice is nice.... so the other nite my fiance and i was in bed of course having sex and i played in his anal area and he was so turned on. i liked it, it turned me on but my question is, is that something that tur...