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anonymous
writes:I am a 22 year old female that wants to have sex but I can't find a good partner that would do it with no strings attached Am I wrong for wanting a very sexy man to put it on in my area that wont kiss and tell and that will promise not to force a relationship on me?? Where would be the place to go to find this male sex buddy?? I just need one. Reply to this Question
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (4 September 2009):
 Know anyone? It is sex with no strings. Why do you need to know him?Casual sex is easy, just go to any club and respond easily to anyone who approaches.If you want him to be nice and friendly and be a buddy. Then it ain't no strings attached sex.The fact that you are coming up with excuses, shows this ain't for you. You want a sex BUDDY. A buddy is a friend, a close friend in fact.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (2 September 2009):
What the other posters are saying, there is some truth to women not being able to have "no strings" sex/relationships. I have in the past, and for me it's fine as long as I NEVER talk to the guy again. But if he starts calling and wanting to have future encounters or even starts taking me out on dates, then my emotions start taking over and I become interested in him relationship wise. I know you think you can do it, and have the mentality of a guy, but you're not going to have the mentality of one ever (and why would you want to?) unless you make it exactly as it is--sex one time with that person nothing more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell that's not true I'm not having it because I don't know anyone where I am I'll be here for a year at the end of this month and I refuse to have any incounters with the men that I work with.
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reader, LazyGuy +, writes (1 September 2009):
Anywhere?
But you are setting yourself up for a broken heart.
Some women can do "no strings attached" sex. You ain't one of them, if you were, you would be having it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2009): Hey there are loads of sites out there where you can meet people.
You need to be aware that there are a lot of downsides to this move and that the upsides may be somewhat shortlived.
To be honest it sounds to me like you have given up on ever finding a guy who will satisfy bothe emotional and physical aspects of the relationship, which is a pity we are out there.
Still good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm not your average chick Mr Anonymous I know how to get what I want and be done I Have a mind mentality of a man and I Guess thats because I've been hurt so many times I've been used for sex when I thought it was actually a relationship. . . . But I feel if people start telling the truth about what they're looking for in the beginning there would be no missed communication and you wouldn't recieve mixed signals because you both know what it is that you want and need from one another with that said. . . .Thank you everyone that answered my question I really appreciate it and I will try all these places out.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (1 September 2009):
 Try Craigslist.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2009): I've fallen for this before ...the woman always ends up wanting more ...sex is emotional as well as physical for women, so eventually when your giving them multiples ,,they want to 'keep you' ..unless your a sex addict then wait for something worthwhile.
I never listen when women say this kind of thing anymore.
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reader, AzzTeejay  +, writes (1 September 2009):
Dont do it, wait for the right man.
When the man you want to marry comes along, it will break his heart and he will suffer till the day he dies.
I beg you, for the happiness of you and your future partner. Wait for a man you love.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (1 September 2009):
Bars or clubs...plenty of d-bags willing to have no strings relationships.
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