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Sex hurts since I had children

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Question - (28 September 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 October 2009)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I am 37 years old. I have been married for 5 years come March. When we first got together we literally had sex 4-5 times every single day. I had two children with my husband in 2006. One was born in February and the other in December. When ever we have intercourse now it hurts really bad.I feel like knives are cutting my flesh. We use alot of gel but it does not help. It hurts so bad to the point I hate sex. I dont want my husband to go without sex so I continue to have sex with him. What is my problem? Can it be corrected?

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (3 October 2009):

SirenaBlusera agony auntSatin is right that you need to see a doctor, because there's no way to diagnose here. That is very true. However, it couldn't hurt for you to ask your doctor to test for cystitis (a bladder problem) to rule that out. It's not life threatening, not to worry, but it can be really painful. There are many treatments.

Having said that, you need to go to a doctor and get to the bottom of this. :)

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (3 October 2009):

SirenaBlusera agony auntSatin is right that you need to see a doctor, because there's no way to diagnose here. That is very true. However, it couldn't hurt for you to ask your doctor to test for cystitis (a bladder problem) to rule that out. It's not life threatening, not to worry, but it can be really painful. There are many treatments.

Having said that, you need to go to a doctor and get to the bottom of this. :)

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (28 September 2009):

You should see a doctor. Noboby here is medically qualified. Check it all with your doctor.

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