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*eccamega
writes:I've been going through a rough time lately. I really needed some friendship and support. So I make palns with my sister. But ever since she brokeup with her boyfriend, she's been forever in a bad mood. This is dispite her being the dumper. Anyway I make plans with her but she always stands me up. Then she blames me for it. Yet she would never stand one of her friends up, let alone blame her for it.What can I do? I'm sick of her walking all over me. Reply to this Question
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reader, meccamega +, writes (3 July 2011):
meccamega is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIts not no.1 I was severely depressed after the bad breakup I had. It took a while to get back to my old self.
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reader, SMARTERthaniappear  +, writes (20 June 2011):
 Its not that, I'm single at the moment. I was in a relationship, but my ex betrayed me and left me.
Hmm. Maybe it's the other way around then. Here are some other possible answers...
1. She could have dumped her boyfriend because of the fun you had being a single women. I know of sisters that have jealousy problems and treat each other bably to bring each other down. It sounds obscure but it happens.
2. Maybe you hurt her feelings accidentally and didn't notice. Some people have trouble expressing themself and sharing their feelings because of pride or shyness. Asking her what's on her mind could easily fix this.
3. She could be going through something and wants to tell you so she calls to meet up but she keeps bailiing out. Sometimes it's actually harder to share your problems with family members than with your friends. She could be afraid of you judging her.
HOPE I HELPED U FURTHER ^.^
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reader, meccamega +, writes (20 June 2011):
meccamega is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIts not that, I'm single at the moment. I was in a relationship, but my ex betrayed me and left me.
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reader, SMARTERthaniappear +, writes (19 June 2011):
That's very weird. Maybe there is some sister jealousy playing a role. She has just recently been doing this since her break up so maybe she's jealous of the relationship you and your boyfriend have if you do have a bf. Maybe thats why she dumped her boyfriend. She wants a guy that can give her the relationship you and your bf has. Her being jealous is probably why she stands you up and blames you for it. She wants to bring you down like she is. So what can you do? STOP making plans with her! Wait until she is emotionally stable and she invites you out instead. Then ask her why she has been treating you so badly. Maybe you two will reconnect. I wish you the best =)
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