A
male
age
41-50,
*azstarr
writes: I haven't had a girlfriend in a few years, because Ive been very picky. I've finally met a girl who I think the world of. We get along better than anyone Ive ever met in my life. She's extremely attractive, and she feels the same way about me. The problem is in the bedroom. We just don't click sexually. Is this relationship doomed? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, eddie +, writes (30 November 2007):
 If it's already bothering you I'd say it's an issue. Deal with it now or you might resent it later. What is the area you don't click on?
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007): Me and my girlfriend have spoke about this before. We don't really think we could stay together if we didn't click. Maybe you are both a bit nervous with each other, or don't want to do the things you really like in case the other person thinks worse of you. Maybe you just need to both relax a bit more, spend a bit more time enjoying each other.
To be honest with what you say it's hard to see why you don't click. Let us know why you think you don't click and maybe we can help you.
For your question, the relationship probably isn't doomed. If you can find out why you don't seem to click, then you can work on that.
...............................
|
