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Archived questions from: 28 September, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I can't stop flirting and sleeping with men!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I am 21 yrs old and have 2 beutifull children with my boyfriend of 5 yrs who i love dearly and who dearly loves me, but I cant stop flirting and sleeping with other men. I flirt all the time online as i cant sleep with the men online, but if i go ...

Black discharge? Could it be a side effect of the morning after pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I'm due my period on the 9th. But i'm currently getting a very dark brown/black discharge coming out of me like a thin period. I've never had this sort of thing before, only AFTER a period, never before. What could this be? I had unprotected sex ...

Ejaculation accidentally touched my vagina

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Before you all say I am too young(or something) for this, I would like to say. I have made a huge mistake by doing this. I know what I did wrong, and is very regretful. Any nurses/doctors/concerned adults please help! I touched male sperm on my...

Intimidated in the bedroom

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - so i have been with my girlfried for about four months but we really never did anything. we had sex about two weeks ago or at least attempted to. some one came home and we were forced to stop before it really began. with that being said she never ...

Confused about first time sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Ok, so i'm just going to get this out there, in my high school everyone has either lost thier virginity in 9th or won't until marrige. and i absolutely LOVE my boyfriend, we've been togethe so much its probably not healthy but i love it : ). now, ...

Does she just look at me as a friend and not fancy me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - I'm a married professional man and have befriended a younger woman at work. She has just got over some mild depression, which I may have helped a little with supportive chats and some confidence building (positive comments and so on). We talk quite ...

How can I tell if I'm tight enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

28 September 2009 (?) - im always self conscious that im not, excuse me here, "tight" enough for my boyfriend. im gona be 16 soon and hes 3 years older. hes not that big, just average, but everytime we have sex or he fingers me, i feel like im not as tight as i should be. ...

How do I make him understand I'm not a machine?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I am almost thirty yrs old, I am married to a man who is four years younger than me and has a sex drive of a sixteen yr old. We have 3 children together, all between the ages of 6 to 1 yr old. I work full time as well as have the children in various ...

Am I a straight? Bi? Or lesbian?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I have been staright all my life and had boyfriends etc, but just recently i feel like i have a crush on a female teacher. Everyones started calling me a lesbien, but im obvisly not a lesbein cos i like boys, but am i bisexual? or is it just a phase ...

Threesome but I don't want him to fall for the other girl!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Its bothering me.... My best male friend and i have been talking about a threesome, i would really love it i know he does too but the problem comes in that i'm afraid once we have actually had a threesome he will end up like or even loving this ...

Visit to brothel did not make me feel better

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - Hello I few months ago i visited a brothel... and it was a bad bad experience as i didnt get any pleasure out of it and it made me realise what i want in life ( a slow meaningful relationship) I taught me alot and show me that sex is crap and ...

Husband would rather please himself than have sex with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Ok so here is my problem... My husband would rather please himself and time of the day (as I have caught him not by choice) than have sex with me. Oh and by the way we decided to try to get pregnant ha ha not working...

Is my penis curved because of the way I masturbate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - I'm having curved penis problem.well its a different one,i have a preconception about it-i use to masturbate lying on my belly and pressing my penis up and down on the bed,so i get the feeling that it is because of this only.My dick very little ...

Was it weird that my husband asked me which of my previous sexual partners had the biggest penis?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - My husband of 2 yrs asked me who I'd slept with in the past had the biggest penis. Now, I know he's not insecure cause he's well endowed himself. My response was to laugh and asked him why the hell he wanted to know! he said he was just curious. ...

Does it get better with time regarding anal sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I have a question about anal sex. My boyfriend really wanted to have anal sex. In the past it was something I was not open to, but since my boyfriend really loves it, we talked about it, and I decided we could try it. He knew I was nervous about ...

Is it ok to schedule for casual sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5328 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I am a uni student. I went out once with this stranger whom I had a crush on for a long time. The first date was good. Unfortunately, things took an ugly turn and we both know that there will not be another date. We have no mutual friends. Despite ...

Is my fetish a way of coping with my troubled childhood?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - In my early teens I always thought submissive women were weak, forced into their situations and probably beaten by their boyfriends/husbands. I did extensive research on the subject; it truly interested me. I could not understand "these people" for ...

I'm worried that he doesn't feel the same way about me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I have been dating a very nice man for 2 months. I have worried that he doesn't seem to have feelings for me--at least not on the level that I'm feeling. I talked to him about this on Saturday. He said he has been told by others that he is ...

It feels like I am peeing when I orgasm!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Dear readers, (Warning this is kinds gross) I have recently found out that I'm very capable of squirting. At first I thought I peed, like everyone else but I read up on it and realized it is female ejaculation. But now I'm starting to think...

I want to reduce my sexual desire!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - My husband loves me alot but there is almost no sex in our marriage we are married for about 2 years now and we have sex only once in 2 or 3 months. I want to know a way how I can reduce my sexual desire/urge/energy, as no sex depresses me. My ...

Am I just confused about my sexuality?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I have had a crush on a girl for a year and a half and when i think about her i get really turned on. I get turned on by othere girls too though. I have always been interested in the female body more than the males since primary school. I remember ...

How can I light her fire again, now that she's post-menopause?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5328 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - I have been married to my wife for 23 yrs, over the yrs we have had many fights and even break ups due to my anger,I guess maybe that is the answered to my own question and reason for her actions and maybe i deseve whats comming to me. Recently i ...

My daughter told me she was abused by my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - My daughter who is now 18 years old, told me last night that my ex-husband sexually abused her when she was 12 years old. I need help! Can we still press charges against this sexual abuser? The incident occured in New York. Can we presecute him? ...

What are the four "bases"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - Hahahah I know that this is going to sound dumb but i dont really get what the "4 bases" of dating are. Can anyone explain ??????????...

Do you get pregnant from a blowjob?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - okay, i'm not really going to do this, but can a blowjob get you prgnant? in other words, if you swallow the sperm, is it possible?...

How can I be better with my tongue action?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - so i have a ? for all of the ladies. i have been told that im ok with my tounge if you konw what i mean. i dont want to be just ok. can you give me some pointers and tips and tricks to be great or better. this is kinda a self esteem thing. i pride ...

How does a guy give a girl a blowjob?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - ok this guy said he will give me a blow job ok i kinda know how a gurl gives a guy one but how does a guy give a girl one???? please help me im desperate...

Sometimes I think I'm gay, other times I don't?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - ok i have a problem at times i think im gay and then i don't, when i look at gay porn i believe im gay but after i masterbat to it, it makes a left and i feel stupid for doing it like what is wrong with me, and then there are girls i like and would ...

Sex hurts since I had children

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I am 37 years old. I have been married for 5 years come March. When we first got together we literally had sex 4-5 times every single day. I had two children with my husband in 2006. One was born in February and the other in December. When ever we ...