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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My ex is confusing me.Is he doing it on purpose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

28 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hai everyone.Am in a confusing situation.My ex boyfriend and i were together for 11 months,we broke up 4 months ago.We are at the same university.i broke up with him after i found out that he cheated on me when we closed school.The girl he cheated on me with was from overseas ... (451 words)

Am I about to get played AGAIN? Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

28 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Please bear with me... I know this is long, but I DESPERATELY need your help! Well, I am having a little bit of boy trouble. Y'see I've been crushing on this boy since last year. But then I got over him because I thought that he was a stuck up snob who was a womanizer. W... (458 words)

I know he finds me attractive but I wonder what he wants?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4592 days ago

28 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think this guy still likes me ? I bumped into him today in a pub in town.we used to be seeing each other for about 2 months.my mum was with me today but she bought a drink for him and left us alone to talk.we didnt have a discussion at the time we broke up.he just ... (310 words)

I had unprotected sex and am now afraid I caught something!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

28 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I had unprotected sex with 2 different guys just 5 days ago. I was super drunk and didn't care for what I was doing. The next night I had unprotected sex with my bf for the first time. I know of his past, he has slept with a few other women. 2 nights later I got a bladder ... (114 words)

Feeling lost after we've stopped talking completely!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

28 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - okay, so the query continues from here, http://www.dearcupid.org/question/the-dilemma-of-my-long-running-relationship.html i'm now trying to forget her. its been more than a week since we've communicated. but its becoming really hard now. five months weren't THIS dif... (142 words)

I would like to know at what point I should tell dates that I have M.E/CFS?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

28 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like to know at what point I should tell dates that I have M.E/CFS? I am on a few on-line dating sites and I'm not sure whether I should put it on my profile. The problem is that although I can just about hold down a full time job, my social life/ability to pursue ... (206 words)

My teacher gave me a heart, does it mean his heart belongs with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

28 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I still have a crush on my old chemistry teacher. At results day we were really close and we nearly kissed, his face was millimetres away from mine. Now I have left and attend a different sixth form I cant stop thinking about him and the message he left in writing was 'I'l... (131 words)

She saved herself for marriage, but we went too far! She's been crying for days!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 September 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I was an arse. I've been with this woman for a year and she has been saving herself for marriage. Last week, she asked me to let her experience only a bit of myself and I impulsively took her. She hasn't stopped crying for days. She says she loves me but we aren't married a... (109 words)

Do girls find a man with a big butt attractive??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

28 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - do girls like big butts on a man? im slim but quite defined up top, definded arms, stomach and shoulders but in a slim way, i not skinny, fit is the word id use, then my legs are realy musculare from all the running i do , football for past 8 years and sprinting when i... (248 words)

I've been waiting for 2 and a half years for my boyfriend to talk to me! Is he worth it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

28 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 years and a month. (Since I was 12, and now I'm 17.) After 2 and a half years together, he moved across the US from me. Before he left, everything in our relationship was GREAT! He was the perfect boyfriend, and I was the ... (242 words)

We flirt all the time, then he goes silent on facebook. Does it mean anything?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

28 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So I work with this guy and we flirt all the time and are friends on facebook. So I sent him message saying it would be nice to know him better but he never responded, however he is rarely on facebook what does it mean any suggestions?... (47 words)

Is his promiscuous ex flirting with my man? What can I do to stop it, or am I possessive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4592 days ago

28 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I have a loving relationship with my bf for a month plus. Before that we already knew each other for almost a year. Although I'm very happy with everything, I can't help but feel that his ex is trying to flirt with him. She replies to his twitters within less ... (239 words)

My ex keeps saying OK to meet up, but she's never available. Is she genuinely busy or doesn't want to see me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4592 days ago

28 September 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex and I broke up about a month ago or so and after a while apart I started getting all these mixed signals from her. We have to see each other a couple times a week due to something neither of us can avoid. She has been flirting with me, teasing me, etc. then when we are... (322 words)

I used her laptop to watch porn, and now she's mad at me. I don't understand the fuss!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

28 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there, I got in somewhat of a shocking fight today with my girlfriend, let me explain. First of all she found out that Ive watched porn on her laptop in her house when she was in class. That day I woke up and she was already at class, I didnt even feel horny or whateve... (180 words)

My brother is obsessed with his ex wife and I can't deal with helping him anymore! Do I write him off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4592 days ago

28 September 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there, I'm curious as to what everyone would do about this (if anything) My brother was divorced from his ex wife about 8 years ago. They have one daughter who is now 10 yrs old. The trouble: he is obsessed with her and it's making him sick, ruining his finances, hi... (463 words)

My friend tried to make my boyfriend end it with me! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4592 days ago

28 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So this girl that I have been getting pretty close as friends, I met her a couple months back. Well I also just recently came out of a relationship and she has kinda been right there with me. I have reunited with someone whom I never really gave the chance to because I was in ... (182 words)

I'm not emotionally or financially ready to move in with him, what should I say to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

28 September 2011 (?) age 30-35 - have been with my boyfriend for just over 8 months, he told me he loved me after 8 weeks (we had been family friends for years and very close friends for about 2 even when at different universities) Recently he moved out so for the past 2 and a half months I come over and st... (679 words)

Feeling angry all the time because I don't trust my boyfriend and these other people are getting in the way of our relationship...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

28 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, firstly this is my question; I don't know what to do. In the very begining of my relatonship with my BF, if im being honest he wasnt the best and even he will say that now too. He never wanted to text a lot or see each other and he put this down to bad experiences ... (643 words)

Mixed signals from my ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

28 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my ex was together for 8 years until 4 weeks ago when we finished. We had our ups and downs but we had a good life and had worked hard for everything that we have got. My ex said I became to clingy and made her feel unloved, unwanted and unattractive as I struggle ... (709 words)

Friends or more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

28 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am in a bit of an awkward dillema at the moment, and i am grateful for anyone who has the patience and is lenient enough to read this thoroughly. I am currently studying at university alongside this guy (who i shall name D for confidential reasons) who is associat... (568 words)

18 years old and never been admired by a guy. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

28 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 years old and no boy has ever liked me.No one has ever approached me.No admirers, no suitors, no boyfriend. EVER. I don't think I am that ugly. I'm tall for my age and race and am not too fat nor too thin. I like wearing appropriate clothes that make me feel ... (270 words)

What do I do? Would it be bad if I did have sex with him next time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

28 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy online and we've been talking for a month now. We had finally met last week, and have hung out two nights since. The first night we met, he took me to dinner and we hung out at his house after. We were cuddling on the couch watching tv, and he kissed me. It tu... (554 words)

What are the tell tale signs that two people are romantically involved?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

28 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - What are the tell tale signs that two people are romantically involved particularly are having sex. I think two of my close friends [male and female] are doing the nasty.... yet both of them are married to other people. I dont know if its all in my head but lately, they are ... (89 words)

Should I have said something or should I have let it be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

28 September 2011 (F)

age - Hi Just would like an opinion on weather i over reacted or not to this, my boyfriend and i always say goodnite every nite. well tonite he was rather early and i just commented to him your early tonite it's not even dark yet then i said nite to him.well i get back this smart ar... (105 words)

Am I overreacting? I have told her how uncomfortable it makes me feel but she says I can't tell her what to do....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, Right been with my partner for 2 years and basically an old friend of hers from school found her on the dreaded facebook. He is a 17 year old guy from pakistan who is always with his older brother. Now my gf has alot of guys friend and i trust her 100% but I need ... (317 words)

Will our relationship be illegal when I graduate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

28 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I am going to graduate this year from highschool and my boyfriend is a year younger than me will it be illegal for me and him to date when he is still in highschool and I'm not? Also I don't want to break up with him I want him and I to be married someday and he feels the ... (65 words)

Was I just a 'work girlfriend'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

28 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Was I just the 'work girlfriend?' A new guy starting working at my office 5 months ago and I was assigned to work closely with him. We hit it off straight away but while I was professional but friendly because it was work and I didn't know him that well, he seemed more inte... (1191 words)

Ladies, which do you prefer - the cook or the dancer?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

28 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Just out of curiosity to all the women out there, which do you prefer - a man who knows his way around the kitchen or a man who knows his way around the dance floor? And why? (I'm just taking a poll of sorts after an interesting discussion among friends the other night) ... (57 words)

Is he into me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4592 days ago

28 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - One day, I asked my crush(He is an exchange student, and he also asked me out for the pub and having dinner with his friends) out for a lunch. He said it was okay and decided where we ate lunch. However, next day, he said on email he couldn't hang out because he didn't have ... (171 words)

If I leave it means moving back in with my parents and having no money with 2 young children, but I know he will never change if I stay.....what should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

28 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been with my partner for 5 years and married for 2 months, we have two children together ages 1 and 2. He is in the army so when we got married i moved in with him, 3 hours drive away from my home, i gave up my home and to be near my family to live with him.I ... (231 words)

Have I just forgotten what is fair? I feel like we are not married even though we have been for 3 years!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

28 September 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Forgotten what normal is... My second Husband and I have been married for three years together for four we have a two year old son between us and each have two other children from previous marriages. Our relationship has been utter turmoil, we have lived in seperate houses ... (539 words)

Is masturbating a sin?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

28 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a Christian (Catholic) girl and I have recently started masturbating myself, and I read lots of articles that says that masturbation is a sin. Is it true? Did God really prohibits it? P.S I am not using any toys or such.... (48 words)

What do you think hes thinking? Should I just wait for him to get in contact?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4593 days ago

28 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i met this guy and we hit it off right away, we have an undeniable spark and it was him that pointed this out at the start. he called me beautiful and we had amazing laughs together. weve now been seeing each other for around a month and every time we see each other is perfect. ... (523 words)

Why is he acting this way when I mention a friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

28 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So I'm sleeping with a guy that at first was only once week a week and now it has turned into 3-5 days a week. He has told me he wants nothing serious, but lately he has been wanting to meet my family, me to meet his friends, and do things like go camping etc. He also has been ... (129 words)

It's been a week now. I don't know how to proceed with her. Should I tell her '' No''? or say more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

28 September 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So I have this friend I have known for two years now. Several months after meeting she confessed that she liked me as "more than a friend", thought I was sexy, smart, wonderful and said she wanted to date me. I was very flattered but am not attracted to her that way. She is v... (326 words)

Unexpected! I just don't want this....What can I do or say to get her to stay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

28 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there everyone I need some help on my relationship. My GF and I have been together for 3 1/2 years. Everything has been going great we moved in together in April of this year and everything was perfect. But today she approched me after work and told me how she wasnt happ... (175 words)

Can I delete him off facebook? I don't want to know what he's up to!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

28 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex dumped me a week and a half ago. We had a 1 year relationship. Its been very hard for me, but he is completely fine. He feels nothing about the break up and has moved on. I have to see my ex every day as we go to uni together and are in the same faculty. We used to be ... (132 words)

Are my emotions after sex normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

28 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it normal for a man to feel gushy with a person he just had sex with? An is it normal to feel like things have changed after having sex with a person ? Or to view the person in a different light?... (43 words)

Is this bullying or am I just being overly sensitive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

28 September 2011 (?) age 36-40 - Would you call this bullying or just overreacting? I feel like I'm being singled out by certain people. One of the rules at work is no mobile phones unless you're on your break. I keep mine in my locker but apparently "someone" saw me with my phone who then told the manager... (548 words)