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Archived questions from: 14 September, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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How to initiate a threesome if your shy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

14 September 2009 (F - I am a 20 year female old college student. Ive been dating my boyfriend for nearly 3 years and think its time I bring another woman into our bedroom to spice things up. Thing is, Im completely antisocial. Im a computer programming student, shy, and ...

My LONG story and current situation!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

14 September 2009 (M - Right this is a VERY long one.. Back in October last year i was seeing another girl casually, i had been single for a long time and well we began talking and a few things lead to another we never slept together though i told her i didn't want sex,...

Dreamed I had sex with a stranger

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14 September 2009 (F - i had a dream that i had sex with someone that i didnt even know. what is that dream trying to tell me? is that normal?...

I'm in so much pain after sex but I've had sex before!

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14 September 2009 (F - right - sorry if this question shouldnt be asked on here, im just gettin a bit annoyed now, im seventeen and im single, but for the past few months (ish) ive been meeting this guy, (age 23 for if it matters) we met at a party in july and since then ...

Raw egg as lube? BS or not?

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14 September 2009 (M - A friend sais somthing that i found odd, so i thought id ask if it was true or not. he said somthing about Raw Egg Whites can be used as sex lube.I called BS but i got to thinking about it, and it kinda makes sence. so am i right about the BS part ...

Is she just stressed or cheating?

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14 September 2009 (M - Here's the thing.I am 18,my girlfriend is 16 going on 17.We usually have a great sex life and do it whenever we can.However,lately,since she has started college,our sex life (and me for that matter) seem to be the last thing on her mind.It used to ...

How can I reach orgasm more easily during sex?

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14 September 2009 (M - I'm having trouble reaching orgasm during sex. I am a 21 year old male and have been dating my girlfriend for a while. We've been having sex regularly, and my girlfriend has told me repeatedly that she's enjoyed the sex very much. The problem is, I ...

Why did he have sex with me, when he knows he's dumping me?

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14 September 2009 (F - my boyfriend.. he'd been soo distant for quite a while now so i confronted him and he started yelling at me callin me a nag.. but we made up after the argument..cos he said sorry he was just angry and begged me to forgive him..we made love.. i...

He left how do I get him back?

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14 September 2009 (F - he left for another!i know he loves me but has gone to her for sex,cause im one of those who'll wait to get married... how could i make him come back begging to get back with me? ...

My little sister walked in on us having sex, what do I do?

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14 September 2009 (F - Okay, so basically, last night me and my boyfriend were messing around, i had my trowsers down but my top still on when my little sister who's only 12 walked in, we managed to sort ourselves out abit before she completley saw everything but i feel ...

Is this normal when rimming?

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14 September 2009 (F - hey guys =] recently me and my fella starting messing around rimming each other, using flavoured lubes n licking 'em off. But everytime im going to go do it to him, he'll run off to the loo and return a few mins later (im pretty sure hes havi...

Why did he deliberately have unprotected sex with me when he knew I could get pregnant?

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14 September 2009 (F - My ex (father to my daughter) and I have cultivated a friendship or so I thought after fourteen years of separation. As consenting adults we were involved in consensual intercourse. However, he purposely came inside me knowing I can get pregnant. ...

How do I fullfill his sexual needs without feeling uncomfortable? Try it again or don't?

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14 September 2009 (F - My husband and I have brought other people into the bedroom before. Only 2 times have we had this experience. I was uncomfortable with it but Im trying to please my husband who enjoys it. We have rules, no kissing on the mouth and no sexual ...

My sexual and drinking behavior is out of control and is now frightening me. Please help

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14 September 2009 (F - Hello all. I am an attractive female with a nice ok regular life who does not have sex very much by choice, but then when I do, I tend to go nuts, and am worried about my behaviour, as I am indulging in sporadic risky, drunken threesom...

Her past with men I know is ruining us!

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14 September 2009 (M - I work in a small company, with a ration of only eight other men including myself. I met my girlfriend at a work related function, as she herself use to work there until only a few months before I started. I sensed a curious vibe from my male col...

Should I get outside my marriage what my husband won't give?

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14 September 2009 (F - I am 30 years old and am married to a 38 year old truck driver. We have been for 3 years, my husband is not the type that tells me he loves me and he can go without sex with me for weeks. He does not pay any attention to me even after he has been ...

Why do I always wait for my FWB to make the first move?

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14 September 2009 (F - I'm in a friends with benefits relationship with a guy. Since it began, he's always been the one to call/text me about wanting to hook up, which I hadn't noticed until he pointed it out to me recently. I don't have feelings for him, nor do I see ...

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