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I have a great desire for sex but feel nothing when he touches me

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17 September 2009 (F - i have greate desire for sex, but when my boyfriend touches me i do not feel anything not even during intercourse,i do not get warm even, i enjoy while i rub my clit or when he licks me there, what is it? how can i cure this problem? friend please ...

We broke up and I slept with his best friend

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17 September 2009 (F - one year ago my boyfriend broke up with me for no reason.I went off the deep end and did something i will regret for the rest of my life.I slept with one of his best friends. Awhile later me and my ex hung out and were talking, awhile later we both ...

How many times can most women climax in a row?

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17 September 2009 (M - I just got out of a three year relationship with a girl that was not really right for me (there was love, but a great deal of immaturity), but she was really fun to serve in bed. (I mostly gave to her, not the reverse, and we only went to third ...

Should I say "I like you but I won't sleep with you"?

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17 September 2009 (F - If I had sex with this guy would he think I was easy? I have known this guy for about three years, we have never dated but french kissed on a couple of occasions, we know each other through mutual friends. We have texted each other but he nev...

I cant seem to let go! What's wrong with me?

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17 September 2009 (F - Hi, I am going to be totally honest here because I think I am missing something, I am a 24 year old female, who has never had a proper boyfriend before, I never seem to click with anyone, however I have met a cute guy who seems interested, we h...

What did he mean when he said we would have passionate sex?

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17 September 2009 (F - i was chatting to a friend of mine a few weeks ago online who i have know for years but lives in a different country and we were talking about when i go over and visit him soon and we got onto the subject of sex and he said to me that he would not ...

How do I get my boyfriend to want to please me?

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17 September 2009 (F - my boyfriend doesnt seem to care about how to please me, when he fingures me he does it cause he wants to. he wont do it if its just me that wants it.... cause i admit im to young to have sex and im sexually active its how i keep myself in controll ...

A question for the ladies about contraceptives...

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17 September 2009 (M - As a matter of interest,how many of you girls use spermicidal contraceptive inserts on their own? Is it because condoms prevent the closest intimate contact? I Know that they are no good for preventing STDs....

Sex is extremely painful for me. What can I do?

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17 September 2009 (F - Sex is painful for me. I've been to the doctor, and she can't find anything wrong with me, although it was very painful when she put anything inside me. She said it's probably all in my head. I don't think anybody gets how frustrating hearing that ...

I keep losing my erection during sex. What can I do?

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17 September 2009 (M - I'm having some sexual problems. I've been sexually active for about four years now, and I have never had any problems with my erections. However, this summer I experienced some signs of E.D, which was very stressful. I went to a doctor and they ...

Am I a hoe because I agreed to have sex with my boyfriend?

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17 September 2009 (F - My boyfriend is 19 and I am 16. We live in Australia so it is legal. We were making out the other day and he started feeling my breasts under my shirt and vagina on top of my pants. He quietly asked me if I'd have sex with him and I was so turned ...

I faked an orgasm and pulled out after only a minute. Is there a chance she will be pregnant?

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17 September 2009 (M - My girlfriend and me had sex last night. We were both a little drunk, but we made the use of the tow condoms we had. About 20 minutes after sex, she gets a little excited, and asks me to put it inside her. Even though I was in the state I was, I ...

B/f had alot of partners I was a virgin before him

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17 September 2009 (F - this is kinda personal but here we go I was a virgin before I met my current boyfriend, and he has had his fair share of partners, we havnt been having sex for long, and I feel like I'm awful at it, Im very self critical, and feel like he could al...

How do you make a back rub sexy?

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17 September 2009 (F - My boyfriend says that back massages are a turn-on for him, but they have never seemed particularly sexy to me. Since I can't see the sexual aspect of it, it's been hard for me to incorporate them into our foreplay because I can't figure out how to ...

I got talked into having sex and now he says he's not ready for a relationship

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17 September 2009 (F - I having bee seeing this guy. He went to ontario for a month then came back on sunday in which i picked him up from the airport and paid for his plane ticket. My truck died on saturday so i had to pay for a rental car to drive him 3 hours back to ...

Guys only: Wonering about the G spot

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17 September 2009 (M - "GUYS ONLY!!" I would like to read stories of your guys stimulation of the G-spot and how you pleasure it. Where is it located? How do you reach it? Tell me yah stories!!...

Fake it? Or not?

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17 September 2009 (F - okay the everpopular question..is it better to fake an orgasm to give your guy more confidence..or is it better to just let him know he hasn't..help! ...

I'm aroused before sex, but not during it! How does this make sense?

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17 September 2009 (F - hi I have been with my boyfriend 1 year and 5 months every time he touch me or said something to me I get horny but when I'm having sex with him I don't get horny at all what does that mean? do that mean I don't love him because I feel like I love ...

To guys who have kept their virginity into their 20s

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17 September 2009 (F - As a guy who has kept his virginity into his 20s, how would you feel if your potential first girlfriend had over 6 years of sexual experience? Could this relationship still work? Would you be wishing that she had waited too?...

I get aroused thinking about her telling me about getting laid by other guys. How do I convince her to tell me?

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17 September 2009 (M - I have been on and off (mostly off) with a girl for about 10 years and we are still good friends. We hang out still and occasionally are intimate. I am still very turned on by her and when I masturbate, I normally I look at her pictures. When I was ...

Sex with pregnant wife?

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17 September 2009 (M - I can Have sex, when my wife is 10week of Pregnant. kindly advice me?...

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