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Emotional issues causing problems in the bedroom?

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Question - (8 September 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 September 2009)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

I'm in a sad situation. My husband never told me he wants to leave. Yet before his erection problem started,we had the biggest fight, when he accidentally told me,that he never loved me at all,he just stuck with me. And 2 weeks after his erection collapsed in the middle of intercourse. Since than ,he never had a normal erection, and we cooled out sexually completely. He went to medical investigation, but they never found anything bad what would cause this. Can you imagine, he actually lost it ,for emotional reasons and never got it back? Did you ever hear anything like that? Do you think is it possible?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2009):

Stress and Depression- Stress is the predominant psychological cause of impotence in men. Stress results in low libido and drives passion for making love out of your life. But things are not just limited to low libido, stress also affects the strength of your erections and make you impotent. Just like stress, depression also tends to take a toll on your sexual health. He needs to see a therapist as soon as possible..

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2009):

Well,it can take a very long time to find out what went wrong. I think, you must make a choice ,if you want to do this much longer, or just stop suffering,and leave.

I think, if your husband is not motivated, it will never gets better.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2009):

Yes. I was in a relationship for 6 and 1/2 years with a woman that I dearly love. She left abruptly for reasons unrelated to us. The problem is, she also cut contact with me because, as she said, she didn't want to hurt me.

It took a while to get get the magic back. Its all a matter of depression. Sex is a mind thing. If you're convinced you don't love someone, getting an erection is going to be very difficult to do.

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