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Archived questions from: 11 September, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I don't want to be just a bed mate for him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

11 September 2009 (F - Hello Everyone. Any advice or similar experiences would be most welcome! And if there are any guys out there - I would so love your take on everything as my male friends don't seem to be much help at the moment!! I met this guy a month ago - grea...

Am I asking for sex too much?

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11 September 2009 (F - I am a newlywed (20 years old) to a wonderful husband (25 years old). We got married in May, and we have always had a great sex life. Before we were married, he wanted sex every time we were together and I was sometimes hesitant, but would still ...

How do you give a blowjob and a handjob?

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11 September 2009 (F - ok so i want to give my boyfriend head but im really nervous like what if i bite him by accident and what if he dont like it and also i want to give him a hand job nut i have no ideal will someone please tell me how to give a bj and hj ?? please...

She cut me off a year ago, and I'm getting tempted to cheat.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

11 September 2009 (M - OK, so I have made a complete mess of my relationship with a woman I have been 'cohabitating' with for 23 years... I have made a complete mess with our finances (I would say mainly due to my selfishness but there are other issues involved like ...

What is sexy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

11 September 2009 (F - Sometimes people think sexy is wearing something sheer and being nude, to me sexy is inside a person anyone can be sexy like what they do, wear, say or just touching me. Maybe nice red roses and candle light dinners are geting played out what you ...

During sex he went too deep and I started bleeding! Is there something wrong with me?

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11 September 2009 (F - Me and my boyfriend was having and it went in deep too deep to the point were it hurt, after i started bleeding, but i was due on so we think its probably that, but were just wondering if it could be something else, if it is my period then i have ...

Since we had sex for the first time last week I keep getting sexual urges!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

11 September 2009 (M - My girlfriend and i have sex for the first time last week, the night before I went on holiday. Ever since ive been on holiday I get sexual urges and every girl I see looks like my girlfriend, why is this? Also Ive never been able to give my girlfrie...

My boyfriend said that if I loved him I would have sex with him! Why cant he respect my wishes and wait?

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11 September 2009 (F - My bf said if I loved him, if I cared about him and if I wanted to make him happy, then I would have sex with him. Why would he say this? It really hurts for him to say this to me because I DO care, and I do love him and I so badly want to ma...

How do I get rid of this rash I have on my butt?

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11 September 2009 (F - Hi everyone. Please give a solution for my problem. I have dark rashes on my butt...i have tried many creams and did home treated but the rashes are still there. Due to this rashes im shy to have sex with my boyfriend. Coz i think my boyfriend will ...

I don't really feel sex. Whats wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

11 September 2009 (F - OMG help me!!! wen I masturbate nothing happens. I'll rub on my G spot but nothing.. it doesnt appeal to me one bit not even a little!! my boyfriend will do it but nothing either.. sex feels ok but not like what its made out to be for me...i fake ...

I told my boyfriend I want to stop having sex for a month and he said he would get his pleasure elsewhere!

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11 September 2009 (F - ugh ok so obviously alot of people have read my questions now let me ask you this. I told my boyfriend that I feel like I'm in a more physical relationship than an emotional one. he never kisses me unless i do it first and when i do its onl for like ...

Is he just scared and will he ever come back around?

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11 September 2009 (F - This situation is so strange to me, but I come looking for insight- anything- to help me understand his perspective. I have had a secret sexual relationship with this man for a few months now. We have actually only had sex a few times both knowing ...

My boyfriend wont spend the time on foreplay and sex is getting painful!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

11 September 2009 (F - My boyfriend and I enjoy sex together a lot. But lately things have been horrible. We both kinda like our sex rough and never had a problem. However, he just started graduate school and is working full time so he feels crushed for time. I like to ...

Questions about STDs...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

11 September 2009 (M - I have this question that I never asked anyone about STDs, probably because it's stupid. It's kind of hard to explain. People tell you that abstinence is the best way to prevent STDs. If you and your partner are both virgins, then it is safe ...

She's willing to do sexual things, but won't say that she loves me?

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11 September 2009 (M - !girls please help!!!well im 14 and very nervous because the other day i had the love of my life come over to hang out. and we were laying under the stars and she seemed very happy. so i was happy and i told her i loved her and she said for me 2 ...

He has gone off sex, but masturbates all the time. Help guys!

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11 September 2009 (F - So I need advice from all the guys out there please... My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half - and have lived together for nearly half of that time - he's 27 and I'm 25. Our sex life is pretty inconsistent I would say - ...

The first time I had sex I didnt feel anything

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11 September 2009 (F - I was a virgin?! But the first time I didnt feel anything? Why?? Am I still a virgin??...

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