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Unprotected sex with two different guys -- could I be pregnant?

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Question - (27 June 2009) 11 Answers - (Newest, 1 July 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

three weeks ago i had sex with 2 different guys in 2 days. one of them was my boyfriend, one was a guy i met at a party that i went to with some friend's. usually i don't have sex with my boyfriend unprotected but it was just one time and he told me it would be a tiny chance of me getting pregnant not big at all so i let him do it cuz we were out of condoms and it was my birthday. the other guy, i was really drunk so i didn't care anyways (oops). so now its been three weeks since then and my period seems late like a week to me or something and i threw up yesterday and the day before and smells are lots stronger to me and i normally don't barf ever. and my boobs are a little bigger i think kinda sore too. could i have gotten pregnant just by having unprotected sex those 2 times? could i have gotten pregnant with both of them? like, could one guy get me pregnant, and the other one get me pregnant the next day to? i think thats possible rite?! maybe it doesnt happen alot but it happens to someone somewhere? i am freaking out!! if i get pregnant with that strangers kid too and with my boyfriends kid at the same time i really don't know how i could explain that to my boyfriend cuz if i remember well enough the guy i hooked up with at the party was black and my boyfriend is the the whitest dude i've ever seen like super blonde and pale like an albinoe and my boyfrined and i are really broke i dont know if i can afford 2 take care of 2 babies. im only 22. help. i dont know what to do.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009):

shouldnt you know better at 22?

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A female reader, ffogalilly United States +, writes (29 June 2009):

I would go visit your doctor, there is probably a good chance that you could be pregnant. I think your boyfriend manipulated you into having unprotected sex, one thing I don't understand is why you're not on birth control.

I understand how you feel though, you're scared and really worried that you're pregnant. I would not rely on HPT they are never accurate, go see your doctor right away. I really doubt you will have two babies by two different fathers, that is like really, really, rare. Just learn from this mistake and never let anyone take advantage of you again, and get yourself better informed about sex. Unprotected sex could lead to pregnancy, but also to other things, such as HIV and all the STD's.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009):

Man.. I watched that video. Can you imagine having it posted all over the world that you cheated on your finacee?

Wow.. anyway. They kept referring to it as one in a million, and if it's something that can make it on the news, it's probably not something you should stress over happening to you.

~Sy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009):

It sounds to me like your bf is a manipulating dumba$$. First he tried to convince you to have sex that one time can't get you pregnant, and now he'ss telling you that the bumpy rash on his penis is from masturbating?

I seriously doubt it. I think you need to stop having sex with him right now and just break up with him all together. He doesn't seem to really care about you, i'm sorry to say.

~Sy.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009):

Hi. I was just reading over this. I do believe female Anon is correct. If she had sex in 2 consecutive days, as i think the poster of the question is implying (technically 24 hours between encounters) and she did double ovulate within this time (epecially within 2-4 days after having these 2 unprotected encounters), being that sperm can survive in the body for 5 days, and being that it takes time for the fertilized egg to implant into the uterus, wouldn't it be possible for her to get pregnant with some very unidentical twins? It most definitely is a possibility, but such a tiny one! Maybe very rare, but not totally implausible! Here in the states I believe a woman actually did get pregnant with twins from different fathers recently (one was black and one was white). I remember seeing it on the news.

http://www.multiplemom.com/articles/twins-with-different-fathers.html

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/30864533/

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009):

I am just adding to my previous answer (with the links to STD articles) - it is possible to become pregnant at the same time by 2 males:

Cats usually release more than one egg each time they ovulate. So it is common to see a litter of kittens that all look very different - they can all have different fathers.

While human females usually only release one egg at a time, some release more - that's why unidentical twins exist (they are each made from different eggs and different sperm). If you have a family history of unidentical twins, there is a higher chance that you sometimes release 2 eggs in one ovulation.

If you do ovulate 2 eggs, and you have sperm from 2 different men inside you, there is a chance that one sperm from each man reaches one egg each, and both grow into babies.

There is another factor that reduces the chance of that happening - sperm are agressive, and actually "protect" your eggs from other sperm that come after them. (It's a result of a thing called Sperm Competition). So the second guy's sperm have to get through the barricade of the first guy's sperm, which is possible.

Just a bit of logic to help you guess your chances of that happening.

Sperm competition: http://www.sextoyspy.com/ShowSexOracleArticle.aspx?ID=19

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009):

Take an emergency contraceptive pill ASAP (within 72 hours of having unprotected sex the first time).

Yes, it sounds like your boyfriend has an STD, not surprising if he sleeps around. It is VERY EASY to catch an STD, not just from penetrative sex but from oral sex too, even once. You should get tested.

Here are 3 very common STDs - read about them (symptoms, how you can catch them, how many people have them).

Herpes: http://www.sextoyspy.com/ShowSexOracleArticle.aspx?ID=23

Chlamydia: http://www.sextoyspy.com/ShowSexOracleArticle.aspx?ID=22

Gonorrhea: http://www.sextoyspy.com/ShowSexOracleArticle.aspx?ID=20

From now on, use condoms. Some STDs can prevent you having babies later in life and some can kill. Also, there is a high chance of becoming pregnant from one instance of unprotected sex (not a tiny chance like your boyfriend said).

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009):

i posted the question

do i need a perscription to get a pregnancy test? ive never gotten 1 before.

i know it was wrong 2 cheat on my boyfriend but the week before i cheated on him i found out he cheated on me 3 times with differant girls so i guess when i was drunk i stopped caring about being faithfull to him cuz of what he did to me.

do u think i could have caughten a std cuz i did notice in the last week that my boyfriend had a wierd bumpy rash on his penis that i never have seen before and i asked him about it and he told me it was cuz of masterbating but he masterbates all the time nothing new for him so now when i think about it shouldnt he have a rash all the time and not just now?

i dont know much about stds i always figured that you have to be exposed to someone lots before you get enough of one for it 2 b serious. i guess i have alot to learn?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009):

It can only be with one of em....1st suggestion would be to take a...pregnancy test. Got drunk huh? Mmm bad excuse though, but well hope you do tell him, coz you will have to take a paternity test.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009):

If you know this little about conception and are this irresponsible about protection, then you should not be having sex. No.. you cannot get pregnant twice from two different intercourses. Even twins are made by the same sperm. If you were already pregnant from the first night, then you can not get pregnant for the nexg nine months.

Good greif girl.. where is your remorse for cheating on your boyfriend?

Of course you can be pregnant. you had unprotected sex so that's the way it works. All you can do is wait and keep taking preg. tests.

~Sy.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009):

You need to take better care of yourself and be more conscientious than that! If you had sex unprotected, especially if they did not pull out, then you definitely could be pregnant. If you are drinking, smoking, anything you should not be doing if you are pregnant, Stop. You should get to the store and get yourself a pregnancy test.

If you are not pregnant, stop fooling around and grow up.

If you are pregnant you are going to have to stop fooling around and grow up quickly anyways, and you are going to have to make a decision... that which only you can decide.

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