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writes:Okay.To clarify- we're both legal and certain that we want to take our relationship to 'the next level', so please don't judge me -_-Basically, I live with my parents and sister, and he lives with his mom and sister. They never seem to be out of the house for long enough for anything to happen!So me and him want some *wink wink* alone time.Do any of you have any ideas for how we can get an empty house for long enough? We're getting desperate!!
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (30 September 2011):
 I'll make the suggestion of a hotel room....
Even now, with my own home, there is something magical about being in a hotel with my love....
and please take all the necessary precautions... birth control pills or another form of birth control for no pregnancy and CONDOMS for safe sex....
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reader, YouWish +, writes (30 September 2011):
 First of all, there's nothing to judge! No one's cheating on someone else, and you both are of age and consenting! So knock yourselves out!
I get to give you the standard lecture though! Be safe!! Condoms are a must, and if you haven't started on another form of birth control, you might want to start! Sex is a big risk, so "ride" responsibly! Lecture over. I feel better. ;)
Now, to the "alone time" thing. I do not recommend a car for your first time, so I suggest you both save your money and spring for a hotel room together. That way, it'll be special, unhurried, with no worries about who might barge in at the wrong time. And...room service afterwards is utterly sublime! Think breakfast in bed!
If you simply can't afford a hotel room, it'll either be a game of "seizing the opportunity" with your family, or maybe getting creative and enlisting help from friends on a good place for your love nest.
But seriously...even if you have to wait a little bit...a hotel room is an AWESOME choice for a first time. If you have a lot of money, make it a bed and breakfast.
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reader, mattie90 +, writes (30 September 2011):
 Try planning a romantic weekend(if you both have the time) or day. Spend the day at the park together or go to the movies. It is a little bit more difficult when family is around. If you time it correctly wait until you know that both families are going to be gone and find a way to meet up. If doing the nasty is meant to be then let it take its own course. Wait until its the perfect moment you dont want to have to rush things and not enjoy it. Personally i would wait till you're at least 18 if you havent lost the "V" yet then please do wait.
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