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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How to let go of anger in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Question. Is it right to continue to hold onto hatred for someone in a relationship if you're honestly wanting to move forward? And any suggestions to help let go of pass issues? Dilemma's over an 8 year relationship has spread us in two. We now live 4 hours apart and alth... (327 words)

I'm at a loss as to what to write in our 1 year anniversary card?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'd love some ideas from both male and female readers about what to write in my boyfriend's 1 year anniversary card, please. Obviously we've been together a year, and we've been through a lot....good times and not so good times, including a miscarriage. I guess I want to ... (82 words)

My boyfriend once told me I needed a boob job!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am 20 years old and I have been with my boyfriend just over a year, before we started properly going out we used to see each other he was very affectionate and fun, now I'm constantly worrying crying and being over protective. The reason for this is, is his past with ... (272 words)

Dissociative Amnesia -Will he rember us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok from the beginning. I met my first love after school at a hangout spot. He joked with me and sooner or later he was asking me for my number online. We exchanged numbers and began talking. Throughout those 4 months we both learned hat we were pretty much the same. We lived in ... (828 words)

LDR thats getting hard to handle, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I know this is probably one of the most asked questions, but I would still like to hear other peoples opinion. I have a long distance relationship with this guy, and we've been together for quite a few months now. But anyway, I don't know what to do about our relationship any... (328 words)

This may be my biological Dad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My mom had me when she was about 19, then 3 months later married my biological father as requested by my grandmother. My mom and biological father got divorced before my first birthday because my mom knew that he was not ready to be a dad. My biological father (here on out "... (578 words)

Does the problem lie with him or me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So the night came and for the first time i enjoyed receiving head, and getting fingered, which on the previous occasion i didnt like. but i think its because i liked him. . howeverrr he could only get hard ons when i spoke dirty to him or moaned :S:S he said he coulnt keep it ... (107 words)

I like my half brother's nephew

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I like someone, he's about half a year older, there's a really big problem, he's my half-brothers nephew. is this bad?... (21 words)

Everything reminds me of my ex!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What is wrong with me? will I ever get over him? :(? I loved my ex bf so much. He was sweet, romantic and just lovely. He said he loved me too. But he broke up with me saying he didn't want a relationship anymore. I was devastated. We got back in contact and he said he... (200 words)

How do you give a hickey?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Its a random question but how do you give hickeys/love bites? My friends told me all you do is suck on the skin but for how long? I tried giving my boyfriend one last night and Nothing happend. Seriously How do you like make them??... (45 words)

How do you balance a demanding career with relationships?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

2 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 21 year old male student. Three months ago I met a girl via an online community, we had good conversations and apparently found each other sufficiently attractive to meet up. So we did, and a relationship developed. She was to become my first girlfriend. She was also the ... (465 words)

Has anyone managed to stay in touch with their college friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm quite depressed, I'm leaving for university in two weeks and last Saturday was the last time everyone i went to college with was together. It was the best send off that it upsets me that we're going separate ways. I know I'll love university and meet amazing people there ... (196 words)

Is it possible to be attracted to people whose names all begin with the same letter?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3496 days ago

2 September 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello :). Alright so here's the deal. I'm wondering if you can be attracted ("only") to a person whom names starts with a certain letter. When I was around 9-10 I had a "relationship" with a girl which name started with the letter "E" (It only lasted like a week or two X... (199 words)

I didn't trust my b/f and now he's distant to me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I messed up and invaded my boyfriend's privacy by going into his email and reading chat logs between him and another girl he used to like right before we met but whom he is still friends with even after we started dating. My behaviour was fueled by suspicion, insecurity and ... (331 words)

My Best Friend, or my Boy Friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Help! I'm in a relationship with this amazing guy. He's loving, caring, complimentary, funny- everything you want in a man. Then there's the problem. He's my cousin.,who is also my best friend, ex... We were friends before they broke up, and afterwards it turn into somethin... (209 words)

G/f has been emotionally cheating on me almost since the beginning

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

2 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My now ex-girlfriend has been developing feelings for this other guy over the last year, and it really pissed me off, and although we're broken up now, I still want to stay with her... =(. I just want help somehow for these feelings? You see, me and my girlfriend have ... (585 words)

Is it possible my teacher might have a thing for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hello everyone, well i know you probably get alot of questios about people being in love with teachers, but please answer mine because no one ever answers it. so here goes... right i am a young 13 year old girl and i have feelings for my teacher who is in his mid 40s. i have... (380 words)

Are there any good stories about being conceiving despite the odds?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I don’t quite know what I want to say here, I guess I am looking for some kind words, anyone who can say something inspirational, maybe I just need chearing up? Me and my bf have been trying for a baby for over a year and we havnt managed as yet. Every month I wonder if it wi... (343 words)

Is it possible to be unlovable???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

2 September 2011 (?) age 36-40 - I know a lot of you think this is stupid but I have my reasons for this question. This is examples from everyone in my life... My dad thinks I'm the worst person. He often laments about how I am not a boy (or I guess a man now.) He constantly relates stories of when I was a ... (585 words)

Do women want to see men dressed provacatively?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

2 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - We All know men love to see womens' bodies - especially the private bits. Women often play upon this in how they dress, to get attention. My question is whether there is any reciprical feeling in women. Do women like to see any part of the anatomy of a man, or is it all just ... (137 words)

Do women want guys to see everything?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

2 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Why do so many women wear tops that, when they lean over, give everyone a full view of their boobs? I have been noticing this more and more, from women of seemingly all ages. It's not just seeing cleavage, but rather all of their chest and bra. Are they really unaware that ... (104 words)

Does my male best friend still 'love' me, because I still love him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 22-25 - Right, I have had a male best friend for over 6 months now, but we both feel like it has been forever! in the first 2 months, we started flirting, texting 24/7, i got told he was a player by many people but i really liked him, so i just ignored them (even though i knew he was ... (578 words)

I should feel sorry for her but I hate her and her perfect life!

This question has 55 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

2 September 2011 (?) age 36-40 - He's got a girlfriend and he knows I like him. He said he wants to sleep with me even though he's with her like I'm some sl*t or something. She's oblivious to what he's like. She must be, he been trying to get in my pants for nearly two years behind her back. I don't know her ... (188 words)

Problems with marrying my boyfriend.....how do we get around this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - how can i get married to my boyfriend? he is from iraq and only has a home office id card which cannot be used as id for marriage at the registrar office. he has been in this country 4 years and is awaiting his passport, he has been waiting about 6 months already. what can we ... (92 words)

Is he gay or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4619 days ago

2 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this guy whom we offered help to live in our home for some time before he finds a place of his own where he'll live.every time we used to crack jokes and we laugh because am a fun loving somebody.if am hungry and i have nothing to eat he will like to give me his.there ... (212 words)

Things were going great between us and then he randomly stopped talking to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I was seeing this guy, I'm 18, he's 20. We both got on well and we used to see each other whenever we could.. He was a busy guy but not extremely busy. He made it clear that he liked me by sending me texts, meeting up with me, telling me he liked me and kissing me. O... (325 words)

My fiancee spends no time with me.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

2 September 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - iv been with my fiance for 7 years and been living togather in my perents basment for 2 years, she got sick 4 months ago and went to the hospital for 1 week then she went to her sisters house after the hospital just to feel better and come back home, now shes been there for 4 ... (375 words)

How to avoid confrontation with my so called friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

2 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I was telling a so called friend that my mum has depression and been getting counselling in the past. She then turned around and said that I must take her to Mind as people with depression are dangerous and violent, and she kept repeating herself. I told her that I was tir... (456 words)

Is she just being hyper sensitive about my hygiene so she doesn't have to give me head?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

2 September 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hi hears my issue. My girlfriend say my penis smells even when i have just got out of the shower. I have no sti or other problems as i got checked. I feel this is her being hyper sensestive or just a reason for her not to give me head anymore. I in down on her all the time and ... (89 words)

Pain during and after sex, but he is quite large....should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi! i recently have a new sexual partner weve been having sex for about 3 weeks now and im not sure if this is normal or not, ive had sexual partners before and it hasnt happened! anyway he is quite big and it can be slightly painfull during but only when he goes that little ... (120 words)

Should I be scared of having sex for the first time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so, im 17 and, this is the first time im gonna be having sex and im a little scared , i mean i dont know if i should be, should i be scared of the frist time ???... (39 words)

Should I let it go and forgive my boyfriend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I had been dating for 4 months but have known each other for almost 3 years. I always suspected that he and my sister had/have a thing for each other, but always thought that it was more like unspoken. He was once her teacher but also our club advisor. ... (858 words)

Is it normal to lose enthusiasm for a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4619 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I don't know whether anyone can help me, or if what I'm about to say is even a real issue I should be worried about. But here goes... My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 and a half years. We are great together and our relationship so far has been quite good, apart ... (240 words)

Wife & girlfriend - I love them both!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

2 September 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am married businessman with wife and a kid and loves both of them very much and sincerely committed. However fell in love with a girl in office, she too loves me a lot but getting married to guy in near future and would want to continue this relatioship in future too. We ... (88 words)

He thinks he is a sexual person, and wants to have more sex with me, so why cant he?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4619 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I and my boyfriend have been together for 9months and we have a really good relationship but sexually sometimes it’s hard. One of the things my boyfriend said to me when we first got together was that he always thought he was a very sexual person until he met me, meaning ... (336 words)

Am I scared of getting married, or is something else going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

2 September 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have questions that I wish to have answered, but I do not think an answer exists to these questions. I guess I am looking for what other people think, and I am not expecting some magic response... My fiancee and I have been together for years. Yes, I am engaged to... (400 words)

How can I get him to talk to me about his fetish for 'shemales' so we can start building the trust again?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So i realize that other people have posted on here about this topic but i was kinda looking to see if anyone could give me advice on my paticular situation. I've been dating my bf for about 3 1/2 years now and we have lived together for a good portion of that. you would think ... (990 words)

Help me! How can I convince my girl that I love her!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

2 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend gets absolutely crazy if she thinks she has caught me looking at another girl. She absolutely believes I'm gawking at every single girl that walks by and I honestly don't even try to look at any other girl. And she thinks she can go and talk to guys while she ... (377 words)

We've only been together two months and this seems like so much!

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2 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i've been with my girlfriend for a little over two months now and from the start, everything has been so complicated. she's needed so much from me already in this short span of time, and i'm starting to feel resentment and wonder if i can take it anymore. when we first ... (683 words)

Why would he try repeatedly to hang out with me, and then stand me up?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4619 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - two times in a row this guy has initiated a text conversation and asked me if i wanted to hang out the following day; both times he has stood me up without so much as a word, what gives?! i know his work schedule is kinda all over the place, and he works whenever he's called, ... (257 words)

I'm stressed from all the bills, my dad doesn't work, I need help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

2 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm beginning to stress a lot, like everytime i get my paycheck there's always something i have to pay n by the end of the week all my money is gone and i want to save but i can't....I work at this restaurant only on the weekends i get 325$ for the 3 days i work,,which is ok ... (453 words)

How can I get over the ex to move on with my new man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4619 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend was a cheater. He slept with other women atleast three times in our 2 year long relationship, and was constantly looking for "better" (going out to meet girls, online accounts, etc.) He was not good to me a lot of the time, but whenever we got together, we were ... (215 words)

In love with my ex husband's older brother - I think love conquers all, but he says he cant do it anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I am almost 31 years old and am in love with my ex husbands brother. We were both going through divorce at the same time. Comforted each other. And we fell in love. He is 20 years older than me. I do NOT care about age. My ex husband has moved on. Is very happy an... (258 words)

Fed up of living at home with my family!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't a relationship question but a college question, and I would like input. I'm a sophomore and unfortunately have to live at home while I go to college. No offense to my family but it drives me crazy. My younger brothers are very noisy and it's hard for me to focus on ... (208 words)

I suspect she is having an affair but I have no proof! Am I just being paranoid?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

2 September 2011 (M)

age - I have been married for 8 years, this is my 2nd marriage. We are a middle aged couple, she is in her upper 40's. For the main part of our marriage she has been a good wife, but she has seemed unhappy, her adult children all live overseas, and i know she misses them, she goes t... (383 words)

I caught my girlfriend cheating, but I still love her

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

2 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for a little over 3 years. She was my first everything and we loved each other so much we didn't go a day without each other. we had a very strong relationship. I never talk to any girls once I met her. I didn't really like her at first but then ... (320 words)

She asked me to put lipstick on her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

2 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - This girl i really like asked me to put her lipstick on her and at the time i thought she just asked me because she didnt have a mirror and thought i could do it better but does it mean more than that? and i said i wouldn't trust myself in a jokey way and she did it herself, ... (64 words)

I thought she liked me, help please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

2 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - This girl called kelly seemed quite interested in me and i really like her, but then after talking to her for awhile [By text, we dont live close] it seemed as if she didnt like me so i stopped bothering her for a couple of weeks which was hard because i really like her but it ... (185 words)

My sister got pregnant and now my mother accuses me of being selfish because I don't want to help her raise her grandchild...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My sister had a baby out of wedlock a few months ago and where i come from it is shunned upon. though it is common nowadays in this country people still look down at those who have bastard children. my sister went on for years of abuse towards me calling me a whore and a slut ... (358 words)

Is it strange that I get a hard on knowing she's with another guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

2 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a Junior in college and have been dating this hot chic a couple of times. Her roommate doesn't care for me and has introduced "Jean" to another guy and they have started dating also. Every thing up till now is casual dating but I get a "hard on " when I call her cell and ... (144 words)

Is he not interested when I'm with my friends? And, when the time comes, how do I know for sure he doesn't have an STD?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okaay im a little bit confused might be a bit of a long question. I have a boyfriend who is slightly older than me. We met strangley and randomly, he goes to my school as me (we're both in 6th form but he is in the year above and im starting this year) we had never met in ... (505 words)

Why does he do this to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing a man on and off since April. He still doesn't want to be in a relationship, he's says he's not ready. I've poured my heart out to him and he means the world to me. We've slept together a few times and always have a good time together. We had stopped talking ... (125 words)

Should I let him go or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

2 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I have a question should I let him go?? ....... Ima try to Make it short :) Ok so there's this Guy who I have history with. Going on 4 years. When we meet he had a gf so we became friends than we lost contact than like 10 months later we found eachother and everything w... (567 words)