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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2007): The bed where your confy !! and on your own in house you dont need someone walking in or hear you !!
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (1 December 2007):
Hey it really doesn't matter but nuetral ground's best.I thought you were male that's why i suggested your place but since you are a lady just find a place private enough. Not each others' homes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthx everyone for your advice.
chlez83 would you suggest or anyone else his or my place or would it not matter?
what would be more confortable for both of us.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007): i agree that a bed is the best place. wait for the moment that you are 100% sure you are alone. sex is very private so make sure no one is around. you may think tha this sounds cheesy but atmosphere and ambience are good. soft music and candles. things like that.
good luck:)
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reader, chlez83 +, writes (30 November 2007):
Are you making a recording for you to have people around? I would advise you to book into a motel/hotel and have a great time.At either your places,you never know who would walk in on you unexpectedly.But if you are 100% sure you'll be alone,your place is better because you'll be more confident there than at her place,which is important on da 1st time.Anywhere's ok as long as you are alone and please use protection.
All the best.
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reader, SamuraiRick  +, writes (30 November 2007):
 I agree with most who say that a bed would be the best place for your first time. Your place or his, whatever works out best. A hotel or nice (not cheesy) motel might also be good...neutral ground with few distractions. After you have your first timer, you can always do it in other unusual places....but basically a nice cozy big bed is best. Use protection....and don't rush it either...give yourselves a few solid hours for foreplay and after-cuddles. I guarantee you your first time won't be your best time, but try to make it memorable by being totally at ease with each other and your surroundings.
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reader, bqagirl2692 +, writes (30 November 2007):
 I think that it would be comfortable for you and your partner if the both of you knew that place such as your house or his house and you might want to make sure noone is really there because since it's your first time, you'll end up getting a little nervous and both you and your partner wont enjoy it as much knowing that fact that someone else knows what is going on inside that room..lol..trust me i kno! Keep it between you and him. Itll be more pleasuring and comfortable for the both of you. Hope i helped a little.
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reader, elliebellie  +, writes (29 November 2007):
hiya! i would say somewhere that is familar and comfortable for both of you. like his bedroom or your bedroom. i would try and arrange a time when your parents are going to be out for quite a long time. i dont think anyone else really needs to be around. if its just you and your partner it will make for a more special moment. hope this helps. feel free to mail me anytimelolelliexxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthx for your advice.
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reader, honkifuluvnicole +, writes (29 November 2007):
 I would say in a comfortable, familiar bed. That way you know your surroundings, and you will be comfortable on the bed. Dont have people around, because it can hurt the first time, and you dont anyone to hear.
Hope this helps.
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