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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Breaking up was the right thing to do, but I'm still SO sad

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4592 days ago

23 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Here's the thing.. For the last few month I dated this guy .. and I had very strong feelings for him... I don't usually fall so fast but he has this thing over me that I can't explain... anyway it was a complicated relationship from the beggining I mean we had issues since our ... (468 words)

Should I confess how I feel in a non-confrontational way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

23 September 2011 (?) age 36-40 - I have been struggling with this for a while. And so I just want one more bit of advice. Should I confess that I am jealous of my husband's best friend and this other girl, who is also a mutual friend? And that I feel insecure? I'm jealous of the friend because I think my... (218 words)

Does he want a hook-up, FWB, or a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

23 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been friends with this guy for two years, and last night we were talking and it became pretty obvious that we thought of each other as more than friends. He asked me if I'd ever be interested in hooking up with him...I said yes. The problem is I'm not sure if he wants it ... (275 words)

I like to watch her masturbate, is this normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

23 September 2011 (M)

age - [note: please do not write questions in all caps] I like to watch my wife masturbate and she likes to watch me. I'm very small in size, maybe 6 inches hard. She tells me it doesn't matter. It bothers me and I just hope she's truthful. I perform oral sex on her. She doesn't... (71 words)

Confused about fwb's feelings for me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

23 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone my fwb who I met 6 months ago gets jealous if he sees me talking to another man or if anyone whistles at me but he is always saying he doesn't want to be with me what can that mean I would really like to be with him properly and he knows this like for instance I was ... (168 words)

He kissed me the first time we met, but not the second...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

23 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 (soon to be 19) and he just turned 23 a few weeks ago. I've known him since january 2011, but we lost contact for a couple months but started talking again, he asked to see me and we got on well and he kissed me. He's mature, humble, genuine, direct/upfront/s... (374 words)

The ex and facebook etiquette.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

23 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Facebook etiquette question: Me and my ex decided to stay friends after the relationship ended. We didn't have contact for a few months, then started hanging out again, and it works ok. I'm not in love with him any more, yet... It's still bothersome to see his facebook upd... (333 words)

My brother in law is a womaniser--- Should I tell my sister about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

23 September 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - We are indians. My sister got married to an American Indian man.This was his second marrige and he hid that from us. My sister came to know about it during hers immigration process. However, she accpeted that man. She came to US in 2008.Fortunately, I got admission to a ... (288 words)

He's 32 years older, and past the bedroom we don't have much in common. Do I break it off?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

23 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i am 18 and have fallen head over heels in love with a man that is 32 years older then me. I am in love but I also know the relationship is doomed as past the bedroom we don't have that much in common. We have been having sex for about a year and a bit now and I know he ... (97 words)

What should I do? Broke up 6 months ago. I don't want to just be his friend. I love him too much

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

23 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do? i don't think he wants me anymore:( can't stop crying:(? My ex bf invited me to his house last week, he cooked, we laid in bed (no sex) we kissed and talked lots. He held my hand when we were walking. He said he broke up with me because I was arguing and ... (234 words)

If we form a living arrangement he says he will only help with the food bill. Is this fair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

23 September 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Im a 46 years old woman just divorced my husband. I have got my own house and a part time job but earning just enough to support myself. I've met this man 16 years my senior and we gets on well and we've been together for 3 years. He has a good job and good income. He said I ... (93 words)

Am I taking this too personally?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

23 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I are pretty solitary. We go out and do things, but generally just the two of us. One of our mutual friends was talking about Halloween parties and he really wanted to go, but he did not seem to even think of taking me with him (I was standing right there ... (186 words)

Emails and texts with sexual innuendo, should I be upset or is it harmless?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

23 September 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My fiancee lives with me. He sometimes sends emails to his ex girlfriends with sexual inuendos. Should I be upset about this or is it harmless flirting/banter. He doesn't tell me about the messages and I have asked that he does. I have also seen some sexting/flirting texts on... (80 words)

Trying to get together with her but I don't want her to think I'm hitting on her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

23 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - On starting university a girl who is something of an acquaintance has come up to my hometown. I wouldn't say that I was overly interested in her at present (I don't know her well enough to make that judgement) what I would say is that we think and operate on a similar ... (144 words)

Am I being demanding or is he being uncaring, and doesn't love me as much as it appears?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

23 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost half a year. Things are generally well, but I occasionally feel he doesn't love me as much as he says. We live quite a distance apart so have to be in touch mostly via text. He replies to them fairly well, but can be unresponsive to ... (203 words)

Could my hubby be straying?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

23 September 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone Me and my hubby are very close and still very much in love after almost 22 years...He is the kind of man that wants to hold my hand,always touch me and always tell me how how much he loves me.our sex life is better then ever before.We are alone in a new city becau... (347 words)

Asking an ex-girlfriend out to lunch?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

23 September 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm thinking of asking my ex-girlfriend out to a light lunch to gauge things. Any tips or advice on how i should do this? I was thinking a text (aside from face to face talking, 90% of our communication was from texting. She doesn't like talking on the phone. Phobia)thats says ... (84 words)

18 year old with crush on 14 year old?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2847 days ago

23 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi guys i am 18 and i have a developing crush on a 14 year old girl and i just wanted to get peoples views on this is it weird to you or doesn't it matter to you? ... (40 words)

Flirting with me while all the time having a girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

23 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I can not get this man out of my head! I met this man at a fitness class, we got on great had lots of chemistry, and would always chat for hours. He always singled me out in this class and would smile all the time at me. He then asked me to go to different classes with him etc ... (207 words)

G/f complained about my penis. Is she cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

23 September 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend recently started complaining of my penis size. Could this be the sign she is cheating on me? ... (19 words)

Why would he suddenly make his facebook photos public?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

23 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A guy removed me as a friend from his facebook list because he wanted no regrets and didn't want me to know about his actions. I got a really amazing makeover in the upcoming year. I know I shouldn't be searching him but ... I did. Anyway, he has everything on private except f... (123 words)

is it right for coaches to deny his players the freedom to love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

23 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love with my girlfriend who is in my country's national under-21 football team. She's 19, the captain of the team, and is the only out lesbian in her team. According to her, several of her team mates are closeted lesbians but they are afraid of coming out. All her team ... (447 words)

I have phobias about life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

23 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i have a strange question but sometimes it really does get to me so much i think i need help. i feel abit scared like a phobia of life and dont want to be here. wouldnt do anything silly i dont mean in that way i just mean i cant cope with things like being ill or sick and im ... (235 words)

I have a nice guy but after being cheated on by my ex I'm so jealous now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

23 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid , i am so confused that i thought about visiting a shrink , here is the issue ,, after breaking up with ex cheater " which i mentioned his story before" he cheated on me with my friend ,, someone appeared in my life his name is karim , he is so sweet and honest a... (191 words)

Husband has cancer but cheated on me when I was asleep nxt door with his kids

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

23 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - well hello everyone i dont know were to start and i have never postd before i just dont know what to do, im a mother of 5 ages 11 ,7,3,2 and 8month old baby me and my husband have been togeather 16 years and we have had our problems alot actually but recently he has got cancer ... (551 words)

I broke up b/f of 5 years and he hasn't contacted me since then!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

23 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my bf of five years because of the lack of sex. I broke up with him on Sunday, and then I left his home, but he still hasn't contacted me. He has not asked for me back, he has not called or text or anything. Did I not mean anything to him?... (56 words)

Ex is stalking me and making me very uncomfortable!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

23 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, I confront her with proof about her stalking and she completely denied it. She went off on me about how she got better things to do with her time when she clearly did to it. She admitted it to someone as well a while back. All i asked her was for her to be honest and... (436 words)

Should I get back with my ex for FWB till he is ready to get serious again

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

23 September 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - A few days after my ex fiancee and I started talking about breaking up, he starting persuing another woman. Because of this I ended it totally with him. They got very serious quickly but she broke up with him a couple of months later. My ex was devastated. That night he ... (242 words)

Our constant fighting has killed the romance in our relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

23 September 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for three and a half months, after just over a year of friendship. In that time, I have always tried to be a respectful, honest, and deeply caring partner. And, for the first part of our relationship (our romance period), things were ... (251 words)

My girlfriend superior sports knowledge gets me jealous, what should I do to get rid of this tendency ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

23 September 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a sports freak, I play field hockey and soccer and great fan of other sports. I always wanted to have girlfriend having same passion for sports. To my good luck, I got one early 2010 and immediately we hit off well. She was a field hockey player and now coaching loc... (168 words)

Afraid of my boyfriend finding out about my awful past tomorrow night.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

23 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need someone to reply, it's urgent. REALLY urgent. Ok, so I have been with my bf for about a year. We broke up last April but we still had contact. I was really depressed and did some very nasty stuff which I now regret badly because I was trying to be someone who I am... (595 words)

Best friend keeps stealing my girl!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

23 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So Im in college and my best friend is a year older than me. In a way, he's always been my "wingman" but recently it seems he ends up taking the girl I'm aiming for. The first time it happened, I met this super hot chick at a party me and my friend were at. I introduced myself ... (372 words)

How do I interest her? Should I cut my loses or just be blunt and tell her I want to date her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

23 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl who I have been interested in dating for a while. We go to school together and we are pretty close. The only problem is she had a boyfriend for the longest time. Now she is finally single again. I never have been great at dating/ reading women. Long story ... (207 words)

Should I contact my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4592 days ago

23 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So me and my ex went out for 3 years, it was both our longest relationship and we lost it to each other, we broke up once for 4 months and a lot happened during that period, like we both had sex with different people during that time. We went back out but deep down i resented ... (410 words)

Separated 3 years, do I need to grieve?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

23 September 2011 (M)

age - i have been seperated for three years and deep in side i have always believed that my wife and i would reconcile to the point we went to church and counseling. it now appears grimmer than it ever has ,, someone said to me or i read some where that i need to grieve. in order ... (74 words)

So, how should I go about dating her without coming on too strong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

23 September 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Right, I've got a question on dating. As a junior in high school, I haven't much experience with this sort of stuff, though I'd really like to, and there's a new girl in the class below me. I've made her acquaintence, and she seems quite virtuous. She's very pretty, and ... (151 words)

Married lover needs me but won't say he loves me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

23 September 2011 (F)

age - Hi,I am so confused with my married lover,we have been lovers for 5yrs he is 65 and i'm 60, he knows that i love him very much but i'm not sure if he cares about me as strongly,these last few mths though he has become more emotionally envolved with me more loving when we have ... (257 words)

Why do I always drive people away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

23 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't understand why, but I always drive people away. Especially with romantic relationships that are going well, I will always sabotage the relationship, but I do it with other people too. My friends and family... I don't make the time for them, I let them down, I avo... (234 words)

2 weeks after argument b/f still hasn't contacted me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

23 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I and my boyfriend started the relationship bout 6months ago. Its been the best feeling ever. I love him so much aand he says he loves me too. He says my attitude stinkks whereas, he's is worse. Everytime he does something wrong and I react, he'll ignore me till I beg and beg. ... (235 words)

Should I pull the plug on this marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

23 September 2011 (F)

age - should we end this marriage?I've been with my husband for six years,it's like my life is over there's nothing to look forward to,sex is alway's the same no forplay no waiting for a woman to get horney,it's stick it in get off and dont worrie if anyone else enjoyed it.then when ... (207 words)

Am I being completely taken for a fool by my ex and our mutual friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

23 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Its been almost a year now since my ex broke up with me. He was someone I met through mutual friends, and because of this ive talked to him and still seen him a decent amount since we broke up. And although the break up was one sided, it wasn't nasty and we've both been able to ... (740 words)