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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it weird that the only thing I'm really concerned about is what my body will look like postpartum?

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27 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and I are both 21, been together for three years, we're both continuing our educations, and we're 2.5 months pregnant. I know we'll survive financially because we already have a few thousand saved up from working so much the last three years. He's also doing some ... (90 words)

I am so jealous! I have the right to be, he's MY boyfriend!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

27 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - This girl writes on my boyfriend's wall everyday, with like ten posts of stuff to make him laugh because apparently he's depressed. I wouldn't know that because he never tells me anything anymore and is always talking to her. Some days he just ignores me or gives me an attitude ... (203 words)

Break his heart when we've been through so much or try to get past these things?

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27 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and sometimes I feel so in love with him and other times I just can't stand him. Now I just don't feel attracted to him. He loves me to the moon and back and he'd never betray me but I just don't know what to do. Break his heart when ... (132 words)

We had sex 2 days ago but he hasn't mentioned anything since then!

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27 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, i had sex with this guy 2 days ago but he has never talked abt it. We talk n laugh abt other things but he has kept that subject at bay. Yesterdy he kissed me bt neva said anythng. Was he jus havin fun with me?... (48 words)

I seem to spend more time with these guys than my boyfriend!

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27 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay well ive been going out with my current boyfriend for 3 weeks today and a friend ive not been talking to that much since we had abit of a flirtationship a couple months ago an about a few days ago he asked me to come out to drink an stuff and since he also has a girlfriend ... (244 words)

Nearly a year with him and he's never given me oral sex!

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27 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been with my boyfriend nearly a yr and hes never given me oral sex!! he doesnt even talk bout it!! its the same old thing, nothing spontaneous we just watch tv go to bed, light goes off he gets on me does his business and says i feel better now after that!!! what bout me!! ... (161 words)

What are signs he's losing interest in you?

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27 September 2011 (?) age 36-40 - What are some of the biggest signs he is losing interest in you? Also what out of these are signs? If before he always wanted you to wear lingerie and now you do and he just ignores you or looks annoyed? If you say you want to get more lingerie and he says "why?"? He ... (181 words)

What would cause a man to lose all interest in sex?

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27 September 2011 (F) age - We are married 25 years ago. Our children are not living with us anymore, we have all the time, to have great sex. But instead of that, we have none. How a man can complete lose his sexual interest,like that? My husband says, he never thinks of sex not with me, and not with any... (181 words)

Should I create a bedroom for my 24 year old daughter or keep the study for myself in apartment?

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27 September 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - This might seem like a slightly odd question relating to family and home. My daughter is now 24 and has moved far away from home for 5 years now to be at Uni. She is very happy where she is living and it looks like she will stay there maybe for good. Whilst she was... (940 words)

I have been talking to a guy for 11 months and he has gone out and had sex with someone else. I feel betrayed

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

27 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello i met this man on dating site we talked for 11 months, i saw him through webcam, i talked to his family through the phone he was supposed to visit me . But i told him that i will move to his country for study but then soon the war broke out in my country. So i had to wait ... (178 words)

I feel like I am competing with her kids and her ex

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27 September 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it screwed up to feel as though you are sharing someone with kids and an ex? As though they're never fully yours and always belong to an ex. Its so tough to admit it though. ... (36 words)

Triangle of lies!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

27 September 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I know I messed up but what now? I need advice, I know what I need to do but I would like someone else to give me an opinion on how... I started working for this guy, he was my immediate boss, he was handsome and kind and understanding...we became good friends nothing beyond ... (389 words)

Is it a good idea to get pregnant, aged 16?

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27 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - im 16 and me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months we've been sexually active for 2 months straight and well he has told me he wants to have a baby. i dont really want to have a baby right now because im going through some legal problems with my mom but then i put ... (115 words)

Getting uncomfortable with my boyfriends increasing voyeuristic interests...am I make too much of this?

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27 September 2011 (F)

age - I am starting to become uncomfortable with my boyfriend’s increasing voyeuristic interests. After many years of a sexless marriage, I am divorced and in an exclusive relationship with the greatest guy in the world. We are incredibly in love with each other and enjoy trying new, ... (554 words)

What should I do to fix this!!! please help me...seriously

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27 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy and we dated for 2 months. It was going great. He introduce me to his friends and family whihc he has not done with a girl for 4 years. we got along very well and he was really good with my son. We ended up having a lil spat which put us on a break for 3 weeks. I ... (265 words)

How can he not miss me when all I ever wanted was to love and help him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

27 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship for a year with a man that I loved deeper than I even knew I could. He proposed, and we always talked about our future, I was so happy. Things started going bad and we started fighting alot, which I found out was because he started using drugs again ... (316 words)

My sex drive is suddenly really high and I don't want him to feel inadequate!

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27 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So I have a question.. mine n my fiancees love life is great I think... We make love at least once a day but sometimes two or three times... Is it normal for me to be horny all the time to the point where I want to masterbate? I've never been Likw this and I'm confused I don't ... (76 words)

Been with my girlfriend for 5 years but lately I'm feeling very unappreciated...what should I do?

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27 September 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 5 years. I lately feel very unappreciated in our relationship, and don't feel as though that is fair. She says she appreciates me, but I tell her that unless I feel it, it doesn't count. Recently, we rarely have sex, and if we d... (486 words)

I think about this celebrity 24/7

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

27 September 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in love with "Penny "Character of TV Show "The Big Bang Theory". Will I be ever able to find life-partner like her in my real life? She is on my mind 24/7 , what should I do? You guys' take on this would be appreciated ! Thank you! ... (54 words)

Everybody loves my husband except me!

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27 September 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Cupids. My husband of 16 years is perfect by everybody else's standards. He is well liked by my family and friends, a good husband, a good father and best friend. I know that logically he is a good choice for me. He has stood by me during good and bad times, especiall... (657 words)

How to deal with post sex mess?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

27 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So this isn't really a question more a query!! I've just started having un-protected sex with partner (all checks done and accounted for!) I just wondered, how do other people deal with that post-sex-mess - lol I find it funny it goes from passion, to "ummm where are t... (98 words)

I'm shocked at how ugly I look in our home-made porn film

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) age 36-40 - I know this will sound like a stupid problem, but here it goes. My boyfriend had an idea last weekend, to record ourselves having sex with his phone. He sent me the videos, because he said they were a huge turn on and that he loved them. But I couldn't watch for long. First, ... (368 words)

How much trouble would we be in if we have sex at a movie theatre and get caught?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

27 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 and I have been with my bf Brett for 2 yrs. Our 2 yr anniversary is on wednesday and I wanted to do something special so I asked him what he would like to do. I was kinda shocked when he sadi he had 2 things he had always wanted to do the first one he asked if we could ... (187 words)

B/f wants me to move to where he is and I can't do it!

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27 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunts, We just had a fight. My boyfriend got so furious seeing me talking to another guy on facebook. I wasn't doing anything wrong, and plus this guy is way younger than I am. So I defended myself and said that he should have put his trust on me. But then he brought ... (272 words)

How should a childless step dad who earns less than his wife be involved in family finances

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27 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My new husband who earns less than me never contributes anything more than a share for himself only, even when he has extra cash. I have two children and two dependants and earn alot more than him. He has no interest to find out even how much i pay for my children's school ... (192 words)

No orgasm from penetrative sex, is this wrong/different?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

27 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - okay ..i have a problem with sexual pleasure i think something is wrong or different with me!i don't get an orgasm from real sex...i get it only when i stimulate it from outside i mean without putting anything inside,i never masturbated by inserting anything but just by rubbing ... (85 words)

My married ex is desperate to meet me for 10 minutes, do I give in?

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27 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I've been reading articles but none seem to match my situation. Recently I have been seeing a ex who is married (I am also married) we fell out and I ended our affair and went no contact. I didn't think I mattered to him or that he cared about me but 1 week int... (131 words)

We are living together but I think its time to break up

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27 September 2011 (?) - Hi I've been together with my boyfriend for four years we own a house together and we are trying to sell it we were hoping it would help our relationship as the money stress would not be there but I feel like it won't change anything. I feel bored and like there just isn't ... (176 words)

So her friend told me "she fancies you," now what?

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27 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - every morning on my way to work i pass the local secodnry school wich i went to when i was younger , and every morning i go past two girls one of them is very attractive (she must be either 15 or 16, and im 18) every morning i go past them, only recently about 5 days ago they ... (211 words)

I'm always horny and don't want to have sex again!

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27 September 2011 (F) age 26-29 - lost my v at 14 now im always horny.... i dont wana have sex again... wha can i do?? i dont have a vibrator?? help ... (25 words)

I wanna know if he likes me...

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27 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i wanna know if he likes me. the first time we met he never touched me the second and third something happened in bed. every day we are texting showing that he cares but he never mentioned he likes me,or that he misses me. does he like me or just a friend, please i wanna know ... (81 words)

How to know if she's cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

27 September 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - What signs do I need too look for to tell if my wife cheating... (14 words)

Why does he turn his phone off at 7? Is he cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

27 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Im with this guy that always has his phone off about 700 at first i thought it was because of his spilt shift. Wen he finish work he comes over for hour or so and say need 2 sleep of hav 2 pick up the kid for ex I did believe him at first but not sure now do u think hes ... (63 words)

Did she lie to me about being a virgin?

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27 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi.. M 22yrs old n my g.f is 18.. She told me that she is a virgin but when we had sex.. She got such tight pussy but she didnt bleed but felt pain in another day.. She never played any sport nor cycle.. Is she lying to me? Plz tell me sm1.. Shall i trust her?... (57 words)

His ex is a newly married good looking girl. What does it mean to us he checks her out on FB regularly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

27 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - We are just about to get married and I found out that my future husband is regularly visiting facebook profile of his ex who is also freshly married. He told me about her, that he left her as he couldn't imagine being with her for the rest of his life, and just after they bro... (120 words)

Do I want too much in this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

27 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm currently dating a lovely guy. I'm not sure if I can really use the word "dating" because even though he wants us to be exclusive and tells me he loves me, he refers to me as a friend to everyone he introduces me to. On Facebook, he was fine with me changing my relationship ... (259 words)

I don't like it that my boyfriend lies!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

27 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem with my boyfriend's lies. At the beginning of our relationship I would tell openly about anything which would bother me. But he would get angry or upset at mentioning some topics and now I don't mention them, but still issues come and I feel we can't speak ... (111 words)

Am I gay because I think of guys?

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27 September 2011 (?) age 26-29 - hi i am a 15 year male i would like to know if i am gay because if i see teen gay boys on the internet i think about them and how nice it would be if we could get intimate so am i gay please help... (47 words)

She does not know why. What can we do for her to feel better and possibly restore her love for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4587 days ago

27 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help it's with my gf. we have been currently been together for 2 years and 2 months recently she has told me she has had a very bad feeling and she is losing her love for me. I don't know why she is like this, and she doesn't have a clue either and just a little while... (197 words)

How much is too much patience? He tells me to "please wait and be patient" but my patience has limits

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

27 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So I met this guy two years ago but he was with someone else, so we lost touch, but then one day a year ago we started talking again. And I found out he was single. We started talking practically everyday and every night and things seemed to go very well although it was most... (286 words)

Usually I like being submissive. So how can I step up the face, to be more active, like he wantrs?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

27 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So here goes, my partner of 18 months says he wants me to take on more of an active role in the bedroom eg initiating sex more often and suggesting things I want him to do. The trouble is, I don't know how. Everytime I think about saying or doing something, it seems silly. I ha... (128 words)

What makes the difference between good sex and bad sex with a girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

27 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - When having sex, what makes a girl a good lay and what makes her bad in bed? I hear that many girls get uncomfortable and in turn, turn off guys. Can anyone answer this?... (34 words)

Love triangles. I keep trying to do the 'right' thing but it keeps hurting more and more. What can I do?

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27 September 2011 (F) age 41-50 - First it's important to know that I have never had this occur before, never thought it even slightly possible, and hope it never happens again. I'm 35 and 3 years ago I moved workplaces. I was assigned a mentor, B, who was great in showing me the ropes, etc. We got along imme... (817 words)

Is it likely a new Bf may lose interest after learning about the STD? I want to break up with my bf.

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27 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my boyfriend, but our relationship seems hopeless, and I think I probably should end it. This seems like an odd reason to hesitate, but I am worried that I will have trouble finding someone new because I was recently diagnosed as being HPV positive. I also have to have a ... (187 words)

Why do people expect their significant others to stop seeing the mother/father of their child even though they are together?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

27 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I have seen alot of questions on this site an also on TV and once with my aunt. Why do people expect their bf/gf/husband/wife/fiance to stop seeing the mother/father of their child because they're together? For example, lets say a girl and a boy have a baby together... (158 words)

Should I intervene on behalf of my boyfriend who just tossed in a good job? Is he ready for a new challenging job?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

27 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has been unemployed for over a year. I feel partially responsible for his situation because he moved with me so that I could start a job, and the new area does not offer many jobs in his field. In the past year, I have seen his mental state decline rapidly;... (491 words)

Seems like every girl loves him. He flirts. What should I do? Don't want to appear jealous.

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27 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like a boy and I know he loves me. But it seems like every girl loves him. He knows it too. It really makes me feel insecure and jealous when he flirts with other girls. Is it normal for a boy to do this? Am I overreacting? I'm afraid that if I confront him about it h... (89 words)

Is it because I don't like him or because it's all so new?

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27 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I met this guy who was a massive player, he would flirt with me and boast about how many women he's had, in response I would laugh at him and tell him what a loser I thought he was. Time passed, he kept calling me and eventually he asked me out on a date, I told him that ... (216 words)

My friend's date decided she like me instead

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27 September 2011 (M)

- My friend has met a girl on a dating website, they went on two dates and invited me along to the third...I was ment to have a blind date with her mate. As soon as I seen them both I knew I didnt like the blind date so I just enjoyed he night and the company, as we left she ... (181 words)

After seeing his emails I feel like I can be replaced

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

27 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - my Bf left his fb open on my pc... i didn't realize it was his at first clicked on the messages and saw that he was in serious contact with his ex... to the point of lending her 2500.00 to get a place... she is having issues with her man etc... same old song and dance.. also ... (304 words)

When my ex and I are around each other, he tries to stay busy, why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

27 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I would love a mans perspective on this as well as a womans! My Ex and I have known each other for 10 years, was together for 1 year and have been broken up for 2 years now. We still remain friends but feelings are still there on both of our parts, Ive told him this he ... (229 words)

So are his little postings on facebook about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

27 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, So I just wanted to ask if these are all coincidences or not. A guy and I got into a misunderstanding and based on 1)he thought I was into his friend at the same time and 2)he was really a party boy all his life and I don't think he had much experiences with relationsh... (413 words)

Why is it that when I have a chance to lose my virginity, I can't perform!

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27 September 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - um so heres my problem. i am 16 years old, and a virgin. that isnt exactly the issue, but what is is that on a number of occasions in the past few years i have had the chance to have sex, and it just hasnt worked out. with the first girl we both gave eachother oral sex quite ... (171 words)

How do I stop becoming bitter?

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27 September 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - After you have been burned by someone, how do you stop from becoming bitter and cynical about love? I still feel my heart becoming harder. And anger and frustration dampening my hope and enthusiasm so that I do not believe in love anymore. What to do?... (52 words)

To text or not to text?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

27 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy through a family friend-she gave one of her friends nephews my number and he contacted me (by text). We texted every day for a month before agreeing to meet up. The date went well-met after work and we had a lot in common and ended up staying out till late. Neither ... (238 words)

I'm in desperate need of an answer about this guy!

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27 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - there is this guy who has been staring at me and giving me hints he's interested ,the other day I hung out with him and I told him I was gonna be 18 on oct 5 and he was like oh I am a aquarius and your a libra... and gave me this smirk...like kinda hinting something ... (91 words)