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I'm a lesbian but I'm unsure of how to have sex with a girl?

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Question - (27 June 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 17 July 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *aber_tooth92 writes:

So, I am a lesbian, and I have kissed girls and made out with them and stuff but, im still unsure about how to have sex with them..My girlfriend really wants to, but i dont know how, so i always make an excuse. with out being to crude, can anyone help?

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A female reader, Dom123 United Kingdom +, writes (17 July 2009):

Ok, first, kiss her, make-out with her. Then get naked with her, then go into a position. The best one i feel is where you or she is lying on their back and your head is facing down to her vagina. Lick this area and then she can lick yours. Put your fingers into her vagina, lick her vagina and spit on it. Rub boobs and suck them. Put your boobs into her face and rub your vaginas together. Use toys too. Watch porn together and remove items of clothing playing spin the bottle.

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A female reader, XxCatie?babyxX United States +, writes (30 June 2009):

i agree with asking your girlfriend shell probably be happy that shes your first

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009):

Talk to her , tell her you arnt so experienced and if she is can she show you how to pleasure her and how she can please you she will be happy that you want to learn and she will be happy that you are honest no one is an expert first time ... Honesty is the best policy.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (27 June 2009):

Swwetie, how can you say you are ready to have sex when you are too scared to even have a conversation with your girlfriend?

If it's your first time with a girl then tell her. Let her be in charge and show you what to do.

It's your hands and tongue that will do most of the work so see what she does and then do it back.

If you are not ready to take the next step though, there is no shame in telling her that and staying where you are for now.

Good Luck!! xx

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