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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He has me confused! Is he only messing with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been on 3 dates with this reserved man ,but have known him for 1 year .The dates went very well ,but lately he asked me if i wanted to go away for the week ,i said yes and then he changed his mind and said we should go back to being friends and meeting up every now and ... (132 words)

Will I be able to handle the fact that my GF cheated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

11 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - We met when I was 19 and she was 17. I was in College at the time, her just finishing Highschool. We have been dating for 3 years. In Sept. 2010 she began attending University located 45 minutes away from where I our hometown was in which I attended College (I am now graduated ... (1484 words)

What exactly, makes you love someone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4604 days ago

11 September 2011 (?) age 26-29 - I would just like to ask for reference. In your opinion, what is a good reason to be in love with someone.I'm asking because I've been thinking about this alot and I'm kind of stumped. Like would one reason be the fact that the person that you are in love with makes you feel... (109 words)

Why do I have problems establishing true friendships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age - I am wondering whether it was my childhood that has caused me to have difficulty establishing good friends. I know in life we are lucky to have 5 really good life long friends but I do not appear to have any and I feel really lonely. I currently work as cabin crew for a... (296 words)

I am fed up with this guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4602 days ago

11 September 2011 (?) age 36-40 - I had a bit of a fling type, a while ago and ended up liking him (which was stupid). That ended and he got a girlfriend but told me he wanted to stay "friends". I agreed even though I hated it. I didn't talk to him as much because it was too hard. A few months into his ... (217 words)

Can I get a sperm donor to sign over their rights to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4603 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some legit information people. I have been diagnosed with herpes and really do not feel much into dating anymore. I want a child, regardless of if i will be having he/she alone. Is there any type of way to pick someone to be my "sperm donor" and them sign their rights ... (98 words)

Has anyone worried about having an unattractive child?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so this isnt a bf/gf type question but i do need a bit of advice. Has anyone ever been worried about having an unattractive child? It may seem selfish....but i cant believe im the only one who has ever worried. Help please?... (43 words)

I don't like who I've become - Help me out of this black hole!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 19 years old, i have been with my partner for almost 3 years, we have a son together who is 9 months old. Ever since my son was born im a different person, im a brilliant mum but an awful girlfriend. i been suffering with depression and am in a bad place at the moment, i ... (272 words)

I really love my second cousin, how can I cope with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

11 September 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey people, I posted a similar question related to this but I want new answers. Also, I really appreciate you guys and girls for helping me out and I have a problem. Please don't say ewwwwww, or anything rude. Be mature, if not don't answer it. If your willing to be mature and ... (793 words)

Why did he suddenly stop texting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a guy for about a month now, he works away Monday to Friday and comes home on Fridays. For the first two weeks we would text constantly and they would be sweet and I'd be smiling constantly. Last Sunday he left early coz I had things to do and I didn't hear ... (256 words)

Do any other men hate wearing underwear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

11 September 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, my wife complains a lot about me not liking putting on underwears? Is it only me who hates them or their are some men out there as well. My wife thinks I hate them undies bse I am well endowed which I disagree with...I just hate them bse they simply make me very ... (72 words)

We have been fighting a lot lately and he isn't happy with me anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4598 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - please please help me, my partner of over 2 years has just told me he does not know if he wants to be with me anymore and i am devistated. We had a massive row on friday and he went out and came back today and said that to me, i thought it was just a row on more. We have had ... (251 words)

My friends of 20 years have been deliberately excluding me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have two close friends that I have known for nearly 20 years. I like them, I care about them and I really enjoy spending time in their company. I thought they felt the same about me. This weekend I found out that they have been having a lot of dinners at each others houses ... (162 words)

Boyfriend wants to do something for me, but I don't know what

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4602 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend keeps asking me what can he do for me in the bedroom. Like i would dress up in outfits and stockings and all that for him. And he says he wants to do something for me but i dont no what to adk him for. Any ideas? ... (49 words)

Is all this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4603 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all. Today i kinda slept with my boyfriend for the first time. It actually hurt a lot and i felt like i was burning. I cried through out and rihgt now i have an ugly feeling that his gona leave me. I've always been insecure with him but now i feel worse although he says he ... (69 words)

They haven't responded to me, could I still get this great job?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4603 days ago

11 September 2011 (F) - I went on an interview last thursday(9/1)..i think it went pretty well..they tested me and i did really well in excel and for some reason not as great in word..i was honest when they asked b/c i knew how i did and they agreed and said i did really well on this and it's good you ... (395 words)

Is my penis too large for sex with my midget girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4604 days ago

11 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a well-endowed male (10") who has been seeing a girl for a while now. With past women sex has been an issue because of my size but normally we've managed to be fine. However the girl I am seeing currently is a midget (not just short, but actually a midget) and I'm ... (121 words)

He's a player, and I don't want to be hurt

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4603 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I've met a guy in June this year, we have the same interest in some activites and we have many things in common. Since we've met, we took 4 trips together, all of them wonderful. From the beginning he said he is not a serious guy and that he is a free spirit. He... (783 words)

Why can't I just let go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4596 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, I'd really appreciate it if you could help me with this. I'm 15 and I've been in love with the same guy for around a year. Everything started a year ago, when I met him in class. We had about 4 classes a week together and we developed something like a friends... (377 words)

I'm very pregnant and he's spending all his time at work

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody, I am currently heavily pregnant with my first baby, whose due in about 4 weeks, and I've been having a really rough pregnancy, despite all the usual complaints associated with having a baby, my dad's been in hospital recently, and my husband, to whom I've been mar... (258 words)

I broke up with him and need to move on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4593 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I was in a relationship with a man for last 2 years. He was 10 years younger to me. Im 38 and he 28. when we first met was ok with the difference. we had made plans to remain in the relationship for the next 2 years and see how it goes and take it from there. Last week he email... (132 words)

Should I ask her out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4599 days ago

11 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone I need your help please because I am not sure whether or not shall I ask a girl to be my girlfriend. Now, I am in a different school but still in the same town. She goes to my old school and she is one of my friend. We did not talk much in the past but someho... (195 words)

Not sure what the 3:00 a.m. text meant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy a few weeks ago and he has called me to meet up several times since then. I had dinner with him last night and he asked me to let him know if I wanted to meet him again this week. I got home, texted him asking about something (in a gentle way) but without mentioning ... (221 words)

I'm afraid to tell my friend that I've fallen for him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4604 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so where to start, I think I am falling in love with my best friend. We both went through tough break ups last year and as it turned out we fell to each other for comfort. A sort of 'friends with benefits' aranement really. We always agreed we didn't want anything more but ... (228 words)

Boyfriend talking and texting with his ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my boyfriend for about 8 months and now live together. I was bad one night and looked on his phone and saw lots of texts from his ex and even some naked pictures that she sent him. They have 2 children together and she lives 1000 mile away, but I can't sh... (124 words)

Boyfriend promised tattoo so I'd forgive him for cheating then went back on his word

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - 2 weeks ago I split up with my boyfriend of 4 years for cheating. He begged foregivness for days none stop, txting, calling, emailing, stopping by the house, said he'd do anything and eventually came up with the idea of getting a tattoo of my name to show everybody how much he ... (240 words)

How to ask her to be mine and tell her I'm hers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

11 September 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I hope this doesn't sound stupid, It's something of a cultural question. I'm from Europe and now in the USA. I've been dating a wonderful woman for the past month, I'm falling for her and I want us to be official and exclusive to each other. I'm nervous about this as she is v... (91 words)

In a relationship but restless!

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11 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 21 year old female, i've been in a Lesbian relationship for a little over a month. Things are great I have nothing to complain about. My problem then? I am restless. I am not sure how to describe it exactly. Its like I want to constantly make drastic changes with my ... (294 words)

Why is a married woman telling me about her sexual past?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

11 September 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I need to know why a married woman would tell a guy she knows that she has only had one sexual partner in her life, which is her husband? If you were a guy and a married lady told you that, what would you think her intentions were? I don't think that piece of info is something ... (71 words)

My roommates walk all over me, am I overreacting? What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I’ve just moved into a student house, sharing with friends (all girls). I want to know how we should arrange things. I’m angry with myself for agreeing to have a house with them because I know that now I’d prefer to be living in halls again. I get on with the girls o... (274 words)

Why does my partner keep toying with my feelings? Why can't he just let me go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner and I have been together 2 years we have a one year old daughter (he told me he could not have children) things have not been right for a long time and I don't know what I have done wrong, he tells me I need to change, criticises the way I look and dress. One minute ... (125 words)

Ex just moved near me, now I'm having trouble being with current girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

11 September 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My ex girlfriend recently moved a couple of blocks down from me , she dumped twice over the last 3 years to go back to her ex,the last time was 2 years ago. She had been seeing him while she was still with me. All the time we were together I felt she was the right one, but... (373 words)

Why bother staying with someone when you have retrograde jealousy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - why do people date guys/girls with a past that they dont like. I hear all this stuff about RJ and all the issues it causes and yet people still stay with their partner. Why? I too suffered from RJ, but only for a few weeks because I made the decision to move on. Im ot affect... (92 words)

Boyfriend is going on a trip with 3 girls, one is his ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend has just told me he is going to London for the weekend with 3 other girls, and possibly another. He will be the omly boy. One of these girls is his ex girlfriend- who he is.close to and she is.newly single. The girl who's birthday it is has a crush on him. I used ... (143 words)

After moving in with my boyfriend, I'm sad to sleep alone for 2 weeks.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently moved in with my bf (about 3 months ago) and we've shared a bed every night since. Now I am going away for 2 weeks for work and I feel really weird. The thought of sleeping alone and not seeing him for 2 weeks is really getting to me. I know it's a short period ... (75 words)

How do I make sex more enjoyable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4604 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - heya, im having some problems.... the first of which is that i am becoming more and more reluctant to have sex with my boyfriend of nearly a year...its not because he is becoming less and less attractive, its just that sex is. He always looks so disappointed when i say that ... (209 words)

I don't know if its shyness or if she's lost interest in me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

11 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently met a girl through one of my friends. It was kind of awkward because he forced me to go up and talk to her which I did. She seem like a very quiet type of girl and she didn't say much. She sort of gave me this little giggle because I was probably acting very nervous ... (318 words)

My husband is hiding packages from his ex and other women's phone numbers....is it just me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My husbands high school ex girlfriend, that he reconnected with through facebook, sent him a package in the mail with old love letters and old pictures. He did tell me that she was gonna send them but he had to because ive got the only mail key to get the mail. I didnt like it! ... (508 words)

I still love my ex and know we will not re-unite as a couple. So how do I move on from still having feelings for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I wanted to ask if it is normal to still be in love with your ex after being broken up 4 and a half years. I have tried to move on, but I feel like my ex was the love of my life and I can't bring myself to date anyone else, even though I know I should. I have tried everything ... (180 words)

College or the best man I've ever been with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Everyone. Well this is the situation. I've been dating this guy for 3 years approximately. I'm in love with him deeply and he loves me too like no ones ever loved me before. Our relationship is just like any other, we fight sometimes but we always make up, we have ups and... (394 words)

He gets out of jail soon. Should I leave my abusive boyfriend now or stay and try again with him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm new here and this is my first time using a site like this. I just hope to get the best out of it. Anyways, so, I have a boyfriend who's incarcerated at the present moment and he's very verbally, mentally, and emotionally abusive. I'm in love with him but I can't stan... (478 words)

I worry the age difference might be too much.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So a couple months ago I met this guy at the gym and we see eachother there a lot and just say hi and eventually he added me on facebook. About 3 weeks ago, we had a conversation and exchanged numbers. Since then we've talked almost everynight on the phone and we get along very ... (172 words)

We have clicked as soul mates. She's married but doesn't like her spouse. Do I tell her I have feelings for her?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

11 September 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Well it's a hard situation. I work with this amazing girl and we talk all the time and can tell each other anything about anything. We hang out alot outside of work, text each other and can talk for hours. Unfortunately she is married and has been for about 3 years. She ... (353 words)

Random cyber sex with strangers? yes. So why can't I face being intimate with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and though we've come close I always stop myself from getting too intimate. I can't seem to get comfortable enough to let him see my body or even touch me sometimes. The worst part is I've had cyber sex a lot before with random ... (70 words)

My horrible first time experience haunts me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

11 September 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - So me and my gf has been dating for 9 months now...we have intercourse a while back...it was my first time but not hers...when we did it we didn't use a condom i came in 3 seconds...yes i have a horrible premature ejaculation...luckily i pulled out...ok so my first time was a ... (131 words)

Does this prove he isn't interested in me or am I just being immature?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - A few days ago I wrote a thread asking for advice on what to do with my ex (who was still my bf but decided to break it off). Here's the link if anyone would like to read and know the whole situation: ... (978 words)

How can I change my BF's behaviour toward me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't like the way my boyfriend has been treating me lately. Like today , we were suppose to go together and study at the library when he realize that he had lost 100 bucks, he became super sad looking for it all over his dorm and ended up wanting to sleep instead of ... (268 words)

Attempts at online dating are hurting my self-esteem. Advice, please.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

11 September 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am newly single after a long-term relationship (19 years) ended and now back in the dating game. I have never been the most sought after guy at the party, but I've attracted attention of women in my time. I don't have classic good looks, but neither do I feel I am u... (389 words)

Why is it so easy for me to forget all the horrible things he did to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a 19yo woman that cant stop thinking about her ex.. ok lets start from the beginning.. we met through a friend at a party and suddenly hit it off.. went on a cute date and saw eachother every day until i moved into his mothers place about only 2 months of being toget... (1627 words)

He has totally voided me out his life. What is my boyfriend's problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 years. I love him so much as well as he loves me. These past couple of weeks have been stressful and confusings. We actually broke up because of the lack of attention I was receiving from him. The attention I wanted was not i... (309 words)

I want to give my virginity to my ex, help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex-boyfriend/ sort of bestfriend, cheated on me when I was in hospital. He then broke up with the other girl after 2 days. For roughly 5 weeks me and him were basically unofficially going out. But at prom he tells me he is with her again, and now we are just "friends" even ... (203 words)

I don't know if he's flirting with me but I want to go out with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - There this guy that iv know sense i was little we meet in when i was a cheerleader and he was a football player.anyways we have been going to the same school forever but know this year i really like him we dont talk that much or text each other we have 1st period together and ... (123 words)

Am I played out and he is looking for someone new?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

11 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing this married man for over 8yrs. His wife left him about 3yrs ago. Many would think thats what he wanted and he wuld want to start a life with me, the women he said he loved and it appeared he couldnt beapart from whil he was with his wife. well wife is gone, ... (180 words)