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*ulia7
writes:My bf told me that he is bi and likes me to use a dildo on him. Does that make him gay? I'm afraid I will lose him because he might want to be with a guy. He loves sex with me and I turn him on. He also tells me he loves me . He says he doesn't want a guy but I think he thinks about it. Can anyone help me.
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reader, Julia7 +, writes (30 September 2011):
Julia7 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionFirst of all I would like to thank you all for your answers.
He told me that he likes getting his prostate stimulated. He also said that he doesn't need a man.I guess he just likes anal play with me. That's great news. Thanks again.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (29 September 2011):
 Listen, if he is having sex with you then he's not gay. Because a gay man doesn't want sex with women. It's as easy as that. And if he's with you, it's because he wants to be with YOU. Take a deep breath and try to calm down, you're just being nervous and stressing out over nothing.
As for the dildo use, use a small dildo and be careful so you do not hurt him.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (29 September 2011):
 He said he was BI, it might be that he likes the feeling from getting his prostate stimulated, THAT doesn't make him gay.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (29 September 2011):
 Sounds like you (and he) need some help with definitions...
"Bisexual" means he is sexually attracted to either or both men and women.... The first part of that "means" that he has an attraction to men.... and, so, has BOTH straight AND gay components to his sexual preference.
"Gay" means he is sexually attracted to men, only... at the exclusion of women....
"Straight" means that he is sexually attracted to women, only, at the exclusion of men....
Now... ask him again about his preference for having you use a dildo whilest with him...
Good luck....
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (29 September 2011):
 NO it makes him BI...
he told you he was bisexual.
sounds a lot like my guy who is NOT attracted to men but likes to receive anal stimulation....
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