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How can I change the way he sees me?

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12 September 2011 (F age 41-50 - I've got a crush on someone and i've made a real rookie error. Basically I've liked this guy for a while but never had the guts to talk to him properly. We know each other through work. Last week we had a work social, and with the booze flowing I finally had the confidence t... (352 words

My Bf doesn't have any friends and doesn't come out with mine!?!

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12 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - ok. so my bf is pissing me off. I feel like we always have the same fights because nothing gets resolved!! He doesnt have any guy friends. and when i want to go out or have people over he throws a fit if he has to be involved in anyway. He wont come out with me EVER! and if i ... (415 words

I'm so afraid that I'm not going to be able to have a baby!

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12 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi all. Im having some issues. Im really scared of my womb or my ovaries being damaged or getting cysts or cancer. All i want in life is to become a mother and have a happy family with my boyfriend. But im so scared that im not going to be able to or my ovaries contract... (189 words

What can I do to put this right?

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12 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi Readers. I was in a 1 year relationship (long distance) with my girlfriend until recently. We split up for various reasons (no cheating), and it hurt like hell for both of us. We decided to try and remain friends, and we did - texting and emailing on a daily basis. ... (239 words

How do I encourage my boyfriend to call and text me more often?

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12 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - It seems I'm always the one to call and text first. I've spoken to him about calling me, but nothing has happened and I don't want to keep nagging him about the same thing. He usually picks up my calls and responds to my messages, and never says no when I ask to meet up.. but ... (132 words

If a girl lets you do things for her, does it mean she likes you?

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12 September 2011 (M age 30-35 - I met this girl and she asks me to drive her places, and I helped her move. I also help her out by giving her advice. My best bud says if a girl is always looking to you to help her with stuff it means she likes you. I am not sure though. I really do like this girl which is why ... (91 words

I don't know how to deal with my feelings after sleeping with my old coach.

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12 September 2011 (? - I'm 26 and I slept with my sports coach back in April. I've known him from when I was about 13/14 because I used to go to the sports camps and socials and when I was about 14/15 I started to develop a bit of a crush. I didn't know him well, he was always a bit quiet, but I ... (626 words

Personality, breast implants?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 September 2011 (F age 51-59 - This is a question for guys to answer please. Imagine if you met and started a relationship with an early forties female who looked between five and ten years younger, very good looking and who had had one child when she was previously married at a very young age (now grown up ... (290 words

What's the difference between settling and being logical?

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12 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - What is the difference between settling and being logical? I'm 23 and single. It's strange but it seems like all of my friends are in serious relationships or have been. I haven't. I feel abnormal. I do have admirers but I think maybe I'm being TOO picky. It bugs me bc I... (162 words

We only see each other 4 times a month. Is it enough?

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12 September 2011 (F age 51-59 - my man is military and has a busy job he allway tell me he loves and miss me he really a bachelor..but when we are together we have so much fun..but my question is by him being so busy we only see each other about 4 times a month .. does he really want to be with me and really ... (73 words

How can I nudge him to confess? I'm way too shy.

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12 September 2011 (F age 41-50 - I'll just jump right into it, I had a minor crush on this really sweet, kind, shy, humble type of guy who would do all these little small things for me all the time and not asking for anything back. The problem was I was already currently seeing someone and in one of the wo... (193 words

Confidence with meeting women

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12 September 2011 (M age 30-35 - When women are asked to describe qualities they want in men, confidence is always near the top of the list. But what does it really mean to be confident? To me confidence comes down to having the belief that you will be able to handle anything that comes your way. N... (464 words

Boyfriend went through my emails and went ballistic over an innocent email from a co-worker

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12 September 2011 (F age 41-50 - I've been with my live in boyfriend for 4 years. He is 12 years older than me. I don't expect marriage (even though I want to be), but that is another topic. He's always been on the insecure side. I don't have a facebook anymore because young guys who I worked with were added ... (355 words

I am worried he may feel smothered in this relationship...what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - Lately my bf and I have been spending lots of time together. We have been with each other every day for 3 weeks. I also have been staying his place even though i have my own place. Previously was not like that and im really quite happy to be with him...i never get tired! ... (125 words

I despise my married lover...he's a liar...so how do I get out of this one?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

12 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - How am I going to be able to last the next 7 weeks with my boyfriend when he makes my skin crawl? He is married and I've been seeing him for a couple of years. Earlier this year we booked a holiday for november but I'm having serious second thoughts. I really can't stand this... (205 words

Should I email him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 September 2011 (F - Hi, I am current registered on an online dating website and had a first email from a guy the same age as me within a couple hours of registering. We were emailing back and forth for seven days - we appeared to have a lot in common and were getting on well, or so I thought! ... (435 words

Does she honestly like me, or am I just a rebound filler?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

12 September 2011 (M age 30-35 - Right, I'll try and keep this brief. Just under twelve months ago, I got out of a serious relationship with, to date, my only girlfriend. I found it hard getting back into the dating game but I'm finally starting to make some leeway. Now there's a new girl who has ... (280 words

I feel used and lied to

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 September 2011 (M age 36-40 - So I recently asked for advice on a question of mine. It was regarding my ex telling me she was pregnant with my child and then not talking to me for a week. I can now extend this problem of mine by saying that it's now been almost 4 weeks. She comes over after a week of not t... (222 words

Now that I finally like him he has all the girls he could want

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 September 2011 (F age 22-25 - Theres this boy who I really like, but the problem is that we use to be bestfriends and he use to like me he would ask me out but I would always say no because one I was 11 and two I didnt like him in that way so we both moved schools and started talking less and less and now ... (97 words

Can you be married and fall in love with another person?

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12 September 2011 (F age 41-50 - Is it possible to fall in love with someone else when you are married?... (14 words

Sex life going downhill and don't know what to do about it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

12 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm in need of some serious help/advice. I need to know how I can spice things up in the bedroom with my husband. Lately our sex life has gone down hill, he can't last like he used to and half the time he doesn't even seem interested anymore. For example, I'll want to fool ... (100 words

Husband has been acting really shady lately

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

12 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - I need some advice... My husband has been acting real shady lately... He'll be on his phone in another room, and then jumps when I walk in the door. He carries his phone into the bathroom with him, won't go anywhere, even in the house, without his phone in his hand, and when he ... (274 words

My art student wife has chosen our friend as her nude model. They have hooked up in the past. Should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

12 September 2011 (M age 36-40 - My wife and I are married a few years now. She is a teacher, and is taking graduate classes for her masters degree. She is very interested in the Arts, and is going to become certified in Art/Drama along with the regular education certification she already has. She is taking ... (401 words

Why is my son reacting this way to her absence?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 September 2011 (F age 41-50 - I am a 35 year old widowed father of a 7 year old son. His mother died a few years ago from drugs. I own my own business, which has been doing well, but is time consuming. So, I had hired a nanny to help care for my son. I began dating a woman earlier this year (age 29) an... (275 words

How do I plan my holiday so I can see him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

12 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - Dear everyone, I have a problem.I have always thought that I can solve my own problems, but now I think I am not enough... I've read Dearcupid for more than a year now and I see I can trust your pieces of advice and you all are incredibly helpful, and now I would like to ask f... (568 words

Husband Doesn't Give Me Access to Any Money

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 September 2011 (F age 41-50 - I am a stay-home mother to a two year old daughter and a one month old son. Before our first child was born I worked full time but my husband and I felt it was important for one of us to be around while our kids are little. He makes more money than I did (basically double my ... (448 words

Do I tell my boyfriend I cheated 2 years later?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

12 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - Me and my bf had been together nearly 2 years when i cheated. I was away on a school trip i was 18. On the last night things got out of control, loads of drinking from the students and teachers. I was really drunk ,I know its not an excuse. I don't know exactly how but ... (1458 words

Is it normal to stop being excited for a new baby?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 September 2011 (? age 36-40 - Last December my husband surprised me with a gift that made me the happiest ever, it was the best gift he could have ever given me. He said he wanted to have another baby. We already have a five year old son, and although I always wanted more children, he always said he wasn't ... (517 words

He said once he wasn't ready to date but maybe now he is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - I've known this guy for about four or five years. He's been my best friend. Since the first night I met him I've had feelings for him but he made it clear he did not want a girlfriend so I moved on and met someone else. After 2 years of dating, our relationship got really ... (165 words

Did my crush encourage this girl to cyber-bully me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 September 2011 (F age 26-29 - My crush and I got into the biggest fight. Before that we seemed really close. We mostly chatted online because he lives in a different neighborhood. One day his friends came online when he wasn't around. She started saying I'm a freak, ugly, that I harrass her (I've never ... (259 words

My LDR boyfriend is always too busy with work to have time for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - nice to meet u everyone. i am a japanese and my boyfriend is foreigner. i have some problem now...give me some advice. but i have to say first, sorry if my english is wrong. well we've been long distance relationship in 2 years. recently my boyfriend is too busy for work. it... (174 words

Am I the reason he cheated? Can maturity change things in the future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - I am at a bit of a loss. I dated my now ex boyfriend for 2 years. He was my first real boyfriend, and I was, and still am, very much in love with him. We have been separated for more than a year. Problem is, he cheated on me a couple times during our relationship, for reasons ... (243 words

Husband on websites saying he's single!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 September 2011 (F age 41-50 - my husband as been going on dating sites saying hes single, phoning and texting women why... (16 words

So frustrated! 37 years old and Single. Please Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 September 2011 (F age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have a dilemma. I am a 37 year old female who has had relationship problems all my life so far. I have no clue as to what I am doing wrong. My personality is what I thought was my strong point, and I think I am fairly physically attractive, too. I have good hygi... (406 words

Confusion over two guys in my life! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - I still have feeling for my ex,and he just proposed to me. But right now I'm in another relationship,though i don't trust my present bf that much,but i also love him. Am so confused right now... (36 words

Can this LD relationship work?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

12 September 2011 (M - I have fallen for a girl in another city, about 100 miles away, we both drive so I guess its not to much of a issue, the real issues are I work 60 hours a week, she has a ex bf who is always in the picture, she has a 2 yr old. she is 4 years younger than me. It feels a bit ... (98 words

My husband has affairs and takes my love for granted. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

12 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - I am 27 yrs and have been married for 4yrs and we have a daugher 3yrs. My husband started having affairs out of marriage on and of 3months after i gave birth. I have tried talking to him, my mum and his mum but he stays calm just for short will then he goes back to his old ways ... (311 words

We are dating and I want to know, where we stand...how can I ask him? Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

12 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - I've been going on regular dates with a guy for about 3 months, we know each other through friends for over a year. We are at like 10 dates or so by now. Usually on a weekly basis. He puts lots of thought into them, and almost always insists on paying. (but I've been away a ... (279 words

My husband doesn't want to have sex with me! Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

12 September 2011 (F age 51-59 - I love my husband so much we have been married for 2 years and i feel like he doesnt want to have sex with me but when i ask him has he gone off me he says no he is just tired. We seem to have sex on a saturday every week its just the same and he gets more enjoyment than me as ... (104 words

Can masturbation cause health issues?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 September 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hi everyone my question is short. If you masterbate years and years, is there any disease you may catch or effects to body or genitals? My back aches hard. I dont no whether its my bed not comfortable when i sleep or its because of me masturbating. Please honest advice... (51 words

Should I consider going to an escort? Thoughts, anyone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 September 2011 (M age 41-50 - I have been single for three years (I am 37), following the break-up of a 9-year relationship. I live in a relatively rural area which means dating opportunities are few and far between. I have tried online dating but with no success (even though I have been casting my net ... (259 words

I care so deeply for this girl, I don't want her to slip up and kill herself

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 September 2011 (M age 26-29 - Well it looks like I've found myself between a rock and a really hard place.. We've been together for 2 months, everthing's been going great. I know who she really is, she's sweet and cute and I guess a little on the shy side, I accept all of who she is. But I don't think sh... (221 words

Am I right to be angry at my parents' relationship with my ex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

12 September 2011 (M age 41-50 - I split with my ex of 9 years 16 months ago. It was, as far as it can be, amicable and fortunately there were no other people involved, nor did we have kids. My ex bought me out of our house and I have my own flat and she has, just last week, sold our former home and bought a ... (410 words

Was the holding hands at the bar and flirting just because we were having a good night or does it sound like he's a little interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - I went out for a night of fun with some of my girl friends and met a guy at the bar. He seemed really nice and genuine..he knew some of my friends that I was with that night so we met through them. That evening him and I talked a lot and flirted a little. He stuck with me the ... (336 words

I love him and couldn't imagine being with someone else but I just don't know if I can live with him anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

12 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi I'm having a problem of rather or not I should move back home or stay living together with my boyfriend. We have been together for years and this is the first place we have ever lived other than home and we have lived almost a year. I love him and couldn't imagine being with ... (605 words

Is a relationship worth the risk of being cheated on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

12 September 2011 (M age 30-35 - I have always had a fear of relationships but what really scares me is if I ever fell in "Love" that I would be cheated on. Ive heard and read stories of people that are in happy relationships and then one day they wake up and realize their partner has been cheating on them for ... (68 words

I am seriously broke right now because of him

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12 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - Dear CUPID!! I'm 23 my boyfriends 35. He recently got fired from his job and has been asking me for money. I recently lent him 2 hundred bucks to attend a football game. I am seriously broke right now because of him. I know he lost his job and I do want to be a great girl ... (116 words

2 year anniversary, no gift???

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12 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - So I've been married for 7 months now, still fresh! And me and my hubby are very much in love. We have been officially dating for 2 years now last week. We had a talk after we were married that wed still celebrate our dating anniversary as well as our married anniversary, since ... (551 words

How can I get my friend to go out with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

12 September 2011 (M age 26-29 - How do I get my friend to go out with me? We aren't real close friends so, does that make it easier? We're both in highschool now, and I know there are more dudes out there who want her. So can anyone help me? P.S.: should I ask her out now or later in maybe Jan.... (61 words

My g/f doesn't have good legs and I'm not sexually attracted to her!

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12 September 2011 (M age 41-50 - I've been dating my girlfriend for 5 years. Unfortunately, try as I might, I haven't found her sexually attractive for some time. We have marriage plans, and I'm sure she would be a good life partner, mother, etc., but I don't know if this can work out given my lack of sexual ... (128 words

B/f get way too turned on talking about men, is he bisexual?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have phone sex alot because we have a long distance relationship so it's something that we do and often enjoy. My boyfriend is the strong muscle built work out all the time macho aggressive tough guy. He loves females and is addicted to sex and porn and is ... (458 words

Would you have a relationship with a bi polar person?

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12 September 2011 (M age 26-29 - Hi, I'm very worried about being able to have a nice relationship. I was recently diagnosed with bipolar disorder. I don't have a severe case of it, but.. I really don't know what else to say about it. Anyway, would you have a relationship with someone like me? I'm just worri... (103 words

I told my friend's g/f that he was hitting on me and now he won't speak to me

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12 September 2011 (F age 26-29 - Alright so around 2 months or so back me and my best guy friend were feeling each other up and it almost lead to sex but I stopped it. But there has been previous occasions where he's tried to force me to have sex with him and I've said no several times and he would still ... (339 words

18 and never been kissed! Any advice!

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12 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm almost nineteen years old and I've never had a boyfriend. Not only that, I've never been kissed, on a date, or even asked out. How pathetic is that? I think I'm depressed right now because my brother has a girlfriend and they have such a wonderful relationship and so do my ... (68 words

I want to break free from him - How can I do this?

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12 September 2011 (F age 51-59 - Dear cupid...I am a married woman had a affair w/amarried man for 10 months...I have a daughter and he has a daughter and wife just had their 2nd child this wk...I broke up w/him 5times and ended up getting back together.I love him very much and so as he. We became emotionally ... (132 words

Displays of affection feel awkward with my fiancee!

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12 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - In my relationship I am a very emotional and talkative person. My fiancee is neither. Giving spontaneous hugs and discussing how we feel about each other feels awkward for me because despite how much feeling I express he can't reciprocate as I would like. I feel like I can ... (196 words

Help me stop liking this guy who isn't my boyfriend?

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12 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - First things first: I have a boyfriend whom I am very much in love with. We are in a long-distance relationship, but we are making it work - we often talk for hours on Skype. We have been together for over a year and we really are very much in love with each other. I'm at co... (224 words

He blocked me, his friend blocked. Do I just ignore the situation?

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12 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - Am I suppose to do anything or wait? I knew him for four years. he was kind to me when I was a loner and looked different (I came from a culture where they wear shawls on the head). Turns out his dad was from that culture and I really began to value him in the two years bu... (291 words

Is my jealously out of place?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

12 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - So I've been hanging with this guy for about a month now, we text everyday - I don't have to initiate every contact, he will randomly text me. A few weeks ago we talked about how neither of us were looking for a relationship quite yet, but we didn't really want a one night ... (281 words

He won't see our child if we aren't together

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

12 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi me and my ex/ babydad got into a really bad argument in july and he won't see our kid its going on 3 months. We dated awhile the relationship ended because of (jealousy) and he won't see our child if we're not together what do I do?? How do I go about that??... (54 words

Do I talk to my boyfriend or wait until I have proof?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

12 September 2011 (F age 51-59 - Well, not sure how to start but .... there's this girl that likes my boyfriend and everybody knows it, she doesn't keep it quiet. Last night when i was at my boyfriend's house I saw two texts on his phone while he went to the bathroom. I checked his phone because he's been ... (141 words

How do you really feel about skinny jeans?

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12 September 2011 (? age 41-50 - I know this isn't a deep question, but how do you all feel about skinny jeans/tight pants on women? For most of my life I've worn pants that fit or were a little loose. They aren't falling off my butt or anything and I go and do visit tailors when things don't fit well....... (220 words

Would u have sex with someone if they promised a job?

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12 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - would u have sex with someone if they promised you a job or if theyd support you but you were a virgin... (22 words

Sexual past abuse is causing problems in my current relationships

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - I was molested when I was a kid and because of it I find it really hard to be with a guy. My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year and whenever we start to get intimate or things start to move forward I stop him and he's so patient but I'm scared that he'll tired of it ... (74 words

Is my husband turning to porn because he's bored with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 September 2011 (F age 51-59 - My husband has cheated behind my back for 5 years with at least 2 other women, who he was meeting on internet dating sites. I have been tormented by this betrayal and lies for 2 years now. Although he seemed remorseful and promised to never do it again and that he has lear... (175 words

Do I tell my friend I slept with her ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - I slept with my friends ex boyfriend: do i tell her? They broke up over two months ago, but I know how much she liked him, and i'm not sure she's over him... -They had never slept together - does that make it better or worse? -The ex who I slept with wants me not to ... (132 words

Should I follow up with this guy, or not?

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12 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - So everyone, I used to be part of this online dating site. I was never active on it so therefore my profile was on "hiatus" meaning I couldn't really request, message, or talk to people. I could only just add them to my "favorites". I talked to this guy on there briefly once. ... (334 words

How does it feel to be loved and to love back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 September 2011 (M age 30-35 - I'm always thinking about girls and curious about love, relationships,and sex. I had a crush on a girl only once and she didn't like me back. I haven't been in love for over a year. So I'm just curious How does it feel to love someone and loved back?... (49 words

What am I doing wrong? Why can't I find the right guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4602 days ago

12 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Recently I have broke up with my boyfriend for 5 years and i didn't want to be with him. I feel we are living to different lives and see that he doesn't really accept me for who i am and through out the relationship I always felt like I had to hide myself and ... (227 words

Should I continue with my 'affair'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

12 September 2011 (M age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for two years now, I love him so much. The thought of him not being by my side just makes me feel so depressed. During out first 6-8 month, he was cheating on me with this guy, I saw plenty of emails. I don't know if they did anything sexuall... (457 words

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