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Archived questions from: 16 September, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

He will not stop going on about having sex with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - Well theres this dude and hes really nice and confident. He got my number and started to txt me. It was all grand until he was started trying to persuede me to have sex with him! like i dunno if he was serious but he like wouldnt let it go. I am not ...

Ever since we had sex my g/f has been acting distant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - Hi im Zee. And my question is regarding me and my girlfriends relationship. We are both 15 and we've going out for over 2 months. Things have been going great.Untill the pst week. 5 days ago we had our first sexual experience with each other and it ...

How do I rub his G-spot and where is it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend told me that he read about the male G-Spot in some guys magazine. He read that a guy can cum just by rubbing his G-spot, which I thought was his penis, but everyone knows that already, so it didn't make sense. He said he is curio...

She had her first sexual intercourse but didn't bleed. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - Hi. I hav a question regarding my friend. She is a very shy girl she never talk to guys never had friendship with them so there is no means of having sex with anybody. She had an arranged marraige and she had her first sexual intercourse with her ...

Why do I avoid having vaginal sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - Hi, I am 23 I have two girlfriends who wants to have sex with me. but i fear guilty after having sex with them. although I am interested in sex with them. We dont have a long time plan or marriage plan as such. but fear of guilt after s...

Is this his way of saying he loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - For over a year, I've been in a strange relationship. We only get together to have sex about once a week. I’m 51, he’s 27. Of course, I have fallen in love with him. I know he has issues with being open and telling me how he feels. Yesterday he ...

I need a steady but she's not reliable, do I keep looking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - I have been seeing a 40 year old mother of 1 6 year old (girl)... I am 58... we have a great time together, seldom as it is... we met last year... I left her for florida for 5 months, came back and called her. Her schedule is crazy, work, child, e...

What are the laws on underage sex in Maine, USA?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - I recently posted a question about me having sex for the first time the weekend after this upcoming weekend. Im 14 and my girlfriend is 13 and she lost her virginity last year. I posted this question on a few other sites like this one but most of ...

I worry I'll lose it and presto! I do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - Hi Im a healthy male in a steady relationship of 2 years, we get on great- have plans for the future and are trying for a baby. About three months ago though i started having erection problems...it was when she went to go on top and i 'bent' i...

I recently lost close family member and feel numb but I know I'm pushing my husband away

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - Hi there. I wonder if anyone can give me some advice. I have wonderful and supportive husband who would do anything for me. I love him dearly. Recently I have lost a very close family relative and it has really shaken me up. I seem to have gone off ...

Penetration is painful, is it because I'm a beginner?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5341 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - So I've always been really tight down there. Like before it hurt to put one finger in. So I bought a very skinny cheap vibrator to help stretch Me out a bit. It worked. And soon enough I could put two fingers in with very little pain. So I decided I ...

Risk of STDs from masturbation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - hi im back with another question about trying to avoid stds/aids i was just wondering about me being sexualy active with myself like masturbation and was wondering if that gives you a bigger risk of geting a std and yes i know that condoms help ...

We had a good sex life, now she's not interested!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5341 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - I am 25, my gf is 23. we been together for nearly 2 years. we had really good sex life, but all of a sudden my gf start saying she dont feel like to have sex. its nearly a 2 month, why it can be/???...

How soon into a relationship should I reveal I'm a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - Hi cupid people, I know another 40 year old virginity rant but ah well - tis unique cos its all about me this time :) Basically I am a 24 (and 3 quarters) year old virgin although I'm not terrible looking and I have had ex's who have offered to ...

How do I convince my parents that my boyfriend is a decent guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - My parents forbid me from my boyfriend and his friends. I had two parties at my house one weekend while they were gone but my aunt was watching me and was aware of what was going on, plus my mom gave me permission to have people over. But that tha...

I adore my girlfriend but she is pushing me away

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - hi. i have a slight delema.Me and my girl friend are 15 and we've been going out for a month now.i absolutely adore her. And she says she loves me and thinks about me all the time. But she doesnt show it.We just hug and/or a quick kiss. Nothing ...

How do I make foreplay more intense?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - Ok so i think foreplay is very important to make things more exciting i enjoy foreplay very much.im very experienced but things get old after awhile.does anyone have any ideas i can learn from?id love to hear them!...

In your opinion whats the best birth control method?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - Okay so I am an 18 year old female i have never been on birth control before and was wondering if any one knew how to determine which form is the best for you any suggestions? I was thinking of trying the patch but don't know if its effective or not ...

First sex partner

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5341 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - I'm 20 and i lost my virginity a couple months back. I don't find that i'm very satisfied with intercourse. Oral is fine. But honestly a lot of times i don't even feel anything during sex. My boyfriend is average size and he's older and has ...

Any tips on how to make a man go crazy in bed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - Ok so i no how to please a man.its very simple.i no it depends on the man, but what kind of things can i do to make a man go crazy for?what guys love the most?clothes on and off.touching and not touching.im very experienced so im up for anything.any ...

Why do I get the feeling I need to pee when I have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend of over a year and a half. Everytime when we have sex, he always plays with my clit. But I keep getting the feeling like I'm going to pee or something and have to make him stop. He says that he wants to see if I would ...

Is wanting to have sex all the time normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - Ok so im 16 going to be 17 in the spring and i have developed an obsession with sex.ive had about 4 partners.i want to have sex all the time i feel like im addicted,im guessing its just my hormons but it still dosent seem normal.but the thing is, ...