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writes: I am have been married for two and a half years to a very great husband. We have a 10 month old daughter, we work toether, we play together and we have an amazing sex life. So the other night, I was going to check my e-mail and instead, my husbands login was on the computer screen, so me being me. . .I had to look. For the most part it was all very boring and mundane. Nothing interesteing at all. . .until I went to the drafts section. In it I found an e-mail dated 12/2003. . .three months into my marriage. It was a very explicit e-mail sex volley with one of his ex-girlfriends. I know they never saw each other from when he left the state she lived in 1 1/2 years prior to that in 2003. At first, I was freaked out. . .but then after contemplating it, it doesn't seem that bad. It was so long ago. The only other aside is that in the same draft section, about 3 months later he attempted to e-mail the explicit transaction back to her and she wrote back "why are you sending this to me?" Should I be concerned or is this water under the bridge. We really do have a very solid relationship and it is now 2006, and frankly I have never been threatened by the ex-trmap in question or anyone else for that matter. . .I haven't found anything else questionable either. Any insight?
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reader, wishes +, writes (14 February 2006):
 You have made up your mind to let this thing lie. Dont let strangers try to make this seem worse or bigger than you apparently think that it is. It did happen a long time ago, and if you are happy in your marriage, and you know that he is happy, then good on you. Enjoy it! Bringing it up with him now would get you nowhere except him losing his trust in you. Forget about it. Your husband loves you. You have a child together now, and the response "why are you sending this to me?" from his ex probably brought him back to reality. I think you have nothing to worry about. Best Wishes x
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