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writes: Hi, I have been married for 12 long years and been with this man that I love with all of my heart for a total of 15 years all together. He began talking to a 22 year old girl that happens to be married and has a kid, that lives right across from where we live. He says that he loves me but I'm being told that he's still seeing her behind my back and he acts so guilty about it when I confront him about this. I am hurting emotionally. Please help!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Virginiaac +, writes (5 February 2006):
You know deep down that the danger signs are there. You have to clear the air and know once and for all what is going on. If he won't say anything then tell him you will speak to the girl. That should shake him out of his ego.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (5 February 2006):
 Who gave you this information? Why has this friendship developed? And how do you think your husband would deal with an ultimatum *her or me*?
This freindship is slightly odd, after all he is old enough to be her Dad to all intents and purpuses. I think you need more information before you proceed with any real action in this case. Find out if your info source is 100% reliable and then come to a decision either to fight for your marriage or walk away.
Please reply and let people on here know more in order to try to help you more.x
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reader, fairyangel  +, writes (5 February 2006):
 If you are sure that your source of information is reliable, then I say...
Tell her husband... I am sure he would be interested to know what his wife is getting up to!In fact, he has a right to know!Let him deal with her, then you deal with your husband accordingly.
If he is acting guilty, he probably has something to hide.
Good Luck & Take Care Of Yourself.
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