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So how do I make him forgive me for ignoring him because he was neglecting me!

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19 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend is so upset and mad with me right now because we had an arguement because of me. Bassically I got annoyed at him because he didn't give me much time since he was busyt with his work. So I got very frustrated and then just started ignoring him on purpose so he'd ... (164 words

I need some insight into the female mind!

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19 September 2011 (M age 36-40 - I need some insight into the female mind. I am away from home right now. Been away for about 4 weeks, and I have two more to go. My wife and I video chatted today, but the whole day she has been short on calls/texts. She seemed super tired (yawned about 4 times during the... (279 words

How can I stop these affecting me and most of all how can I beat him at his own games without speaking to him directly?

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19 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - An ex bf of mine who is a real nasty piece of work has recently taken to playing small mind games while I'm at college. It's nothing massive but just small things. He's taken to deliberately walking past me and is constantly in and around places I spend a lot of time. I know he ... (122 words

If I tell her I like her, would that make her like me back?

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19 September 2011 (M age 26-29 - Hi, I'm needing some help, there is a girl I like but I can't seem to be able to tell her as she doesn't like me back, but if I tell her could that make her start to like me? And obviously should I tell her?... (46 words

Financial crisis! Do you think things will get better?

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19 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for about 9 years and newly married 1 year. No children. My husband is 27 Recently, I have been questioning my marriage due to financial concerns. My husband currently does not have a job (he quit the last one in July). He recently got hired at a ... (227 words

I can't stop the porn and masturbating habits! Help!

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19 September 2011 (M age 26-29 - I am addicted to porn and masturbating and I can't stop, I've tried many things but i just can't do it help please!... (23 words

Am I obliged to tell his wife the details about the sex we had?

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19 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - A few months back I slept with my married boss twice. We got on great in work and in general, one thing led to another and we ended up sleeping together. Things were awkward and a mishap in communication led to a second 'mistake'. We agreed it would never happen again and left ... (173 words

He says he's only staying until their child goes off to university

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19 September 2011 (F age - The man I love has married his cousin. He says he is only staying with her until their child leaves home for university. Once she has left home he says we can then start to make plans for our future and tell our respective partners, with the minimum amount of hurt, although ... (106 words

I told him it wasn't working out and now he's all psycho

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19 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi, this might drag on but ill try not to ramble! So i have just split up with somone because he didnt want a relationship he now has a new girlfriend and im finding it hard to get over it. Anyway just after we broke up a new boy came to our school (this is our last year) i... (455 words

I had sex with my married boss to keep my job and now I feel sick!

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19 September 2011 (? age 30-35 - I think i have just had sex with my boss to save my job. Ive always known hes fancied from since i started. but at the start of the year he told us that out of 3 of us 1 of us would get sacked. its just an office job but its a job so i decided i would fight dirty to win. how... (424 words

How can I get through to my b/f? He cannot stand confrontations

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19 September 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hello there. And thank you for taking the time to read and help me to solve my problem. I am a divorced mother of two children. And I am so lucky to be engaged to a wonderful man who accept them as his own. Please let me tell you about his positives, because I do not... (643 words

Give me advice to help me have a chance with this boy!

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19 September 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hello everyone. I don't want to waste anyone's time, but I was wondering if I could just ask a question. I've never had a boyfriend, though I do want one, but I'm quite shy. There is this new boy in one of my classes who I think I really like. I do make an effort to talk t... (137 words

I'm pregnant by my fwb, and I'm terrified to tell him!

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19 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hiya everyone I posted a question a few days ago saying I think I could be pregnant by my fwb I have today just done a pregnancy test and it has came back positive I have done three diffrent brand tests how do I tell my fwb I'm terrified I'm 25 and he is 35 he has a son and so ... (69 words

I want to have sex but yet I feel so torn!

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19 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have some rather irrational feelings with regard to losing my virginity which I'm hoping someone can help me understand. When I stop and think that other people are having sex (for this purpose I'm referring to penis in vagina intercourse... sorry to be graphic!), I feel so ... (172 words

Guy says he likes me but he doesn't answer when I call or text

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19 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - This guy says he likes me, but everytime I text him or call him he doesnt answer. idk what to do! Is he really interested in me like he says he is? ... (32 words

We're getting comfortable but she won't sleep with me

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19 September 2011 (M age 30-35 - So I been talking to this girl for a few weeks now. At first, she was very resilient. I heard a lot of the word "no", but now she seems more interested in hanging out. We've gone on a couple of dates/hangouts ( casual dinners, public shopping areas, small parties wi... (338 words

My boyfriend's mom hates me

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19 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hey guys.. I've been with this guy for 2.5 years. He's a great man and we just feel connected. He's 35 yo and I'm 26. But somehow, his mom hates me and his dad's at his mom's side even tho he doesn't really know the true story. He's the only son. At first, his mom liked me... (444 words

How can I get guys to notice me!

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19 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - All my friends have got at least one boy that fancies them. Im not the most pretty in my class but deffinatly one of the most quiet, i struggle to talk to boys and end up making a fool of myself. Ive liked this boy for over a year now and he gets on with my friends, but he ... (99 words

Lesbian thinks about being male and being dominated sexually by her female partner as male. Is it normal??

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19 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - I'm a submissive lesbian in a relationship with a dominant lesbian. I really enjoy being submissive to her. Although its not the macho-sadistic (I may have misspelled it) type relationship. Im a femme lesbian and love being a mushy sexy sensitive emotional feminine woman and ... (150 words

We had a great first date, we kissed but why hasn't he called me?

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19 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi.. I went out with this guy 2 days ago. He's 32 years old and im 26 yo. It was a really great date, we both enjoyed it. We talked about lots of things and shared things in common. We compliment each other and laughed. We had lots of fun and few drinks.. So yea, I went a li... (271 words

Did he or did he not have sex with his ex?

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19 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - Ok so about a year ago my bf of 4 1/2 years went and visited his ex in California. He didnt tell me about this until this past July. The only reason he told me is because we were having relationship problems and we ended up breaking up. He decided to get all the skeletons out ... (207 words

I am using my online American girlfriend to go to USA, now feeling guilty, should I disclose it on her?

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19 September 2011 (M age 36-40 - I am in love with an American girl through LDR on net whom I met through dating site and it's been almost 8 months since we got off to a start. She is gorgeous and running small sports gear shop there and recently have re-started her studies. She is four years younger than ... (288 words

Why does my ex say we shouldn't speak and then texts me 2 days later?

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19 September 2011 (M age 30-35 - So this is pretty much my last resort for coming up with answers to what is going on with my ex. So for background, my ex of and I of almost three years "officially" broke up about a month ago after months of trying to make it work. We both moved to a new city but she moved ... (436 words

Boyfriend taking body building products. Could it be affecting his personality?

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19 September 2011 (F age 41-50 - Please can you help me,I have been with my boyfriend for 2 amazing years and lived together for over 1 year. In the last couple of weeks my boyfriend has become very down and has mood swings, he seems to have lost interest in everything including me. I have tried to talk to ... (112 words

Going to be 30 and still a virgin! What do I do?

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19 September 2011 (F age 41-50 - I need some advice, I am the big 30 next year and I hate to say i but still a virgin. I don't get much male attention and I have never had a proper boyfriend infact I have only ever had one date and after a couple days I found out that he asked me out as a joke. Guys at my ... (169 words

I love this baby but can't have it! B/f and I both in college and not working!

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19 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi... I'm in a big trouble. My bf is 4 years older than me. We've been together for 4 years. Now he is doing his post graduate and he moved to a nother city.He is my whole world and i love him so much. He is also same because of that In every weekend he come and vist me. But ... (213 words

I'm going through withdrawal after seeing my b/f almost daily for 3 years!

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19 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - recently my boyfriend has gone away to university. Its local but i can only get there by catching the train with is a 30 minuite journey. visiting can only be and weekends and texting and calls is at a minimum. I've been with him now for 3 1/2 years and have seen him daliy a... (133 words

Will our relationship get better if we have?

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19 September 2011 (F age 26-29 - dear cupid. Ive been with this guy well nothing serious. We have been together for about 3 months yet whenever i mention taking things seriously he simply says i like you but im not ready for a relationship we should let things go naturally. He has recently changed he doesnt t... (131 words

Irrational insecurity or something to worry about?

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19 September 2011 (F age 51-59 - Hi all. A couple of things, I suffer from insecurity really badly whenever I am in a relationship and it always pushes my bfs away, they end up leaving. The thing is, a couple of things about my bf worry me and I would just like to know other people’s opinions on whether I am ... (301 words

How do I make things official and does he really like me?

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19 September 2011 (F age 26-29 - dear cupid ive been with this guy nothing serious although i like him alot.. Everytime i bring up the serious dating thing he simply says we should let things happen naturally.. He has stoped talking to me and always waits for me to talk to him and i feel some distance although... (77 words

Losing trust... am I over-reacting?

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19 September 2011 (? age 36-40 - Over the weekend my husband got new parts for his computer. He didn't realize he was going to have to re-install his whole operating system and did so without doing a backup. Once it was too late he said, "I bet I lost somethings." But he doesn't keep overly important stuff on ... (462 words

Never reached orgasm through penetrative sex!

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19 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I've slept with 3 men in my life. My current partner is 30 next month. I'm 22 years old and have always had a very active and healthy sex life. The problem is, I've never been able to orgasm through penetrative sex. I've tried all different things. Differen... (328 words

Have you ever done something against your parents' will?

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19 September 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hey there! I am totally dissatisifed with my life (place where I live, job...) and would like to change it. I'd love to move abroad (my bf lives there already) and start a new life there. Problem is my dad went all psycho and angry on me when I told him I wanted to live my life ... (125 words

I told a married man how I feel and now he has distanced himself from me

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19 September 2011 (F age 51-59 - Hi everyone. I am not sure if I did the right thing or not. I am a married woman and I recently told my married friend how I feel about him. It was just killing me keeping it inside because I thought he felt the same way about me and that there was something real between us.... (253 words

Should I forget about his lies? Why is he insisting on taking other people?

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19 September 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hey there, I have a question about a boy. We've known each other for 8 months. He's been giving me signs but didn't make the first step. I was the first to do this. I asked him out- we were wondering where to go and suddenly he offered me to take some of my friends with me. ... (126 words

Am I crazy for leaping into this new relationship?

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19 September 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hey there... I am so confused. I'd been in a relationship for 6 years and I just fell in love with somebody else. I feel terrible because I of course had to leave my bf to be with this new guy (a friend I'd known for yearsm actually... not that new) and I'm setting up for a ... (163 words

If God made men to live with women, why both are so incompatible sometimes?

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19 September 2011 (M age 41-50 - I live a great love life with my wife, she's the answer of God to me, i always remember that. But why marriage is so hard sometimes? If God made men to live with women, why both are so incompatibles sometimes?... (41 words

Ex is making me upset, do I tell the new boyfriend?

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19 September 2011 (F age 41-50 - This is a really difficult one for me. My ex who was horrible to me (read my previous question to understand) is causing me to feel upset - not because I miss him, care about him or anything like that. But because yet again, I've asked him to collect his belongings and n... (291 words

The danger of porn

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19 September 2011 (M age 41-50 - What do you think about porn addiction? Many marriages are ending up because porn, prostitution.... (15 words

She 'needs some space to regroup'?!?

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19 September 2011 (M age 36-40 - A little background, we're both 27, have been officially together for the past 6 months. Everything was going very well, having serious talks about moving in with each other and eventually letting each other know that we found exactly who we were looking for. All in all, some ... (284 words

How do you manage heart-sickness within the relationship?

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19 September 2011 (F age 41-50 - I'm so content and happy when we're together. We just 'get' each other. We're so very comfortable together with even the mundane things like sitting close watching TV, going to the grocery store, just hanging out. We're also pretty fiery when it comes to the more physical ... (159 words

How do I trust him again? I don't want to be controlling and jealous!

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19 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - so I’m having a problem with my relationship I’ve been with my boyfriend for 10 months he’s perfect well sometimes... I’m very jealous and controlling I honestly want to stop being that way.. I don’t know to tho the reason I’m so jealous is because a long time ago he left me to ... (285 words

I'm falling in love with a women who is with someone and who has a child with him, but things aren't good between them. What do I do?

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19 September 2011 (M - Hi, I'm falling in love with a women who is with someone and who has a child with him. Things are not good in there relationship though, she has spoke to me about it a couple of times and a few times said its make or break. I give her the best advice i can, and i never say ... (171 words

The "stranger" bartender...

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19 September 2011 (M age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I saw this guy in a pub. He is working there as a bartender. When I ordered a drink I realised I liked him. I was gazing him with such admire. But then I just gave up, I thought myself that I won't see him again in my life, probably. After a few days I saw him i... (249 words

Can't stop fantasing about oral sex with another man?

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19 September 2011 (M age 51-59 - Hello, i have a girlfriend and we are happy, we have a good sex life. The thing is i can't stop thinking about giving oral sex to another man, i even have fantasies about having sex with 3 or more men. I do not think of myself as gay, i have meet and known gay people a... (80 words

Should I worry? I can't stop thinking that my boyfriend still talks with his ex.

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19 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - I've never been to a long term relationship like the one i'm having right now. I was always insecure that the guys are cheaters and they will hurt me, so casual sex was pretty much what i was doing. When i men the guy i'm seeing right now i felt very secure with him and i ga... (559 words

How would I know if he wants me back or if we are back together?

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19 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - What do you think? does he love me? are we getting back together? My ex bf and broke up cos he felt like he didn't deserve me. He had a one night stand with some girl. and he felt bad so he ended it. I was a good gf to him, I loved him, did everything for him, but... (388 words

I don't want to ruin my chance with him when he comes back to my country!

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19 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - I need some advice! I am thai girl and that guy is american. First, i'll tell you how my story began. I met this guy (i'll call him yellow) at the pub. i went there with 2 friends( i'll call them pink and blue ) and he's with friend( i'll call his friend as black). ... (906 words

I'm so sick of his attitude of not caring as soon as I don't follow his ways!

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19 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - Sometimes I just don't understand my boyfriend or is it me to blame? We always fight at least once a week and I'm fed up. And he never wants to talk about the fight later because he says he'll get mad again . Like today , I was suppose to meet him at the library to study but I ... (309 words

Why wouldn't he want me to come with him on this trip? Should I dump him?

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19 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - All, my boyfriend and i hv been together for a year. Im 27 and hes 28. Im sometimes jealous and its been a rocky relationship. I dont think he ever cheated but he is a big flirt and has a high sex drive. Now he wants to go on a vacation alone to costa rica and backpack to ... (200 words

What should I do if I run into the ex?

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19 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - My friends have invited me to see a band early nest year. The thing is its where my ex and his friends hang out. I haven't seen or spoken to my ex since we brokeup. We dated a year and out of the blue, he dumped me by text. When I asked for closure, he called me a pyscho. I ... (103 words

How to find cute man I met on the train?

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19 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - I went out on the weekend into the city with friends. On the way home we met a handsome Irishman on the train. We made small talk but he had to get off the train not long after. I didn't get his number. I can I find him? The line isn't on my train line, it's on my friends ... (60 words

Am I cheater? Is this really that bad? I need help

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19 September 2011 (M age 30-35 - I was in a relationship with the girl of my dreams! She was seriously the most amazing person on this planet and we had so much fun together. I Miss her so much. I would kill for her and die for her in a second. She means the world to me. I wanted to give her the world but I ... (822 words

What would make a guy start to ignore a woman like this?

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19 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - ok, here is the problem, so i have been talking to this guy for a while and everything was goin really great, i felt like i had known him forever and when we hung out , our connection felt like it became stronger, even he said so himself. So all of sudden he just disappeared on ... (128 words

Why do I feel so stressed out sometimes?

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19 September 2011 (F age 26-29 - Mmmk, well .. i don't know why this is but .. I am always feeling stressed out about sumthing .. and i don't know what it is , like i will be on summer vacation .. and it is supposed too be relaxing, and such .. and i am feeling stressed out or at schoool, i will always be ... (164 words

Why isn't she texting me back?

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19 September 2011 (M age 30-35 - So I met this pretty girl she is single and I'm also single We met on a website, and we hung out And walked in the park she started holding hands with me and we made out for awhile like an hour or so Then next day we talked but not like the consistency of the days before hang... (133 words

My boyfriend's dad doesn't like me!

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19 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - I am on my school's swim team with my boyfriend. We had a pasta party at his house to build up some carbs for the meet the next day. We were bringing some food that wasn't done yet, and my friend needed to run by her house to grab something, so we ended up a little late. When ... (163 words

For some reason, I'm very insecure and can't trust him!

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19 September 2011 (F age 26-29 - okay so me and my boyfriend been together for a little bit more than 4 months and i truley love him.. i knew him before we got together, i love him more than he claims he loves me..For some reason, i cant trust him, he hasnt cheated on me from what i know , but im still very ... (143 words

Living with boyfriend and his friend... a disaster! Help!

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19 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - Need honest advice! Please! I am 24 and currently live with my boyfriend of a year (he's about same age) and there's another room which became available over a month ago - so we needed a third house mate. My boyfriend was keen for one of his friends to move in. I lik... (1089 words

How many men still find their wife attractive as she ages?

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19 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - I hear a lot about men desiring younger women, and of wives being heart broken over their husbands leaving them for a younger woman. So i'm curious, how many men still find their wife attractive as she ages? and after kids? do you still desire her sexually? Do you find youn... (57 words

Please? How do I make his 21st a special occasion?

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19 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend is turning 21 this Sunday the 25th and I don't know what to do for him. We've been together for almost a year and I really want to make it a special birthday for him. I don't know if I should take him to a nice restaurant or cook for him and set the mood with ... (98 words

Girlfriend is pregnant and our families are mad at us!

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19 September 2011 (M age 30-35 - I have been dating my gf for almost a yr now. She is 17 and I am 18. a few months ago we found out she was pregnant. Since we told our parents its been hell. Her parents were upset, her dad natural blamed me. Its been almost 2 months since we told her parents and her father ... (150 words

I love C and he loves me. But what do I do about my best friend A? She'd be mad at me for this

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19 September 2011 (F age 22-25 - Hi, well I have a problem. Last friday was my school dance and my best friends crush C was there. C told me that A owed him a slow dance,(A likes him but he doesn't like A) but my best friend A didn't show up! Then he said if A didnt show up I had to dance with him, so I did. ... (189 words

I did the right thing by her. But she likes another. How do I cope with this rejection?

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19 September 2011 (M age 26-29 - i feel like i did the right thing but it hurts.. i like a girl and we're great friends.. anyways she's telling me how she likes some guy (not me i know who he is) and that she thinks he loves her back.. well i told her what i really know about him and now shes mad at me.. did... (81 words

Will I lose him? Can LDR work? How do I keep the spark between us alive?

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19 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I have been together for just under a year and a half. We're completely and utterly in love and have been since the day we met. We were each other's firsts and he hasn't had much luck with ladies before me. That is to say, I'm his second girlfriend and his ... (236 words

I'm 34 and he's 23. How can I help him gain sexual confidence despite his erectile dysfunction issues?

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19 September 2011 (F age 41-50 - I recentely started to date a man, and we are having sex problem. I am 34-yr old woman, very attractive, nice body. I have 2 pre-teens. He is 23-yr old man, single. Very thin. I know that we are very attracted to each other, and very likely in Love. We both know t... (300 words

I'm tutoring her. Am I just falling for her so easily because I'm lonely and I miss my friends?

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19 September 2011 (M age 30-35 - Dear cupid Well i just started college about three weeks ago and im having a pretty bad time at first. One of the major problems i was having was being alone because about two weeks before i got here me and a close friend decide we want to have sex before we went of to co... (221 words

Emotionally he seems to be drawing away from me. Why has his interest waned?

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19 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hey guys, really need some help here, really getting me down! Ok so basically, i met my boyfriend of eleven months at uni last year. I know this is going to sound so typical and what-not, but during the first few months of our relationship we were great! We couldnt keep... (446 words

My sister is ill and it feels so sad like a bereavement. what is the best way to support her and the family?

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19 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - my sister has had a psychotic episode and is highly deluded, it has been very hard and feels a lot like bereavement. i was just wondering if there is anyone who has experienced something similar in their family. it came on so quickly and she's been in hospital a week now. ... (52 words

Acts like he likes me. But never asks me out. Is "Friend" all I can hope for?

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19 September 2011 (F age 41-50 - I really like this guy, I thought he liked me too, we text and or phone every single day all day from good morning to night night texts etc, at least 20 texts a day!! It was my birthday two weeks ago and he hasn't even mentioned it, I did tell him when it was, a while ago... (117 words

Can you think the world of someone and not want to be with them ?

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19 September 2011 (F age 36-40 - If a guy says he thinks the world of you,what does it mean ?.i'm confused as this guy i was seeing said that even after we stopped seeing each other.one of his friends told me that he said that to him after we broke up and another of his friends said he thinks the world of me ... (100 words

Urgent. I'm trying to stall my teacher at college. How else should I be handling this?

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19 September 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hello! Sorry this isn't a relationship question but I am freaking out so bad right now. I am a college freshman and I missed one of my classes on Wednesday. Well one of the classes I missed was Monday too I stalled in calling the teacher / emailing him because I was swampe... (245 words

Do guys often say as a joke: "I am going to marry this girl"?

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19 September 2011 (F age 41-50 - So I got a close friend who has been telling me about a childhood friend of hers (also Cuban like her) who has been living in the USA more than 10 years now. He recently came out of a messy relationship and is going to come visit her in Spain soon(she is married). My friend m... (160 words

Did he ever care? How can I move on from all this ?

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19 September 2011 (F age 41-50 - Three years ago my now ex and I broke up. we were from different cultures and religions and he decided that his family would disown him and things could not go further after three and a half years and the best part of our younger days together. Following an arguement we soon... (400 words

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