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I cant understand him! Does he see me as just a friend?

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Question - (29 September 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 September 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *arryxoxo writes:

One day, I asked my crush(He is an exchange student, and he also asked me out for the pub and having dinner with his friends) out for a lunch . He said it was okay and decided where we ate lunch. However, next day, he said on email he couldn't hang out because he didn't have enough money and had a class's project and also said that he would contact me if he had enough money. But one day after that, he said we could hang out for lunch on the condition that I pay money for him, citing he paid restaurant's extra money(I didn't have enough money so I can't pay whole at that time) for me when his birthday party. I said it was okay and he accepted my offer. Incidentally,on the day of date, he said he skipped his breakfast. And also incidentally, when we talked, he was a little bit nervous(at least his behavior isn't usual..)and noticed my little change on my appearence(straightening teeth)and folded the door for me.What's more, he wore a shirt(He usually wears T-shirts). But he didn't offer a soffer at that inexpensive restaurant. Anyway, I can't understand his feeling.. These are too confusing for me to grasp.. Does he see me as just a friend? Please help me out!

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (29 September 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntThe only way that you are going to find out how he feels about you is to ask him. Tell him that you like him and ask him how he feels about you. Its the only way that you are ever going to know.

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