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writes:I have a friend that I've know forever and we are best friends.Shes bisexual. She has told me that she likes me and I nicely told her I only like her as a friend cause shes always been like a sister. Now shes acting weird when Im around her. She acts like she doesnt want to talk to me. Ive been friends with her forever and I dont want to lose our friendship. What can I say to her so we can be normal again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2011): she might be feeling embarrassed as she put herself out there. Just ensure her that nothing has changed in your friendship, and you love her as a friend and always will.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2011): That must be awkward for the both of you,
but in your shoes, it must be hard because you wanna have a normal friendship like before (which probably wont happen)
then again, in her shoes, she's announced she's bisexual, that must have been really hard for her, especially to tell her life-long friend, just leave things abit, then maybe text her/mail her saying, i wanna be friends.
She's probably acting wierd, because she's scared of what you think of her, and the fact you've 'rejected' her. Which im not saying is a bad thing on your be-half. But she's probably mourning the loss of what she thought you and her could of had, then she'll come to terms with things and just be friends...give it time!:) it'll work out
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