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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:hi can someone please tell me what i do wrong do i not know what sex like everytime i have had sex with my ex i have not been able to orgasm is it me or is there something im not doing right he always seeems to be able to cum but i have told him i did everytime we have had sex but i havent i only told him that cos i didnt want to upset him can someone please help
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reader, lexstar  +, writes (28 June 2009):
i know exactly how you feel!
my guy spent yeeeeears with the foreplay, and it was amazing!! and i mean, the best iv ever had, but still, no orgasm.
i talked to my friend about it, and he said, just relax and enjoy yourself.
i know this sounds obvious, and maybe unhelpful,
but you'll be so worried about not orgasming and disappointing your fella that you wont be relaxed.
lie back, enjoy it, close your eyes and really focus on the pleasure. . . not the end result
i promise you, once your relaxed and having sex for fun, (not for the sake of it) you'll be moaning in no time ;]]
--another point to make is you should feel close to your guy, make sure you trust him, theres lots of open convosation,
once i realised how much me and my guy were compatible and i could fully trust him, he had me going in no time
good luck xxx
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): for a guy to cum its a lot easier than for a women . its more difficult to cum through penetration only great for him but not so for you. ask him for more foreplay more kisses cuddles strokes and caresses. get him to stroke your hips and legs be more loving then when you feel ready and he enters you caress your clitoris as he is in you and see if you an cum then
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