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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it a stigma to be a 31 year old Male Virgin? And is my drastic solution the best one, in the circumstances?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

29 September 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I don't know how to put this as a question: I just want to know if I'm not alone in the way that I feel? My story: I'm a 31-year-old guy and still a virgin. I am deeply pained - being a virgin at 31 feels like a stigma and to a large extent it inhibits me when I'm around w... (181 words)

Is it wrong of them? Neither of them seem to think they have done anything wrong

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okaay where to start.. Well i have been seeing this guy for a few days even though im all that into him i think hes okay but i thought id give him a chance. I will call this boy 'C' then there is one my best friends who i will call 'E' She (E) is seeing his friend who i will... (425 words)

The stress she's under is making it difficult for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunts I don’t know what to do; I’m so in love but equally distressed and tired. I’ve been in a relationship for 7 months with what has got to be in my mind the love of my life. Together we’ve become best friends, loves, colleagues and are achieving so ... (786 words)

Trust issues between bf and I, don't know why he still doesn't trust me, and don't feel I have any reason to trust him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, so I'm in a going on two years relationship, we live together and we are both serious. Problem is, in the beginning of our relationship, he did some stupid things and lost my trust. He lied a lot in past relationships and is trying to stop that with me. His ex was a ... (399 words)

His parents hate me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i lied to my boyfriend and he forgave me but his parents absolutely hate me. They used to like me but when i lied to my boyfriend, it made them hate me. Then me and my boyfriend got in a fight yesterday and he texted me and said goodbye and everything so i said it back ... (131 words)

Could I really just be a late bloomer?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4568 days ago

29 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, I'm honestly starting to believe I'm a late bloomer. Both my dad and my brother are both hairy guys. I'm 19 and my navel hair is just starting to kick in. Everybody keeps saying, "Oh some guys don't grow hair on their bodies." Bullshit, Both my bro and my dad got all ... (168 words)

We're desperate for some 'alone time' to take things to the next level

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay. To clarify- we're both legal and certain that we want to take our relationship to 'the next level', so please don't judge me -_- Basically, I live with my parents and sister, and he lives with his mom and sister. They never seem to be out of the house for long enough ... (92 words)

My family thinks I'm too young for this marriage

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hello i need someones opinion. im getting married in November but my family does not think that is the best choice. they say that if i get married im going to be miserable that im going to want to I've my life later on in the future and im going t turn out to be like my ... (287 words)

If men want their women to look like porn stars, why don't us women care that our men don't look like porn stars??

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 25, and I'm here to discuss pornography and men. Some but not all men complain their women don't look like porn stars/models etc. but how come women don't do the opposite and ask for 6-packs/chiselled bodies / big penises etc? Or if they do, well, it's usually a private ... (352 words)

He is ignoring me and I feel miserable, please help me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - We met on a dating website 7 months ago and have been meeting and chatting in a regular basis but never more than that. Few weeks ago he was very sweet, more than usual, and I thought things were getting better. Then he disappeared from the chat, I thought he met someone else ... (146 words)

Is wife dropping hints that she wants a threesome?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

29 September 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife has REALLY enjoyed when I use a dildo on her while giving her oral, about a month ago, I was doing that, and then just using the dildo on her. She said, you like watching that don't you? Are you imagining another guy doing me? I said yes! And she said that that is HOT! ... (360 words)

I'm 13 weeks pregnant but still have signs of blood when I use the bathrrom

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - im 13 weeks pregnent and when i go to toilet ( number 2) i always have blood when i wipe myself or in the toilet sumtimes its lots other times its not but never strong enought to go onto my underwear Whats wrong with me ??????... (56 words)

Is he lying or cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - We've been together 1 year. I have access to his Facebook account and it looks fairly ok (one thing from January had me a little spooked). I checked out another "social site" and his profile said "Looking for a Relationship" (among other things that I thought I took care of ... (200 words)

My best friend's really upset and I can't help

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29 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - my best friend has been really upset for the last few months because she thinks shes really ugly and also she gets bullied for being lesbian by a lot of people, i have always been the one she leans on for help but im out of advice and i cant comfort her because she just ... (106 words)

We fell in love while he was in Afghanistan, but he left me shortly after he got out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I meet my boyfriend online almost a year ago. He was stationed at that time in Afghanistan and it was a rough time for the both of us. Waiting 9 months. I supported him all this time with letters, packages etc. We became closer and I started to fall in love with him. After th... (425 words)

I don't really want any contact with her, but I feel I should wish her a happy birthday

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - In a nut shell my ex's birthday is coming up and part of me wants to wish her a happy birthday and the other half doesn't because I don't want any contact with her, but im not a horrible person and I don't want to feel like a bitch because I didnt wish her well on her birthday. ... (168 words)

I can't get hard when we try to have sex for the fourth time in a night. Should I be worried?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4569 days ago

29 September 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - me and my girlfriend have been together about a month now and we have had sex multible times and it was amazing. ive never had a problem getting hard for her even after having sex with her to go again. but my question is after the 3rd time of getting off i couldnt get hard for ... (117 words)

Crushing on the prostitute I lost it with

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

29 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Basically, i lost my virginity to a prostitute in Berlin this summer, I dont regret it or have any moral problems with it whatsoever, I dont care that it wasn't with someone 'special' or that she didn't having any 'feelings' for me or any bullsh*t like that. I even went back to ... (496 words)

I finally figured out his game -- and want to stay strong

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! Okay, so heres the thing... Ive just gotten out of a long term on-off relationship (5 years to be precise). It was a great relationship to begin with but then soon the love started to fade from him, (hence it was on-off cause he kept ending it and begging for me ... (539 words)

I have gotten back with my ex. How can I make our first date special?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I show my boyfriend how much I've missed him? please help? My ex boyfriend and I got back together. We broke up for 6 months.. Cos he was going through family problems but he's all good now. We're still so in love. I love him so much and I know he's crazy about... (110 words)

My boyfriend is close friends with my ex boyfriend..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So here's the story. I dated this guy for a year, let's call him Mike, and when we broke up we pretty much stopped talking at all. Mike started dating one of my friends, and I started dating one of his friends shortly after (let's call him Tom). (not rebounds, a coup... (200 words)

Why am I always put in the 'friend zone'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 years old and I've never had a girlfriend before. I've put myself out there a couple of times already and I got rejected every single time. I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong. I've only once kissed a girl, and this was a friend proving me a favor a few years back when I ... (320 words)

Do I end it now or am I making a bigger deal of it than what it is?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I (and I use the boyfriend title VERY loosely since we're not officially boyfriend/girlfriend) have been together for 2 1/2 years. He moved in with me about 4 months ago because he had some financial problems. So far everything has been good, no major ... (262 words)

I broke up with my ex and I regret it, but think it's to late

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex and I been broken up for about 2 months already. We broke up once and it lasted for 4 months and we both liked other people, but in the end, she came back because I didn't contact her at all and we ended up going back out. We went out for 3 and half years and we lost it ... (323 words)

How do I separate myself from the ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex broke up with me a few weeks ago. He told me he lost feelings for me months ago, and that he never loved me and never will love me. He was very emotionless about dumping me (something i learned about him is that he's able to turn feelings off like a light switch and just ... (186 words)

Is my ex still keen on me or am I losing my head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys , my ex broke up with me about a month ago due to still having feelings for his ex of 7 years ...we have remained great mates, I still really like him and he wants to be with me but can't be 100 percent for me cos of those feelings .. The other day when we were ... (399 words)

If your son/daughter came home and told you they were pregnant or got someone pregnant, how would you respond?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - How would you respond if your son/daughter came home and told you they either got or is pregnant? And I mean out of wedlock, at a young age. Around 16-18 years old. Last week, my mom told me she would be dissapointed in me, but supportive. It got me thinking, how would others ... (86 words)

Her low sex drive is making me feel unwanted

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hey every one hear goes. Me and my partner have been together for 7 years. Are sex life slowed awhile back as expected. Not so my part though. So its now the end of september and we havent had sex since july. I would never push for sex as why would you want sex if it was one ... (162 words)

Irregular periods have me worried!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey friends. . I havnt had my period this sep. . I did have it twice last month. .earlier and month end. . Its irregular periods but why is it happening when i havent had sex since june? Please help. Any help would be appreciated. .thanx.... (46 words)

Did I cause offense? Should I apologise?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I attended a get together with some friends the other day. These were a new group of friends so i got to chatting with some of them. There was this one girl who i started to chat to and we got a good conversation going. The conversation eventually led to mobile phones and ... (254 words)

Realised I'd developed feelings for my FWB when she met someone else

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - okay i have a confusing situation.. well for me dont know about you guys. i had a fwb about 2 months raftly.. it was going well.. untill she met this another guy and she was falling for him so we stopped. but i didnt wanted to stop so i told her how i felt and so she thought i... (258 words)

RJ, both justified and unjustified

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

29 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Has anyone here ever gotten over RJ (Retrograde Jealousy) in a relationship? Both justified RJ such as a mate having slept with your friend or enemy and unjustified RJ such as mate having just slept with other people before the relationship. If so, did it go away with tim... (105 words)

Should I stay in this baby mama drama relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age - I`ve been in a relationship with someone for 7 months he told me about the other lady that he use to have a relationship with she has 1yr old twins that she said are his they are waiting on dna test result but he is attached to the kids and she sometimes wont let him see them ... (147 words)

I need to start over, and could really use some advice on how to do it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I'm not doing so well. My life doesn't seem to be getting better. And I really need some advice. I been though physical and sexual abuse when I was younger, and It's been making me feel depressed all the time. I know people say I need to get over the past, but that's... (1198 words)

I feel like I'm having trouble connecting to people -- especially girls

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ive had heaps of nice things said about me, yet I can be a bit reserved sometimes and seem to isolate myself. I dont really go out a lot and I feel like im giving people the wrong message, that im not interested in talking to them and getting to know them, showing them who I ... (120 words)

How do I assert with my elder sister the kind of relationship I want us to have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My elder sister is now 46 and has been suffering from variously diagnosed mental illness since she was 17. Her first psychotic episode happened when I was 14 and left in charge of my younger sister who was 4 at the time. My parents were away because my father was extremely ... (1157 words)

My long-term boyfriend can't see how destructive his wanting to help his ex is to our relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, So I'm in a very serious relationship, and we've both talked many times about how this is it for both of us. Yet, I'm starting to have doubts, and thinking that I don't really want to be with him anymore. Unfortunately, I get into this kind of thinking and it's more whe... (398 words)

He hasn't called yet and I want to see him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - He's 19 I'm 16. I met him 3 days ago and we made out on our first date. I don't necessary like him, but I got carried away. He called me yesterday at 8.30pm asking if I wanted to go out but I told him it was too late and I had to study. Then he said ok we'd meet the next day ... (114 words)

He never wants to get married because he is afraid a woman will take away his money.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age - I've been married for 20 years. It was a loveless marriage and Im glad that I had the courage to end it. I've got my own house now and a part time job which I can manage to support myself. I've met this man 16 years older than me. I've been with him for 3 years but still live ... (190 words)

Should I be worried that she is still friends on Facebook with her ex, and she hasn't changed her relationship status?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and the man she used to love before are now facebook friends. does this have anything to do with our relationship? her relationship status is single while mine is in a relationship... (34 words)

How do you get through being cheated on and lied to by a guy who never even cared about you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - He said he never lies... I'm struggling to keep count of all the lies he's told. He said he's been cheated on before and would never cheat... he asked other girls out while we were together and straight after we break up. He told me he's not like those guys who use girls for ... (529 words)

Mother in law interference....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. My mother in law is so controlling. She wants to tell me how to give her money, when to phone her and how many times. She practically wants to run every facet of my life. How i am raising my children. Apparently i am staying with two of her children, BIL and SIL. She will ... (100 words)

Can you get pregnant if a woman doesn't reach orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi every one! I've been wondering and would like to know that can a woman get pregnant if she still doesn't reach orgasm? If yes how does it happen? Thanks for your time reading this and thanks for your answers in advance. ... (42 words)

Does this make him gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My bf told me that he is bi and likes me to use a dildo on him. Does that make him gay? I'm afraid I will lose him because he might want to be with a guy. He loves sex with me and I turn him on. He also tells me he loves me . He says he doesn't want a guy but I think he ... (76 words)

Is there any way I can get him to see me for me? How can I make him want me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ivee met this guy a few years ago..he caught my eye the moment i saw him..but back then i was young and went for what i wanted,he stuck around which i was because i guess he liked me,one weekend we both ended up at the same club next thing led to another,we were dancing ... (355 words)

My family wont accept my boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 26 yrs old, my partner's 28, yet my parents will not and cannot accept him. He's Black Canadian, I'm Canadian by birth but my family is of Lithuanian descent, so that makes us Lithuanian-Canadians. However, they won't accept him AT ALL. My father said to me explic... (181 words)

Feeling confused about this relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Feeling Confused: I am in a long distance relationship with someone who I love very much. We talk everyday for aprox an hour. Now I am feeling confused about he feels. He lives with his Dad and I still live with my ex husband. A situation I know is not ideal but due to finan... (597 words)

Will more women be interested if I lose some weight?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) age 51-59 - I am a guy who was always on the smaller, scrawnier side. I could eat Ding Dongs and drink soda all day and I weighed 165 at 5'10" at age 17. Long story short, I am now 6 feet tall and 210. I think an ideal weight for me is about 190. I think I carry my weight well. Ho... (306 words)

Am I just over analyzing things and should I keep on, or is this one a lost cause already?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

29 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey Guys, So I'm back again with a new question... Okay, so I knew of a girl beforehand never spoken to her before though and after a night out, she sent me a friend request on fbook, so I accepted as I think she's a good looking girl and would like to try my luck with h... (598 words)

He deleted some girls off Facebook when I said I don't like them, but then a few months later they are back! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - MY Bf live in US and i live in greece so we just talk and chat everyday,before i told him that i hate those bit*** on his facebook friendlist and he removed them,later because of studying i deactived my facebook profile and then after 2 or 3 month when i check his profile again ... (119 words)

I'm 34 and feel I should be married but I'm only attracted to the "bad boys"!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - HELP! I'm only attracted to the so-called "bad boys". The ones in a band, or with dark hair and leather pants, etc. Metal. Goth. Punk. And the one thing in common. They break my heart. Because they start to act like they want something real and play the "nice guy" - but in r... (108 words)

He talks about his ex too much and he said he still loves her! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a boyfriend. I love him very much, but he Talks a lot about his ex. I'm really over it and he told me he still loves her, it's really upsetting me and idk what to do. :( help me please... (48 words)

I cant understand him! Does he see me as just a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - One day, I asked my crush(He is an exchange student, and he also asked me out for the pub and having dinner with his friends) out for a lunch . He said it was okay and decided where we ate lunch. However, next day, he said on email he couldn't hang out because he didn't have ... (222 words)

My ex and I broke up and I regret what I did, is there hope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex and I been broken up for about 2 months already. We broke up once and it lasted for 4 months and we both liked other people, but in the end, she came back because of the NC rule and we ended up going back out. We went out for 3 and half years and we lost it to each other. ... (320 words)

My boyfriend of two years dumped me a week before my 21st birthday

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4566 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm completely devastated right now. My boyfriend of two years just broke up with me, for the second time, and it's a week before my 21st. I feel helpless and lost and I don't know what to do. This might be sort of long. Some backstory: I'm 20, he's 21, and we met o... (1133 words)

GF lost all sex drive before our relationship became long distance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend left the country to study abroad for a year. We decided to go on with a Long Distance Relationship as I will visit every now and then, as will she. We used to have a very sexually active lifestyle before the news of her scholarship, but after the notice we went ... (213 words)

Pregnant with his baby and he said he wanted to get married but now he has changed his mind!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hey im in a relationship and i am having a baby, i am having a boy, i am 7months and the guy im with we been together for 3years and were young lovers but he treats me like he loves me, and then another minute he acts dumb but i love him dearly. man i would do anything for him, ... (109 words)

Why is she texting me, giving me mixed signals, and calling me? does that mean I have a chance. Or does she just want me around while she grieves?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up about 4 weeks ago. Its hard for me to talk to her because it was my fault we broke up. She is still mad that I facebook chatted this girl I want, suppose to talk to while I was drunk and we talked, then turned to sexting. I honestly didnt remember doin... (549 words)

Is it true that if I let her keep coming to me with her problems she will only see me as a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I really need people help with this one girl. Me and her met like last month and I started liking her a lot and I don't know how she feels about me, but she always seem to ask me to take her to places when she depress and stress and she always tell me about her problems. I ... (172 words)

How can I support him? Could he be lying to cope with his parents' divorce?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I have this very good guy friend. He is a really good guy, very sweet and usually an honest person. About two weeks ago he texted me he wasn't going to be in school. I asked why, and he said family issues. I told him I hope eveythings ok and he responded with "my parents ... (224 words)

G/f says she cant have sex due to "girl issues", but she's not on her period. What else could it be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfreind says she cant have sex due to girl issues.But shes not on her period.What else could it be?... (20 words)

How normal, or how often, is it likely a person could get depressed by what their loved one says?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How normal or often is it to get depressed by what your loved one says? sometimes I feel like I was in a better place before I talk to my boyfriend. He's very politically centered, and I just don't like politics. everything has to be political. My talking about my boss wear... (258 words)

The guy whom I was with on and off for 5 yrs, is going abroad tomorrow and I don't know if I'll ever see him again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, the guy I have been with for five years ( on and off but most of the time we knew that we are going to go back to each other ), well..he is going tomorrow to work abroad and I don't know when I'm going to see him again, he is not the talker kind of person and I have been ... (175 words)

My work colleagues rarely bother asking me to go out with them as a group. How do I get accepted by this group? Should I ask if I can join in?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I really hope its okay just this once to ask a different type of relationship question!! My work 'mates' never ask me to go anywhere with them, and I was wondering should I start asking them to come out with me instead? Ive worked there a year, and the one time I ... (158 words)

I'm totally unlike anyone my boyfriend's been with.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I made a huge no-no. As a little preface, I'm currently dating a guy who is far more experienced than me. Part of it comes from an age difference (nearly a decade) and another part comes from the way he's lived his life up until now (he's done a lot of "experimenting" ... (208 words)

I have a secret ultimatum.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've given myself a timeline that if he doesn't propose to me by then, I'm going to focus my life on something new. Ive been with him for a few years, and last year October he mentioned he was going to propose in Feburary... its now nearly October again and theres been no ... (121 words)

Is a one-sided fling okay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

29 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I am living in Hawaii until December. I came out here for school and intended to leave earlier. I met a guy who told me he's falling in love with me. I like being around him and compared to my previous boyfriends, he doesn't annoy me. There are some things from his past ... (138 words)

Am I overanalyzing, or is he interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4594 days ago

29 September 2011 (?) age 26-29 - Ok so I have a crush on someone right? And the funny thing about this is that this is probably the first REAL girly girl crush I've had since like the .....sixth grade and its really ridiculous.... So this someone I've been talking to him alot and I've been getting t... (417 words)

Do all guys use girls?

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29 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Why do all the guys i know say they like but just want to use me for sex? Then the guys i do like will like my friends or just stay long enough to get wat they want then wen they do they stop talking to me until they want something else? Are all guys like that just use u and ... (66 words)

I think I have to choose between my career and my boyfriend.

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29 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Just a quick question! Should I accept my boyfriends offer to financially support me or focus on my career just in case?! I live with him for a few years now and have always been pushing myself really hard to get a great career so I'd have security for the future for... (202 words)

He says he is straight. But is he?

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29 September 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a bi male. I have a friend who I believe is "straight" but have doubts. Now ordinarily I wouldn't care about another persons sexual preference. But I have feelings for him. He knows that I am bisexual and has known since the beginning of our friendship. One night some ... (431 words)

How do you know if a marriage will last?

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29 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you know if a marriage would last between you and your love?... (14 words)

She's got a girlfriend but I'm attracted to her. Should I go for it?

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29 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok I haven't known her very long, I've only been at university a couple of weeks, but I quite like her. I'm a lesbian btw. I first saw her a couple of times while waiting for inductions on my course. She stood on her own, me with my flatmates and their friend group. If I were... (714 words)

I want a legal marriage, but he's being distant!

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29 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi please i need a help.ive been with my guy for almost 4yrs.we even have a boy of 2yrs.just recently he talked about marrying me the traditional way which i refused.i wanted the legal type so that i will be secured.but he also refused.since then he has really changed.he ... (166 words)