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I was considering writing him a short email with my phone number. Is this stupid to do?

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26 September 2011 (F - I will be leaving my job soon and was hoping to keep in touch with certain people..There is a guy coworker in my area..i sometimes feel the way we look at each other we like each other and other days things are just normal without any looks..we also made out a couple of times ... (231 words

He seemed like such a gentleman, and I don't know what I did to make him stop contact!

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26 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm very confused here, this guy I met last monday we got along so well and both seemed really interested in each other. It was nice to just talk to a guy and properly get to know them, without them slyly trying to creep on! Well, we ended up talking for hours and someho... (193 words

If he's not a breast man, why did he notice hers?

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26 September 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I just want to know if I am over reacting or if my husband has not been respectful. My husband never touches my breasts and every time I ask why he just says that is him and he is not attracted to women’s breasts. I have been suffering about his thought and the way he... (217 words

How can I control my obsessive actions?

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26 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi I'm 22 years old and ever since I was 15 I have had sevral unhealthy obsessions with individuals one of them got so out of control I was threatend that the police would be involved. I'm now recently obsessed with my ex boss during his leaving party we danced inappropiately ... (107 words

Do these crazy dreams mean we are meant to have one more child?

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26 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - i had a dream my ex got me pregnant and then another night had another dream that I GOT HIM PREGNANT ... what does this mean? and we have an 8 month old together does it mean we are meant to have 1 more child?... (45 words

I'd like if she had a threesome!

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26 September 2011 (M age 41-50 - I'd enjoy if my wife has a MMF threesome but she doesnt know this fantasy i have. What do i do? Should i ask her? I think she would never does such thing like that but anyway i want this!... (40 words

How to hint other people I am gay?

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26 September 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hey there all who want to help :) I am gay, 22 years old, straight looking and acting though, since i dont like being femine (no offence to femine gays out there) and since that is the way I normally am :P. My question is, if there are any signs I can give to other people... (139 words

Do you think he's using me?

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26 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - I just wanted some advice, because I really feel like my bf is jst using me. We knew each other really well b4 we went on our first proper 'date' and by the end of it we were snogging. Since then we have had abt 5/6 dates and every time he just wants to get physical and seems ... (193 words

How common is it for women to have sex because they think it will help "catch" a guy?

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26 September 2011 (M age 41-50 - I realize this is a very broad question, and every woman is different so there's no single "right" answer, but I'm curious what people's general thoughts are? To what extent do women have sex because they think it will help them catch a guy? I realize it could be partly ... (239 words

I just can't seem to get over my ex and can't figure out why!

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26 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - O.k so I am in quite a weird situation which I can't seem to figure out so let me explain my situation so hopefully someone could give me advice ! This is probably really long by the way So it's been 2 years since me and my ex broke up, I broke up with him first of all and the ... (1287 words

BFF? Emotional affair? Possessive? Has this ever happened to you?

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26 September 2011 (F age 41-50 - How can i know if i'm in a emotionnal affair with my male bff (i've known him for one year)? I adore my boyfriend but i like the attention i get from my bff he listens to me and notices me more than my bf it seems. I'm addicted to it I think like a drug. I don't want to have a ... (363 words

Why do I only want to date my friends?

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26 September 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hey everyone I'm a gay guy and I guess I find it hard to get close to other gay people and I’ve had my fair share of disastrous dates! Anyway I’ve come to realise that the only people I seem truly attracted to are people that I am friends with though they are not always close... (174 words

My baby's father cheated and had a baby with her!

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26 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend for two years and i got pregnat in may 2010 and while i was pregnat he had cheated on me most of my pregnacy but after my son was born i wanted my family together so i for gave him. i found out the girl he was cheating on me with was pregnat and ... (155 words

How do I get this sex addict some help?

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26 September 2011 (F age 41-50 - A member of my immediate family is gay. None of us have a problem with this, however his behaviour over the last 16 years is causing me to question whether he is a possible sex addict. He has never had a meaningful relationship in his life. He has no friends, no hobbies and n... (263 words

How do I deal with my husbands family

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26 September 2011 (F age - I have been married for 4 years to a very kind and loving man but I do not get on with his family. His family take the mickey out of me and call me posh and snigger about me behind my back. We come from very different social backgrounds and they go out of their way to make me ... (267 words

She doesn t want me paying for her lunch...what should I do now

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26 September 2011 (M age 30-35 - hi, I have known this girl for just over a month and plucked up the courage to ask her out. I asked her if she would like to go for lunch sometime this week. Initially she said, yes, that sounds like a good idea. But then she hesitated and said that she's short of cash. I said ... (112 words

Insane jealousy driving me crazy, please help!

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26 September 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hi. Does anyone have any help for me in how to deal with jealousy/insecurity? I have been with my bf for almost 2 years and we are about to move in togther. I know he is my one, I have never felt like this about anyone, I love him deeply. The thing is, although I know he loves ... (390 words

Why does she flirt so much?

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26 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - Why does one of my best friends flirt with loads of boys? There is one boy who she goes out with, but she says she doesnt like him, his friend likes me but whenever he isnt around she flirts with him. The other day we had been round at a friends house and it got late and dark ... (167 words

She stops me from confronting individuals that want to date her?

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26 September 2011 (M age 36-40 - We have related with my girlfriend for a year now at campus. now that i finished my program she alone there, she tells me about people who are asking her for love and that she turns them down. However, she stops me from reacting to those individuals. Why do you think she stops ... (69 words

We had sex on second date, now what?

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26 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi.. Met this guy i really like, he's 33 yrs old. Our first date went really well and we enjoyed it so much. We kissed on the first date. He asked for another date which was last saturday to hang out watching movies at his place. So i came. We talked after the movie the ... (596 words

Is it irrational of me to be jealous of my husband getting drunk with another girl?

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26 September 2011 (? age 36-40 - Does this mean anything? Over the weekend my husband was playing an online game with his friends on xbox live. It was a drinking game, and I was able to hear their conversation through the t.v. It was him, his male friend, and two girls. One girl is only 19 and wasn't d... (409 words

Why does my ex hang out with another guy if she likes me still?

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26 September 2011 (M age 30-35 - My ex-girlfriend of three and a half years, broke up with me and we've been broken up for a month now. She loves me, and told me she will always care about me, and she'd love to get back with me in the future. But right now she also has feeling for another boy and hangs out ... (101 words

I wish my b/f could have sex and kiss like my ex!

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26 September 2011 (F age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for 2 years now. He's not a great kisser and the sex is pretty bad - he doesn't last. I have talked to him about the sex and kissing, even guided him through how I like it. But he slips back into the his bad kissing the very next day. I feel so ... (151 words

Why don't tampons fit me right now after boyfriend fingered me?

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26 September 2011 (F age 26-29 - I've used tampons before and they worked fine. My boyfriend fingered me for the fisrt time about 2 months ago. Ever since then my tampon won't go in! I'm using the same type of tampon. I slide the aplicator in but the cotton part comes right back out! any suggestions ?!?! ... (51 words

Did I screw things up in asking her out?

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26 September 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hey everyone. there is this girl in my class that i really like. but since we just started uni. we dont know eachother, i sat next to her this afternoon and i began talking to her, i guess it was stupid though coz the first thing i said was hey how are u obviously. then i told ... (222 words

I know this girl so can I ask her out directly?

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26 September 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hi, I have never asked a girl out on a date. Here is my current situation, There is this girl that goes to the same college and works at the same place as I do. She is very nice and sweet. I don't know what she thinks about me but I know for fact that being around m... (182 words

Is it ok for a woman to say I love you first?

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26 September 2011 (F age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with a guy for a while, and we are very close. We have told each other how much we care about each other in a lot of ways, but haven'y actually said "I love you" yet. Is it ok for a woman to say I love you first, or should she wait for the guy to ... (65 words

I have a lump, is it an infection?

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26 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - I am a 20year old lady. Last weekend my boyfriend and I had sex that was kind of rough, although we do that lots of times. I have since noticed a small lump (hard) on my vagina lip and i happen to have more discharge than normal. It seems like am wet every time. Could this be ... (128 words

We didn't get along for 10 years and now we're sleeping together?

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26 September 2011 (F age 41-50 - I know this guy for about 10 year we never got along until about 4 month ago and now we are sleeping 2gether why has it happend ... (27 words

Desperate--I think I've just pushed our relationship too far

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26 September 2011 (F age 41-50 - It's been one year since our first date. He has been faithful to me, but I've often wondered if we were a relationship of convenience for loneliness and companionship. I haven't felt that I was his precious girlfriend consistently. I'm afraid I may just have been reading him ... (178 words

I broke up with him because he's still staying with his ex!

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26 September 2011 (F age 41-50 - someone try and convince me that i have done the right thing. i just left a relationship, because my x boyfriend is still staying with the mother of his daughter. he claims he doesn't love her, and that she has no where to go. plus she is looking after her daughter..the ... (130 words

She never invites me to her home any more. Why does she only suggest we "get a room"instead? What's going on?

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26 September 2011 (M age 41-50 - Let's say you are in a relationship with woman where is has been off and on for years and have been to her place before, in the beginning. but now she moved and told you "she brought a house" and I live out of town but every time I come into town she wants me to get a room at s... (80 words

I'm the last one to be told anything about his plans. Do I end the casual relationship we've got going?

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26 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - There's this guy I've been seeing. We aren't official, but have spent the last month and a half or so together. Not long ago I found out, via a mutual friend of both me and him (a friend who does not know we are seeing each other), that he plans to move! He didn't inform me a... (994 words

When is the right time for me to come out as a Cross Dresser? I need help to come to terms with my life.

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26 September 2011 (M age 26-29 - I am whats classed as a cross-dresser. I want to be able to 'come out' to my parents, to my school mates, to everybody. I am afraid to do this, I have almost told my Mam once or twice, but Dad is so male, that I am afraid to tell him. I need help to come to terms with my ... (64 words

Has being single so long left me bitter in some way, or maybe desperate seeming?

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26 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - I've been single for three years. The first year was nice, because I was finding my own life after getting out of a long, young, horribly bad relationship (only one ever). Now I've wanted to be with somebody and have a healthy relationship for years but just can't seem to..... (209 words

Am I in the wrong for not doing it more often or when he asks for oral sex?

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26 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - hi, my boyfriend and i are both 26 and have been together for four years. We seem to have the same repetitive arguement all the time regarding performing oral sex on him. The thing is i really dont like doing it, so i dont do it often. maybe like once a month, but if it was up... (138 words

I am moving soon. We argue too much. Would it be healthier to completely separate?

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26 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 6 months and things are starting to fall apart. I am moving to a neighboring state in a few weeks and we have just been having little arguments ever since i told him. Arguments about little pointless things that we never used to ... (115 words

Yasmin Pill a month later

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26 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hello everyone thanks in advance for your answers. My issue is technical. My gyno prescribed me Yasmin pills and told me to take them August 6 because I wanted to be period-free for some time (Swimming-Lengthy Vacation). BUT! My period came to me August 11th... again... (176 words

Sad part? I don't think he likes me that way. Is it that he just wants to have sex?

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26 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - I've been friends with this guy for quite some times. We are really close and I believe we've known each other for 7 years. Well this year we finally confessed we liked each other and dated for a two months. After we broke up things went back to our usual friendship. Now he... (221 words

I cannot ignore my former LDR any more. I took a risk. Was this the right way to reconnect with him?

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26 September 2011 (F age 51-59 - Five months ago, I told a long-distance love (I live in LA; he's from San Fran) that I couldn't do it anymore. Mainly, because he would constantly tell me he missed me and wanted to see me, yet wouldn't follow through. Granted, we only dated six months--but things moved ... (218 words

Can this be a relationship? He is straight and I am gay. He's a co-worker.

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26 September 2011 (M age 41-50 - i would like to ask help or advice regarding my relationship to my co-worker. i am so very confused about our relationship because between the two of us there is a mutual understanding between our friendship. probably he knows that i care for him so much and i show love and... (68 words

I really do like this girl, but I don't want to be THAT guy. She has a Bf already

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26 September 2011 (M age 30-35 - So i met this girl at school and i started falling for her. After a couple months of crushing, i found out she had a boyfriend. I tried hard to forget her and move on but it was very hard because I see her everyday. So we started becoming close friends and hang out ever... (223 words

Has anyone ever felt this way for a potential significant other?

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26 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi I was wondering if anyone has felt this way or if anyone can make me realize what these feelings were. During my last course in graduate school ( i was 24) I landed in this class; my last class thesis class, before I had to graduate. Either way I went in the class just thi... (713 words

I'm just really hurt and I didn't see it coming. Do I just let her go? I really do like her.

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26 September 2011 (M age 30-35 - First of all thank you for reading this! So i've been in love with my best friend now for close to two years. We met at a friend's house and we liked each other and went on a few dates. She had just broken up with her boyfriend of two years so she didn't want anything serious... (1220 words

So much friction his head becomes numb....is there anything that can be done to help?

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26 September 2011 (F age 41-50 - I' writing a question on behalf of a dear friend of mine. His penis is very big,both in length and girth, especialy the head is huge. I think this causes so much friction during sex that the head becomes numb. Either way he hardly ever comes. It really frustrates him. Is there ... (62 words

I love him. If he was doing his part, would I be cheating? But am I wrong?

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26 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together 9 months, known each other 3 years, havent seen each other in 3 months, spoke on the phone once in those 3 months. our primary form of communication is texting. And sometimes we go a week without a text, especially after we spend a day toge... (164 words

Should I take 'Plan B' as there was no protection?

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26 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - Yesterday I attempted to have sex for the first time with a stranger and while drunk. The thing is he didn't have a condom on and I'm not quite sure if we actually had sex or not since I was inebriated and inexperienced. I remember that it hurt a lot and at some point he ment... (119 words

Too many arguments. is there a way I can get over him without ending the relationship

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26 September 2011 (F age 26-29 - im worried my boyfriend and I are not going to work out. We argue every single day about stupid things. Im deeply in love with him , and what hurts the most is that this relationship was unexpected. He claims that he's in love with me , and that he shows tons of effort , but ... (114 words

Was he being cruel? why would he give me his friends phone number and not his? why not just say no thanks ?

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26 September 2011 (? age 36-40 - names have been changed I am doing running crew for a play and i asked one of the cast members(X) if i could buy him coffee sometime , He said sure and i got his phone number but as we were standing there his friend(Z) said that's not his number, that he had giving me his ot... (111 words

I think I'm falling for my one and only friend! Should I carry on flirting and get my hopes up?

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26 September 2011 (F age 26-29 - Well i know you probably hear things like this all the time so, ill try and keep it short as possible and thanks for taking the time to read it!. Basically long story short i think i might be starting to really fall for my one and only friend. We have known each other since... (550 words

Long distance? what is truly happening? Is he just trying to break up?

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26 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now and I love him more that I ever thought I could possibly have feelings for another person. During the two years, he was deployed for 9 months and now has moved back home for the last 5 months, so the majority of our rela... (125 words

Is she out of love? taking me for granted? it was my birthday 2 weeks ago and she did not plan anything for me

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26 September 2011 (M age 41-50 - For the past couple months I feel that my girl and I are drifting apart. I feel that I am always trying to hug her or kiss her and it's like she doesn't want it. We have been together only for 2 years now and we barely make love and she complains all the time about it mayb... (148 words

My FWB: I'm starting to like him and I want to know how or if I should let him know?

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26 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hello everyone I'm new to this and hopefully will get some advice ... I've been sleeping with this guy for about a year and half I guess we are friends with benefits. Even though he has said he likes me, and one time after sex he told me I was going to fall in love with him. I ... (118 words

Is this how it is? Should I be getting more than a tingeling sensation when masturbating?

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26 September 2011 (F age 26-29 - Well this is kind of embarassing, so if you are your not going to be nice about it just don't say anything, otherwise thanks for taking your time to read this. Well i am a teenage girl, and like a lot of teenage girls i masturbate, one problem though. I can't seem to get much... (149 words

Advice on moving forward with girlfriend,

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26 September 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hey all, So I met this girl over the summer and have been seeing her for about two months now. She is amazing. She has made me happier than i have ever imagined. I almost didn't go back to school because of her. I just have a few questions and would like your opinion ... (704 words

Does real love even exist?

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26 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - I have a question and an opinion to ask of anyone here and if they could please help m out. I want to know if "love" between a man and a woman can really exist? Is it worth it to let someone in and really give 100% to the other individidual? I ask that because of my past.Three ... (321 words

Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all... But if I never loved I would have never lost. and would not feel the this way..

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26 September 2011 (M age 30-35 - My ex girlfriend and i love each other alot. Im not putting words in her mouth she has told me that she loves me even tho we are broken up. Its my fault why we broke up. I was drunk and went online and sexted another girl. I honestly didnt know what I was doing and I didnt know ... (655 words

How to get a girl to like me? Did I screw up?

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26 September 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hi. I'm a freshman at college. There's a really cute girl in my Chemistry course and I see her around often. Today though, I saw her at the library and talked to her for the first time - she came to the library to do her homework. I asked her if she was taking my course... (129 words

Is it normal to feel bad after a threesome?

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26 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hey guys, quick question, is it normal that a person feels disgusted with themselves after a three way? Lately it's like I feel like I'm close to tears and I can't stop thinking about it. ... (35 words

Girlfriend has started partying more on weekends. Is this just growing pains?

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26 September 2011 (M age 36-40 - Dear Cupids, I have dated a couple of different people in my life, but I've never gone steady with my significant other as long as my current relationship. I am looking for others experience manly in this area and the area of change. I love my girlfriend. When we first me... (287 words

I left in the middle of the night after sex, now he never wants to hear from me!

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26 September 2011 (? age 30-35 - Hey everyone, about a month ago I started seeing this guy and he was an absolute sweetheart to me and things were going well... Anyway, last night we went on a date and we planned that I would stay at his house for the night. We had sex multiple times and it was amazing, but... (222 words

I like her but we're both shy. How can I help her not be?

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26 September 2011 (M age 26-29 - I've liked this girl at my school for two years problem is we are both really shy. we are friends of friends. Anyway what I want to ask is how can I break her out of her shell I'm ready to do anything. Please help.... (45 words

Sometimes I feel so in love with my b/f and at other times I wonder why I'm with him...

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26 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 3.5 years. I love him very much but seem to dislike him at the same time. For a long time now, I keep getting into fights with him for no reason (my fault) and keep breaking up with him. The thing is, I've always imagined our future as being ... (216 words

I'm worried that no woman will ever be interested in me because of my financial problems

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26 September 2011 (M age 36-40 - I need some encouragment. I am 26 years old and just going to college. I am having some money problems with school loans so I may have to drop out, but I will pursue my education none the less. I am worried that no quality woman I would want to be with will ever be interested ... (123 words

Boyfriend isn't lasting like he used to, is he cheating?

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26 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - Me and my bf used 2 have great sex but recently he's only lasting like not even a minute? He never used 2 b like this and am scared that he's cheating on me?... (34 words

Dating etiquette?

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26 September 2011 (F age 51-59 - On our second date he" forgot " his wallet, and for our 3rd he wanted to reschedule because he said he was sick, how should I have reacted/ responded?... (29 words

Ever since the first date, it's been nothing but a headache trying to set up the next!

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26 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - I met a man a couple of weeks ago and had a great first date together. He's a true gentleman and I was excited to have met him. But now ever since the first date,it has been nothing but a headache trying to set up a second date. HE was the one who first suggested a second date ... (189 words

Becoming too attached to my boyfriend. What should I do?

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26 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hello Aunts! I am sort of in a sticky situation and I am trying to figure out what to do. Any advice would help me greatly! I have been with my boyfriend Andy for almost 8 months. I am 21 and he is 20. We both attend the same University and spend a good amount of time together... (500 words

Is it bad if I don't want to take my boyfriend to Homecoming?

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26 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - My friends say I'm being insensitive if I say I don't want my boyfriend to come to my homecoming dance with me but I just really want to go alone and enjoy it with my girls. Is this really that bad?... (41 words

He's turned it around to try to make me the guilty one!

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26 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - Here's the thing. I had my boyfriend of nine months. Well about 2 months ago I started noticing little things/clues that were telling me that he was talking to another girl, like a text every so often and he would say it was this app that he has on his phone. Then the last ... (326 words

Should I wait for him or just end the relationship now?

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26 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - 0kay so im 17 and my bf is 18. we've been together for 4 months, but in the last week before our 4 month, we began to fool around a bit. one night when i was home alone i asked him to come over. which he did and he ended sleeping over. that night we ended up having sex. that ... (229 words

I'm feeling underappreciated in this relationship.

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26 September 2011 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 1 year seems pretty blase about "us" until I look upset. It's very obvious how much I care for him. I just don't get the same enthusiasm about our relationship from him, that is, until I'm feeling so unappreciated that it is obvious to him that I'm upset. I ... (85 words

We haven't met in person but I don't want to mess with what we have!

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26 September 2011 (M age 51-59 - The other day when I said I was alone, she texted me back saying that Im not alone, cus I have her. She says that she enjoys talking to me every day. I am really looking forward to the day we meet in person, but I dont want to mess with whats so great right now. Have you ever ... (95 words

I'm suffering from insecurity and need help please!

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26 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hey, I was wondering if anyone can help me really ? Im 17 years old ( nearly 18 ) and just over 5 months ago i met this bloke from my workplace. I knew straight away he was the one and anyway we hit it off quickly and have been together 5 months ish. He is 34 and has 3 kids, ... (639 words

Has anyone got any tips to help ease the itching for chicken pox?

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