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anonymous
writes:What are the pro's and con's of swinging??
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2009): Pros:
1. Hot sex in combinations other than M-F
2. Post swinging HOT sex, between you and your SO.
3. Odds are you'll start taking much better care of yourself, so as to make your self more attractive.
Cons:
1. You may spend alot of time trying to find compatable couples, and run into alot of flakes.
2. You'll have to invent alot of cover storys if you go out alot.
3. Jelously could come into play. You're going to have to get really good at communication with your SO.
4. If one person says "stop", you ahve to stop... otherwise, major problems...
5. potential nutty people, drama, STD's...
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reader, JTalbott  +, writes (26 May 2008):
 Pros: If you do it at a public party and involve your partner, it can be a lot of fun and give you a lot of experiences to share.
Cons: In an instant, it can jealousies that can last a very long time. More importantly, it consumes a lot of time and energy thinking about it before and afterwards and can be distracting from the many other useful things you want to accomplish with your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2008): you could become romantically attached to the other person
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