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I am dating another man but do not feel anything when he ejaculates, only a leakage. Do I learn to control my high drive or leave?

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Question - (30 November 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 December 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I've just divorced of my husband. The last year together we didnt have sex at all. He has got problem of erection and refuses to sort it out. Since then he doesnt even touches me. He makes me feel really bad. Now I've met this man 18 years older than me. He does everything in the bed to please me. The problem is when he ejaculates I dont feel anything. He is actually just leak. And it takes him a long time before he can make love to me once more. He says I always want more and more and that he do wish he is ten years younger. He calls me sex mad and need to learn to control myself. Please advise.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (1 December 2007):

Danielepew agony auntAn opinion, just for the sake of clarity. I'm sure the poster knows the problem with his man is NOT maintaining an erection. The issue here is the refractory period, and Viagra doesn't help with that.

And then, I agree with Doctor Pete.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007):

You do sound a bit "sex mad" really. You're complaining that he takes too long to be ready for sex again - Isn't he between 60 and 70 years old!? And you aren't happy that he isn't ejaculating enough?

Maybe you shouldn't be so critical of him - every man is different and so you either need to accept him as he is, or you find someone else; perhaps someone who is younger?

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A female reader, Minelisse Puerto Rico +, writes (30 November 2007):

Minelisse agony auntIf you are really interested in this guy you need to look for alternatives for yourself. Visit an adult store with him and look for alternatives with which he can please you even if he is not able to have an erection. It seems he would be willing to do it for you!

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