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female
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41-50,
*eisty
writes:I need advise, I have been involved with a guy on and off for 4 yrs. over the last 2 yrs he has asked if he can video he and I having sex. I did it then but was extremely paranoid when he kept it and didnt delete. a few months after he filmed it he told me i DIDNT give him the umph any more but he still has us " at it" on the phone.3 wks ago he came back in to my life yet and and I saw him every weekend for the 3 wks. on 2 occasions we were together he is extremely affectionate whether we have sex or not. but on this occasion he asked me to wear a short dress boots and hold ups he wanted to record it. Can you advise WHY men like to video themselves and if he has no feelings for me like he says why go to all the bother? I am not short of admirors but this is the only guy I have had a full blown relationship with in a whilePlease give me your adviseThanks Reply to this Question
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (28 November 2007):
It's like asking,why do guys like porn? Just seeing himself making love to you probably makes him musturbate when alone.However,you have every right to know what he's going to use it for. Somehow i think your guy has developed a passion for what i call "self-porn".Seeing yourself in the porn. Tell him to stop if you don't like it. It may be a hobby for him. You never know he does the same with other girls he sleeps with. If i may ask why do you have such a casual approach to this relationship?Take care.
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reader, BadAsh6705  +, writes (28 November 2007):
 I would say that this is not completely abnormal...he may have a exhibitionist side to his personality and he may get off on "being watched", BUT you have the FULL RIGHT to know exactly what he is doing with that video!! You never know, he could be showing his friends or showing it on the net!!! Unless you are o.k. with this, you need to get control on what is going on here and find out why he wants to have these videos and what exactly he is doing with them!!!!
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