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writes:hey guys! im 20 years old. I've been talking to this boy for like 3 months now, he's perfect, sweet, and stoburn there's times we fight a lot but we make up right after I have never felt so right in my life....problem is that he only says that he wants me and he adores me and that im amazing, does he really like me? because its hard to know when he doesn't show it much and tell me, he's a great guy..do you think he really likes me.? I need advice please help id greatly appreciate it. thank you Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2009): thanks a bunch! helped a lot!
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reader, big ron + ♥, writes (9 October 2009):
it`s possible that he really likes you. though it`s a bit concerning that he can only come up with things like "you`re amazing". could be that he doesn`t see the real you...like he`s projecting an image onto you. does he explain why you`re amazing...the particulars of it, why he thinks so etc. it does sound like he doesn`t know why he likes you, or maybe he doesn`t know how to express it. talk to him about it, find out why he says these things. good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2009): Well, I would say that he's difnitely interested. Are you two hanging out a lot? Are you spending time with each other (apart from physical intimacy)? If the answer is yes, than yeah, he likes you.
If he's only hanging out with you for sex etc. then you might be booty call-- which means he likes having sex with you and doesn't necessarily preclude a future relationship (though that may be unlikely).
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reader, FrequentFlyer +, writes (9 October 2009):
If a guy says something like "I want you" and especially in a flirtacious overtone then yes he does want you. I definitely wouldn't say someone is amazing or that I adore them unless I knew there could be some chemistry between the both of us. Maybe he doesn't know how to show it? by saying some of the things he is saying, that is probably how he is showing it and doesn't know how else to go about it.
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