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Casual random sex

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Question - (1 March 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 March 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

seen this women around she is pretty, 25yrs old and just recently sent me an email sayin she wouldn't mind having sex with me because she likes my built body. I'm 18, she knows that and she said she wants to do roleplay sex, which is why she wants to do it with me because of my body.

It was so random to be asked like this. She clearly just wants a physical relationship. Never done this before, i want to go ahead. Do you lot agree? There's aren't no down sides to this are there?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009):

Ah Emily has brought up a good point. I remember a few years ago, there was a rather attractive girl of East Indian descent. Dresses very sexy, very feminine and when she spoke, she sounded educated and well-learned. On top of that, she willing slept with almost any man that went her way.

Found out later that all she wanted to do was bag a guy, have a kid and leech off of him forever.

Just something to make a note of.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (1 March 2009):

If you are up for it, aren't at risk of developing feelings, and USE CONDOMS!!!!!!... Then no problem.

If no condoms, then no sex. (There are women out there who go out looking for a healthy sperm donor, so unless you fancy being a part time dad and paying for a kid then bring your own CONDOMS.)

If you want a girlfriend, or think you might fall for her then No sex.

If she has any feelings for you other than wanting a good time then No sex.

Be smart and have fun, but be smart most of all.

Good Luck!! xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009):

Well, I'm guessing you've had Sex Ed right? So you know the obvious things to look out for. Casual sex = to more chances of getting STD's.

So how do you avoid STD's? Think "Sex Ed" again. Condoms help avoid STD's. Less interchanging of bodily fluids excluding sweat, unless there is a cut somewhere. Don't forget incurable herpes.

If you really want to avoid any chance of getting STD's altogether, what do you think you'll need to do? Think "Sex Ed" again. Simply don't do it.

However, since your swollen member is twitching with anticipation, I'll tell you the only real downside aside from possibly contracting STD's is if you develop an emotional connection with her and she doesn't want it. Other than that, if you want to do it, go for it. Make sure to get yourself checked before you sleep with someone else afterwards.

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