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Is the feeling of being ignored common in threesomes?

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Question - (27 August 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 14 September 2009)
A male Canada age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Recently my wife and I carried out a threesome with my best friend that she had been fantisising about for some time now.She had this night all planned out with a dinner and drinks to follow.She was dressed in a transparent white spandex dress that just covered her ass cheeks and was flaunting her body off in front of us all night.Well one thing led to the next and we both started feeling her up and before I knew it we were in the bedroom.What I didn't expect to happen did.My wife and my buddy were all into each other.I think she was in awe by the size of his penis because he was about double my size in length and girth and she couldn't keep her mouth or hands off of it.So what was really planned to be a threesome turned into me laying on one side of the bed watching my wife have the ride of her life atop my buddy.The hardest thing for me was as my wife was on him she kept looking at me with the most satisfying grin on her face almost as if she was saying he's twice the man you are.Nothing ever made me feel more inferior in my life watching my best friend satisfy my beautiful wife better than I can.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2009):

She cuckolded you and now you are a cuckold. If you got that far you obviously have an interest but you need to be careful i you don't want that kind of relationship. Good luck.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2009):

Dude.. I think your wife wrote in about this encounter last week! Go into the archives and find the woman who wrote in about a threesome. This sounds like it is the same. You'll get her side of it.

Threesomes are tough. Especially two guys and one girl. I had one with my buddy and his girlfriend a few years ago. He and I were comparable (7") so it was not an issue. We both took turns on her, so there was someone left out at times. Its the nature of a threesome. She was trying to get the two of us to "69", but we couldn't bring ourselves to do it. So, the threesome is going to get mutually exclusive at times unless you are all bi-sexual. But a total disregard in a threesome is a slam my friend. There's a passive aggressive message there.

So, yes, you were ignored. She obviously wanted the big cock. There isn't anything you can do about it... sorry. Your relationship sounds like it is doomed... again sorry.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2009):

Yes, it is quite commnon in threesomes for 2 people to have a great time, and leave the other one out. Foursomes are better, as that way you have someeone else to get off with!! What you need to do now, is watch how she is now. If she keeps wanting to do it with this buddy, then I would get worried, if not, just put it down to experience and a bit of fun. Do not agree to it agin if you are not comfortable with it though. :o)

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (27 August 2009):

Honeypie agony auntI guess your 3-some was actually a glorified "cheating" on your wife's side.

I think you need to talk to her. I can not imagine she would have enjoyed it any more then you if there had been 2 women - and the other woman seemed to satisfy you more then her.

3-some's are not all it's cracked up to be. I have several friends who tried it and all but 1 couple broke up afterwards. You can loose respect, trust, self respect and self esteem after one of them.

Most likely she didn't catch that she hurt your feeling while it was going on.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2009):

You were not FEELING ignored, you WERE ignored, my friend. That was not a threesome, it was your wife wanting to have sex with your buddy and asking you to be there so that she would not have to feel she was cheating you. I don't know how you could have agreed to this in the first place, but it has certainly gone very, very wrong.

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