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writes:I am confused as I said before I am married , and my husband has asked me several times about bringing another man into our bed. We even have named my dildo, at this point I am fine with the dildo in my mouth, or pussy while my husbands penis is in the other, But Iam not sure about another man. He has talked about this for more than 5 years now I want to keep him happy, and it is a little exciting .but not sure anyone please help me.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (28 December 2009):
 A common question and a common answer:
Be REALLY certain that BOTH of you have thought this out completely and then THINK some more.
Simpler problems:
1. The other man is better at it/has a bigger penis.
2. You get pregnant.
3. STD's
4. Love develops.
5. The other woman (where would you get a single guy)
6. The other man wants sex more then your husband.
What are your limits, what are your husbands and what of the 3rd party?
For most people, sex is to personal and involves to many no-go areas to get an outside in the bedroom. Because it is the bedroom. Where does he sleep? Or does he drop his load and go home? Is that the sex you are having right now?
Sometimes fantasies need to stay fantasies.
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reader, Jager  +, writes (28 December 2009):
to be honest i dont not think that a marriage is the type of relationship for a threesome. If he has these idea's then he is obviously bisexual and you might want to question who this other person might be as he may be seeing somreone else and just be looking for aproval.
Be very carefull in this situation it is very difficult to have sex with someone and not be emotionally attached to them but to have sex with to people at the same time would be so much more difficult
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (28 December 2009):
 Would you like to have experience with another man? If not, then simply refuse to go along with the idea.
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