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How can I tell if I'm tight enough?

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Question - (28 September 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 29 September 2009)
A age 22-25, anonymous writes:

im always self conscious that im not, excuse me here, "tight" enough for my boyfriend. im gona be 16 soon and hes 3 years older. hes not that big, just average, but everytime we have sex or he fingers me, i feel like im not as tight as i should be. how can i tell if im tight enough without asking him? can i compare to how many fingers he uses (1 sometimes 2)? alll answers are appreciated

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2009):

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oh no we have sex all the time. i have had what youve referred to as "full intercourse". jus thought id clear that up :) thankk uu everyonee. answers are much appreciated!

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A male reader, Candleman United States +, writes (29 September 2009):

Candleman agony auntOne thing to consider is that you can tighten your vagina on your own. The action that you use to cut off your pee will also tighten your vagina during sex. To explain more...when you pee and you want to stop the flow, you squeeze this and it will tighten your vagina during sex.

There are things called kegel exercises. Look this up and it will tell you the same thing. They even have kegel balls that are essential excercise equipment for this...

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A male reader, outthebox United States +, writes (29 September 2009):

I'm sure your tight. Unless you have had multiple kids you have nothing to worry about. Your probably going to regret the whole thing when your older anyways.

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A male reader, Illithid United States +, writes (29 September 2009):

Illithid agony auntYou're 15. You haven't had full intercourse yet. You're tight.

But know that the size of your vagina is going to change dramatically. When you get hot and bothered, it will DOUBLE in length and width, it will become much looser and more elastic as you get wetter and want him more.

But besides that, 1 to 2 fingers is tight from my experience. I could just barely get 3 into my last girl, but barely and not far. Two was her limit, but I had room to move them like that, and she was a tight girl.

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