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I feel horny... but how do you know when you're ready for sex?

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Question - (28 November 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 28 November 2007)
A female United States age 26-29, *irly031 writes:

well u see i am 13 years old and i have been getting really horney lately and have been thinking a lot about sex but i can't decide what to do if i should have sex or not or what please help and answer my question please

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2007):

I agree with Tom, But I like to think I can be a bit more subtle!!.

But never the less, masturbation is a completely natural way of discovering your body.

It think your far too young to have sex, I had sex when I was 14 and although I dont regret the person I did it with, (I married him in the end!), I did regret the circunstances. I wasnt ready metally or physically.

I had no idea how to have sex either, and to make matters worse we ended up splitting the condom and I thought I was pregnant!.(I wasn't by the way!, lucky escape!).

What i'm trying to say is that the age of consent is there for your own protection. so wait until you meet someone that your 100% sure is right for you .

Ok good luck in everything you do.

x

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A female reader, charli 1603 United Kingdom +, writes (28 November 2007):

charli 1603 agony aunti have to agree with tom.

your much too young, and you'll be coming of age where your mental state will be under a lot of pressure. the last thing you need to do right now is become sexually active. take your time, and don't try to grow up too fast :D

good luck sweetie x

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A female reader, kimmie United States +, writes (28 November 2007):

i think u should go get a book, read it or perhaps play with your dolls... There are much more things for a baby to be focusing on & let me be the first to tell you, YOU DONT KNOW HOW YOU FEEL YET.. the only feelings you should be sure of is sleepy and hungry...

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A male reader, TomWilkinson United Kingdom +, writes (28 November 2007):

TomWilkinson agony auntYou should wait. Even though your feelings telling you you WANT to have sex, your body and mind are just not ready, not to mention the legal implications.

At 13 your hormones will be going absolutely mental, I know mine were! If these urges become too strong, try masturbation, that should keep you occupied for a couple of years =)

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