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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I feel that I suck in bed!

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26 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I feel that I suck in bed. The main problem is that I don't last very long during sex, the average is usually under 2 minutes. This also occurs when I masterbate. When I was younger I could last much longer, about 10-15 mins usually, but not now. I hate that I can't last, it's ... (292 words)

Fiance has an anger problem and I don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So my finance has anger problem and idk what to do anymore. When i meet him he was a happy person he is like a comedian he makes every body laugh but like a year in the relationship i got to meet his family and she argues a lot with his sister .But know we live together i have ... (123 words)

Flat tire, 6mo preggo, and bf is more worried about his xbox game?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So I got a flat tire on my way to work. I'm 6 months pregnant and have no cell phone and live in MN where it was a balmy 20*f out today. I was able to stop someone driving by to use their phone and call my dad. My dad came and helped me, the only thing I couldn't do was remove ... (265 words)

How do I be more romantic without going overboard?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - For the most part I'm not a very romantic person, this doesn't bother my fiance but it does bother me when I think about it, I'm not completely unromantic (i.e. I took her out to dinner at a very nice Italian restaraunt and bought her flowers last weekend and I've got her some ... (97 words)

Caught in love triangle with current boyfriend and my ex!

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey ok im caught up in a love triangle i mean i love my ex to bits but the guy im with is more like a friend to me but he said he loves me ( new partner ) i dont want to hurt him in any way i just dont know what to do as hes already making plans for marriage and planing to have ... (112 words)

The girl I like is my best friend is seeing someone!

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26 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - These feelings im getting is confusing me somedays i feel damn we would be so great together and even her best friend has said why aint we dating i think she may have said he doesnt feel that way about im not sure. Im not a big help either in the situation i am friends with ... (404 words)

does he think I'm a whore and he is just a really really good liar?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - ok,this is really confusing me-I have this new boyfriend-we've been seeing each other for a couple of months and he is saying that he loves me and he wants to have a serious relationship and he sounds really genuine and when he says what he likes about me it sounds like he is ... (216 words)

A very complicated matter. Shes leaving me but at the same time shes not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok. So here's the thing. I have been living with my girlfriend for the past 8 months and recently she decided to move home. Not because we are in trouble or unhappy with each other, but because shes unhappy in the place we live. We live in a city and she wants to move back to ... (214 words)

He's trying to make me feel bad and down about myself and our relationship! And I'm 8 weeks pregnant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 18 and just found out I'm 6 weeks pregnant a couple of days ago. I'm over the moon about it and wanna just settle down with my own family! I've never been out clubbing, don't drink, don't have any friends I go to work and literally come home with my boyfriend! However ... (182 words)

Is this okay, in our sex life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years, we've have a great sex life up to the last 2 months, when I would put on the moves and he would brick wall me, we've recently moved in together (in the last month for college) and I've enjoyed being tied up, now I'm ... (115 words)

Am I being irrational to want one weekend away together?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for just over two years and we have only been away for ONE night together!! i am a student and have very little money so i know it would be difficult to save up as he would probably end up paying for more. since we have been together he has bee... (308 words)

How do I just get on with talking to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - theres this girl i really really like. i believe that i am starting to fall in love with her. we used to talk a bit but now we speak very regularly. i think she mite like my as she always looks directly at me when we speak and she looks at me quite alot through the day.... (116 words)

Why are man always so concerned about there performance and not about what porn actually can do to their brains and judgement?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age - Porn is a big topic in a lot of relationships. For my own opinion, it is quite sad to see so many guys using porn to get satisfaction,despite having willing and loving partners. The argument is often just to have a quick gratification and not to worry about performance. As an ... (290 words)

How do I stop over reacting to little things in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I need some advice on how to stop over-reacting to little things in my relationship...it's like I imagine the worst possible scenario, which makes me feel sad and insecure, and I want to stop it so that I don't become clingy...I'd love some help to stop this. We've bee... (346 words)

Massive argument at school, and now my former friend hates me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a massive argument at school, the girl I was arguing with took it way too far. I told my mum and she rang school even though I said not to. The teachers haven't been subtle and now the girl I argued with who used to be my friend hates me and is being really bitchy. Help?... (58 words)

Did I make the right decision allowing my son back into their lives?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4838 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a dilema. I recently started allowing my son (I'll call him Elijah) to see his father's side of the family. He is 18 months old and hasn't seen them in 14 months. During the four months I was still married to his father we lived at his parent's house. His sister lived on ... (608 words)

Is my boy friend cheating on me or does he have a drinking problem:?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been seeing someone for seven months. We see each other about once a week. We talk on the phone once or twice a week, but otherwise we communicate by email. He used to have his two kids with him most of the time and now his ex-wife has them more often. I've noticed... (213 words)

How genuine is my guy? I've helped him so much, and yet I feel excluded from his life.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My guy is a plumber by profession. I love him very much and we been in love for three years. When he had little money on him last year i rented an apartment for him, fed him through last year. Yet i don't know much about his life. He excludes me from parts of his life. He pr... (84 words)

My work environment is now so unhappy. No one is talking to me at work. What have others experienced in the same situation please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I put in my two weeks notice at work. Now no one is speaking to me! Can any one tell me about their last two weeks at work? Any other "what did you do the last 2 weeks of working at a former job"? I am having a tough time please advise...... (53 words)

There is nothing between us in our marriage. Its just a habit

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been married almost 8 years and we have a 13 year old son. We have argued a lot the past year and a half and are on our last chance of trying to make the marriage work but i feel like i dont love him anymore. Theres nothing between us it just feels like a habit. He loves me ... (152 words)

How do I get to know the new guy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - There is a guy at my school that just arrived this year and I think I like him. He's nice to all the girls so I can't be sure if he likes me. I'm pretty sure he likes my friend though. But all the boys like her. I'm not in any of his classes so I can't really talk to him that ... (91 words)

Does my ex want to get back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4838 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so my boyfriend and i broke up 7 days ago because he wasnt happy, we are going to have a baby and we both are 18. we hadnt seen eachother in 8 days because i didn't wont to see him. he still texts me everyday and ask how im doing well last night he was telling me that he misse... (186 words)

I feel like I can't be happy or positive enough, to match my boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4838 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello My issue is that I have a really nice boyfriend who is a very happy guy, most of the time, which is good, but I feel guilty when I have bad day/tough week or am just emotional because I feel like I probably break the happiness. Most of the time I do my best with a posi... (181 words)

Being hit because he wants to freely perve

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Im 45 and my daughter to him is 9 months old Hi There, My Fiancee and I have been together for 3 years now. He cant stop perving.( he denys it ) I just want his attention, if he sees a hot girl on the tv ( most of the time he changes the channel or looks away) guilty. H... (245 words)

How can a relationship be so one sided?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4838 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. I won't bore you with the details but why is it that relationships can be so one sided. I f my partner and i have an argument for whatever reason and some can be huge arguments on the verge of splitting up, Im always the one to try make amends. He never admits that he could ... (173 words)

I told her I was in the university but I'm not. Now what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 17 year old lesbian and a couple of weeks ago met this gorgeous woman at a bar. We really hit it off, kissed, exchanged numbers and haven't seen other since. We've been texting since that night, but the only problem is I told her I was in university...Just a couple of ... (184 words)

After no sex for 9 months will I bleed like I did the 1st time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I havent had sex in over 9 months reason being I broke up with my boyfriend and havent been ready! But now I have met someone who I want to sleep with and I am just wondering if I will bleed like the first time again? I will feel so ashamed if I did. He knows I havent had ... (111 words)

I want to leave a 'thank you' note in his mailbox, but there's a complication...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months and I love him very much. He does a lot for me and is always there to help me out of the bad situations I seem to get myself into. I wanted to get him a card and maybe a little something to let him know I appreciate it. I want it to be a ... (161 words)

Is he losing interest or getting comfortable?

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26 January 2011 (?) age 36-40 - This guy in my office has chatted me up consistently since I began working here. I'm 25 and he's 28. he's been with the company 3 yrs, me 3.5 months. He asked me to lunch a few times early on, we've hung out a few times in the evenings, once on a weekend night, and he asked me ... (246 words)

At 28 I feel lost and confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, I had my first boyfriend when I was 13, and continued to have long term relationships until the age of 27, moving from one guy to the next almost seamlessly. At 27, I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years, because I wanted to settle down and start a family and he ... (286 words)

If absence makes the heart grow fonder at what point is the absence too long?

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26 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for over a year and she has just split up with me... Things to firstly note are that she is 30 and has previously been married and got divorced about 2 years ago. Since then she has moved into her own house and worked hard to keep up with the cost ... (741 words)

I don't want to go to the party because I'm annoyed at my friend!

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok i'm only a young girl and I have my first boyfriend, but my friend is dating his best friend, they have one more friend who is single and my best friend has a crush on him. Me and the single guy are good friends and he told me about this girl (who me and my best friend hate) ... (171 words)

I need your help! How can I find out if this guy likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i need your help! how can i find out if a guy likes me?? he is in the same year as me and we rarely talk, just nods and smiles, and maybe good morings. the only time we talked was last monday as we had an exam and we seemed to have a few short conversations. the problem ... (118 words)

Should I leave my job and move back to my hometown in order to get over a bad breakup?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I suffered a horrible breakup about 4 months ago. My ex-boyfriend of 6 years cheated on me and left me for the other woman and moved right in with her. OUCH. I am finding it impossible to deal with in such a small town. I am looking over my shoulder every second because ... (177 words)

Any idea why my ex-boyfriend's friend is trying to add me on Facebook?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4838 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, I know I analyze little things too much, but I'm looking for some answers anyway. The ex and I broke up 4 months ago. He was cheating and left me for the other woman. Anyway, after it happened, I blocked him and his new GF on facebook, and deleted every single one of hi... (159 words)

Is it unwise to lend money to your boyfriend? Help please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4816 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend recently found a job after almost half a year of being jobless. The problem is, he incurred a lot of debt during those times and he depended mainly on his credit card. He's laid off due to the cost cutting by his company and he didn't expect this to happen, he used ... (429 words)

He loves me but loves his ex more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im 17 and i have a bf who im with for 1and half years.yesterday he came over to my house and he told me that he doesnt like me anymore. he says that he loves me but loves her ex more. im feeling so ashamed. what should ido?... (48 words)

Married to a dream man but I don't love him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) age 41-50 - I am 33 years old.I have been married to a man 7 yrs older than me for 14 yrs.We moved in together just weeks after dating because I needed a place to live.We have never had much in common and were never really friends.Now we have 3 kids and a mortgage.Our sex life is like a ... (147 words)

Spending valentines day apart

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 years old and have been with my boyfriend for almost 4months now. He's my first boyfriend and I really love him,as you can figure out this is my first valentines day. The problem is it's a long distance relationship due to college and work we can't be together (it cost ... (129 words)

Does he just want me for sex, or does he really like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I went out with my friends last Saturday and there was this lad there who said to everyone he liked me! He asked me for my number and I said, "ermm I don't know." The next day he messaged me and asked for it again, so I said okay that's fine, but I have no credit. He knows ... (189 words)

I'm happy in my life but why can't I be confident around women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I feel extremely frustrated and I completely lack confidence. I am a 23 year old guy and I am completely inexperienced with dating and relationships (I mean so inexperienced that I've never even kissed a girl). I find that for the last 2-3 years now I have had absolutely no ... (266 words)

I'm torn between 2 boys that like me. Which one should I choose?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been texting two boys. One lives 2 hours away from me and wants to start a long distance relationship. However, there is a boy I have met in town who has a child and works full time, but also wants a relationship. I'm so confused and I like both of them, but I know I ... (100 words)

I can't even say "hi" to him without my boyfriend getting angry

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im having trouble with my ex when we broke up and i moved on he didnt wanna know me at all but we would say hello to each other now and again now that ive got a boyfriend he keeps texting me saying hello you i miss your pretty face it was great seeing you out and about ..and i ... (122 words)

I'm very depressed and confused about this girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

26 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, this is a very long story, but I have tried to make it nice to read.... September 2010, I returned to school after a long summer, brimming with uncharacteristic self-confidence and a sense of freedom - with little more than books and knowledge, I felt the world was my... (804 words)

I love my ex so much and I miss her. Should I send her flowers for Valentine's day?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I just recently broke up with my ex fiance. We were together for 6 years, we broke up 6 months ago, but we kept talking for many months. I was trying to work things out, but she did not believe that i would ever change. Her reason for leaving was, she said, 'not trusting... (468 words)

I haven't been on a date for a long time. Could you please suggest some conversation starters and tips for my date with a 17 year old?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all! I'm 19. Going to have a date with a very nice 17 year old :). Now, it's been a VEEERY long time since I went on a date, so I'm thinking I'm a tad rusty, so would anyone have any good tips for conversation? :) Thanks... (51 words)

Whenever I'm home, I want to go back to uni, but when I'm at uni, I want to come home!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear all, I don't really have a relationship question but if anyone could give me some advice I'd really grateful. Basically, I'm struggling to cope with my emotions. I've gone through a lot of changes over the last year and I've also been under a lot of stress. This tim... (205 words)

Now she wants our relationship to go sexless until marriage. Should I accept this request?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - After leaving a long term relationship, that was based primarily on sexual attraction, I am dating a girl who attracted me more than just physically. We have been dating for about 5 months and have had anywhere from 25-30 sexual encounters. The first two times started and ende... (360 words)

We used to have sex 4 times a week now we only do it once a week

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm almost 7months pregnant me n my bf hav been togethEr for 4yrs I love him but he has been wrkin out of twn n only comes over the weekends we only have sex once a week we used to have sex about 4 times a week I'm really confused I don't no if its because I've gained weight n ... (71 words)

If I give my married lover an ultimatum is it likely that she will leave her impotent husband for me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

26 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 25 year old male, and have been in love for 1 yr with a married woman aged 26. She has been married for 3 years and never had sex with her husband, because her husband is impotent and even denies he has a problem, and considers not having sex as being normal. She cann... (224 words)

I'm worried about any embarrasing things I might have done

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age - I am feeling terrible because I ended up having sex with the guy in the apartment next door the other night. I only just moved in and it was the second time we had visited and had a drink. I can't even remember much of it or how it started. I knew I thought him fanciable but ... (196 words)

I thought he was my true love. But his actions since the breakup make me wonder. How has he been able to move on so soon after our breakup?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex is 27, 4 yrs older than me. We were together for 2 years, it felt like true love, he always hinted about the future together we had plans made. We didn't see each other for 2 weeks, due to exams, and he barely texted me. Last week, exams over, he broke up with me due to t... (394 words)

Should I be asking so much about my girl friend's past lovers or should I let it rest? It bothers me so much

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok. I met my sons mom in 2003,.,we now have a 6 year old son together. back in the begining when we first met we had one of those open conversations about the past.The things she told me didnt bother me at first, then because of the timeline she gave me,and the number of men ... (651 words)

Should I keep working on our relationship, or should I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my partner for almost 2 yrs and we have a baby girl. I have a hard time talking to him or even getting him to take me seriously. We have had a lot of problems since we had our baby, nothing seems to be good enough for him. I've been trying to control my anger, ... (165 words)

She wants to have the wedding after he graduates, he's worried she will cheat!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, My friend is having a problem about her fiancee. They both are in college but my friend is graduating in a year and her fiancee is graduating in four. She wants to tell him that she wants to have the wedding after he graduates but he is worried that she mig... (94 words)

Based on the following would you say this person loves me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Based on the following would you say this person loves me? Essentially how do you know if someone loves you? The bad: - will not go away on holiday with me, but went away with his ex (his reason: not enough money at the mo) - Took three years to have sex with me but sle... (256 words)

How do I stop my ex from coming over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend of 5 years have recently split up, it wasnt a good break up and i am trying to get on with my life. But my mum and step dad are still having him come round even though they know how i feel, i talk to them every time they have him over im always hiding in my ... (304 words)

Why is my boyfriend of 8 years pushing me away?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

- I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years this year, last year he went through a tough time at work he lost his job as a manager and now works on the floor where he managed but only temporary until later this year, then hes out, he was very depressed last year but is now on ... (184 words)

My extremely irritating roommate is getting on my nerves...what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Last semester I had asked one of my friends to become my roommate for this semester. However, so far it has not been a good start between us even though she believes its all good. I think the problem I have is that our friendship is not really a equal friendship. She expects me ... (409 words)

Help me, I'm pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi My boyfriend and i been dating for 2 years im 6 months pregnant and ever since i got pregnant we've been fighting alot. First of all our biggest issue we have we aren't financially stable at all. I work 45 hours a week and my boyfriend doesnt make so much money i just feel ... (120 words)

I always helped him out and now it feels like he's deserted me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i think theres something wrong with me. i worked with a guy for the last 2 years and i know from the start i had feelings for him. he was in a bad way with work and everything so i took on the role of being his ' angel' if you like and got him back on his feet. over time we ... (209 words)

Bi-sexual male living in a homophobic area, how do I ask this guy out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

26 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am bisexual male living in a fairly homophobic area I see openly gay people routinely made fun of, and it outright scares me. I haven't had much luck with girls, and sometimes when there's a guy I fancy, I really want to ask them out, but afraid of the repercussions of people ... (161 words)

No closer to getting her back and no idea how to cope with that!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So there's this girl I've known for six years. On and off again we've loved each other and we've "dated" a bunch of times. She lived in a completely different state than I did, so it was childish. Finally, we're in college. It's great, she moves up here thinking of star... (210 words)

Should I go to this party where there's a chance I could cheat on my boyfriend in a moment of weakness?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im going away for the weekend because i've been invited to a birthday party ...but my boyfriend is going away too and i was moaning to him about how hes gonna cheat on me ..but the thing is the party im going to has this guy who fancies me and said that he cant control himself ... (113 words)

I broke my best friend's trust! How do I get it back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i am dating a girl and her sister is my bestfriend . her sister told me about a boy who she is dating and told me not to tell it to my girlfriend .but i had to tell it cause my girlfriend forced me and now i broke my bestfriends trust i cant even face her i am feeling very ... (86 words)

My boyfriend is not romantic and I feel neglected. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. He is an extremely unromantic person... I feel neglected by him because of this. What should I do?... (32 words)

Should I tell her that her fiance cheated on her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Last summer, I met a guy. Well, we were just friends. We hung out with each a few times. He introduced me to his friends and introduced him to my sister. I thought we were going to begin a relationship. Well, he went home to visit family. A few days into the trip I read on ... (387 words)

I love him & he loves me, but he has a girlfriend! How do I win him over?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

26 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My issue is confusing me. I'm absolutely head over heals for this guy at work, but he has a girlfriend. Truth is he has been with this girl almost 2 yrs and he complains about her every single day to me. I'm sure he cares about her, but he has just moved in with her 4 months ... (325 words)

Should I get back together with this guy, despite all the complications?

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26 January 2011 (F) age 30-35 - I don't know whether I should get back together with my boyfriend. Some history: we met in 2006, when I was 17 and he was 20. A mutual friend introduced us. We clicked instantly and a few months later, near my 18th birthday, we started dating. We fell in love quickly. It felt ... (737 words)

Should I go back to my ex? Or wait to see what happens with the new guy?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - well i will start saying for my ex boyfriend who were together for 2 months..we broke up and especially he left me because his feelings for me were friendly..but he asked me if i want to stay friends and i found it okay. We were talking on msn for a long time. But the last week ... (445 words)

Should I consider this a one night stand or what?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - background info..I'm in my late 20's and he is in his early 30's. We both have children. I have been talking to this guy I met on and off now for months. On one occasion, we wound up back at his place, but chose to wait to have sex. We have talked on the phone, and met up a fti... (179 words)

He broke up with me, so why is he doing all of this?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - :( please i need your help !! i was in a long distance relationship for more than 8 months ,i'm from tunisia and my boyfriend is from england .. we have never met but he said we were going to meet up last december but at that time we were fightin alot and we broke up .. we ... (398 words)

How do I find the inspiration to want a relationship ever?

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26 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - It's me again. I have been feeling kind of depressed lately and I don't know what to do about it. But my question is...How do I find the inspiration to want a relationship ever? With most people, it comes naturally to want a relationship. But I am not like that. I could on... (125 words)

He doesn't come up on any Facebook searches, but he says he has a profile? What is going on?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - First off, sorry if this is a stupid question. I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months and a I love him very much. He's a bit older than me and we met when I rear ended him at a red light. Even though it was a not so good situation we hit it off right from the beginning. ... (173 words)

I have no concrete proof, but I feel he is cheating.......

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I dont know where to start. I am married for almost 5 years (in March). Early in our relationship, of all people, our dog groomer kept sending texts to my husband saying she could groom our dog but didnt want money for it (wink wink) then emailed my husband one day saying ... (403 words)

I asked for nude pictures of my ex! Was this cheating, and should I tell my girlfriend?

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26 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a problem that I'm trying to figure out and I hope that I can get some help on here. I appreciate any and all advice. Ok, so I've been in a relationship for a little over 3 months now. It's been amazing every second. I really think that she's the one. I'm very serious ... (276 words)

Can I skip my placebo pill and go straight into the next pack so I don't get my period? Are there any side effects?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am scheduled to go on vacation to Mexico in the middle of march for 8 days. I am due to get my period right on the second day there, which is highly irritating. If I were to skip taking my placebo birth control week and start right away with the next pack... would that a) ... (135 words)

None of my sexy pics look good, how do I get this right?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is currently living at the other end of the country to me but we keep in touch via text, e-mails and phone calls. He has recently suggested I send him photos of me because he misses seeing me, and I want to keep him happy but I just don't feel right taking pictures ... (81 words)

How do we make our dog accept the new puppy?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a 10 year old American Bulldog. We recently added a puppy to the family and our older dog is very depressed and angry. Any suggestions on how to make him accept the new addition?... (36 words)

How do we tell our parents we are in love?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - dear cupid my boyfriend is my cousin does it work?? how can we tell to our parents that we love each other??... (23 words)

Is it normal to doubt your feelings for someone so soon in a relationship?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I'd love some advice from male and female readers on whether it is normal to have doubts about how you feel about someone in the first months of a new relationship, please. I've been with my bf for nearly 5 months now. I had been single for 12 months after the end of... (337 words)

I need romantic, fun ideas for Valentine's Day!

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, our two year anniversary is Feb 12, so my fiance is going to do something special that day, leaving Valentine's day up to me. I am taking him to a nice dinner but he just told me that he has taken that day off so he can spend all day with me ! What else can I do ??... (78 words)

Why is he ignoring me?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Why is he ignoring me?? We have been together for nine months and we get on very well and I love him lots and Im sure he loves me lots too!! well he says he does!! The last few weeks he has been dropping me for his friends and not really been seeing me so I got so angry ... (124 words)

Is he moaning about her or just having a general conversation?

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26 January 2011 (F) - Female aged 40 A guy I know only because he drops my son home every day from school has made these comments about his 'wife'. That she always double checks everything before they go out for the evening including switching off the cooker (I think it annoys him). That sh... (310 words)

Can all women squirt?

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26 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So I was a spectator to a discussion at a party the other day (alcohol involved) involving squirting. One guy claimed that the squirting in porn was real. (which I know its not) When someone voiced this contrary opinion, the kid stated that that was a lie designed to keep ... (199 words)

Power shift in a relationship?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - In a relationship why would power shift from one person to the other? Nothing personal just a bit of research for a book I'm writing :) ... (30 words)

My wife now earns more than me and blame me contributing less

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26 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - We are together for 8 years(4 before and 4 after marrage). She was a student when we met. We had the most wonderful relation before marriage and until we have our daughter. Till then my income was the only financial source. Though it was not enough we manage to be happy with ... (326 words)

Is this relationship okay?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive recently enetered a relationship with my x sister in laws x partner, we both have children that are cousins, we're not planning on letting kids in on it till alot later, is this wrong? [Mod note: commas inserted to make this more legible.]... (44 words)

Is it time to move on or should I stay confused? How do I help myself?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have met someone and our "relationship" has been going on for about 2 years.. He knows I have always wanted to be with him.. And the signals (not always the words) showed, in time he would want the same. was great at first.. Still is.. Only there is too much in my mind not to ... (261 words)

Is this normal for an uncircumsized male?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey well i'm 21 and it is my first time being with someone uncircumsized. But i admit the skin freaked me out, but got over it. he got hard and when i went to touch his penis he complained it was very sore why is that ? i barely touched his penis.... (53 words)

Does she like me any more? Is there anything I can do to rekindle this friendship?

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26 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 26 year old guy who has never been in a relationship, I am new to liking girls. I'm currently trying to date a lady who is 32 years old. She has had two relationships, one lasted 10 years, the other less than 1 year. She said because of these relationships, s... (324 words)

The thoughtless way my bf's father speaks upsets me. What can I do about this?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone i'm a 20 yr old female and i have been with my boyfriend (19) for over 15 months. We live together, like most girls i have a problem with his ex, however they never were really an item she just messed him around. He hasn't seen her since we've been together. We see... (385 words)

Should I walk away and hope he finds someone on one of his dating sites?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner and i parted at the beginning of the year, it was i who ended it, as i felt we couldn't carry on anymore as we were. He and i have 2 kids and he now lives with his mum. There were many issues relating to us splitting. Far too many to list, but many no commitme... (202 words)

We are not yet officially dating. So is it illogical for me to be jealous of his flirting with girls?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy and i have been friends for a few months. Recently he told me he gets nervous around me because he's very attracted to me. After some more texting and flirting he then told me he wants to be my boyfriend. A few days later, we are still communicating a lot and it seem... (110 words)

I'm devastated, what can I do? He's blocked from his life over an email.

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - He saw an email to my ex - it was bad. I admit that. But it wasn't from present day! And although he saw it recently, before that he saw my messages telling the ex to leave me alone cuz I was happy with my boyfriend. The email was from a stage in our relationship that was not ... (250 words)

Does she still care......

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26 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I bumped in to my ex the other day I havnt seen her for six months, the breakup was hard she cheated on me with someone i walked away, the otherguy never worked out, but i remained in my view dignified. Communication since the split has been limited and for a long time none. ... (322 words)

Why would she say her baby daddy is 'irreplaceable' if she supposedly doesn't have any feelings for him?

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26 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - so, I was talking to my girlfriend last night. and we were talking about her friendship with her baby daddy. and she told me, that i was replacable and he was irreplacable. after she tells me she hates him. i can understand keeping a friendship for the kids. but would sh... (135 words)

Was she trying to avoid awkwardness?

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26 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - The story is, I see my ex-girlfriend (was seeing another guy during our relationship and lied to my face bout it, reason for "ex" we aren't friends.) at a bus stop and I was with my other friend and just hung out there. she's usually around her friends but this time she was ... (283 words)

Trying to get over my wife's affairs, but every time I dream I see her with other men......

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26 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 45 year male married past 21 years My wife had 2 affairs in recent times when i was away on tours One with my friend and other with some internet man She said it was emotional thing which somehow eneded on bed She say now everything closed and want to live with me ... (89 words)

How do I get off this pedestal she's put me on?

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26 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So I’ve been casually seeing this girl as a FWB for about 6 months. She’s been a good friend for about a year and a half. She’s been quite overtly keen on me for over a year and initially I distanced myself from her, but gradually ended up becoming quite fond of the way that ... (708 words)

How can I overcome this guilt thing....

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for 2 years and during that time we have argued a lot. We both want commitment but have clashed in the past as we have both been on our own a long time and adapting has been difficult. We do love each other but he was poor growing up and is very ... (298 words)

Always a friend, never a boyfriend

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26 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay well it always seems to happen that when I meet a nice girl I end up being a good friend and nothing more. I do my best to make my intentions known from the start, i make sure i tell her how good she looks and even make some skin contact. Is there anything else i can do to ... (65 words)

Shall I apologize over the phone, by text or to his face or not at all?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I just spent 5 days with my boyfriend. We’ve been together for 18 months and have spoken about marriage. In the last month we have been spending more time together and bickering more and more. I have been particularly needy and insecure during this time, feeling sad a... (207 words)

I need an outsiders prospective...Does my husband just want out of this marriage?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married to my husband almost 5 years, and been with him for almost 12 years. Up until 10 days ago, if anyone would have asked, I would have told them that I have a very happy marriage. But that all changed. My husband blows up on me over some silly stupid lit... (679 words)

How did my ex forget about me so quickly? Is there any chance he misses me?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - [Mod Note: 2 questions from the same OP merged into one post] I was in a Relationship with a guy for 1.5 years. We lived together. He always told me I was the woman of his dreams and we were already talking about marriage. One day we went out for drinks, he got really drunk... (515 words)

How can I make giving oral more pleasurable for my girlfriend?

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26 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - When I recieve oral from my girlfriend for the first time is there anything I can do to make it more pleasurable for her to do? What Position would allow her to enjoy doing it the most? I know I'll enjoy it and she'll prob get even better over time. But I want to know how... (75 words)

Are my gentials abnormal?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - This question has to do with the design of my genital area. I do not have that loose flappy skin that kind of looks like a thinner floppy second set of lips in between my vaginal lips. I've seen women in this x-rated magaizines with that. Is something wrong with me. I just have ... (81 words)

Is my wife still attracted to me?

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26 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my wife have been married about 2 years now and we have a beautiful baby girl. However recently our sex life seems to have plummeted. Nowadays I can be romantic and seduce her, or I can come close to begging, yet she rarely ever will accept my 'offers' to have sex. In ... (176 words)

Should I try to work on this relationship?

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26 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Love ! What should I do ? Hi , I am 28 years old, accountant . I live in Canada and traveled to Vietnam last month to visit family. During the last 2 weeks there, I met this girl 20 years old, not really well educated and from a poorer family compare to mine. We were going to... (479 words)

I'm falling for a tomboy...

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do with my feelings for another girl...We're 18, seniors in high school and extremely close friends. We hug and cuddle when we're alone or at other friends' houses. She's the total tomboy with pixie short hair and baggy clothes(who's often mistaken for a ... (258 words)

Why is he always talking about how he likes girls with dark skin when he is in a relationship with me?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months. He is 34 I'm 19. Another thing that I don't understand is that he likes dark skin girls but I'm light skin. He likes girls with a big butt and curvy but I have boobs and skinny. He likes girls with no tattoos but I have a medium size ... (151 words)

Should I leave my girlfriend? She doesn't do anything to keep me satisfied!

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26 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 21 and my gf is 20 and I'm truly in love with her. She's everything I've ever wanted in a woman. However it's not working out between us right now. I use to be an avid pot smoker an I'm trying to quit. My drinking habits have increased because of the stress I'm going th... (978 words)

How can he NEVER have an orgasm?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so my boyfriend and i have sex very often. the weird thing is i always orgasm and he can't. he can last for hours but yet he still doesn't orgasm. he loves to please me. don't get me wrong, i please him A LOT too. but sometimes its over an hour and a half and he and i are both ... (109 words)

Why doesn't my husband tell me where he is going when he leaves?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - 1.My husband everytimes he leave the house or come home even he go out of country he seldom to tell me where he went ? 2.He always hide me what is doing with his works ? what should I do with these situation ? ... (53 words)

Is this a joke of a relationship?

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26 January 2011 (F) - My bf took his female friend to dinner, and picked her up from work after he finished work. Yet he made me pay my way to work today (he drives me extremely rarely and he had the day off today so I didn't think it was a big deal). He called me quite a nasty name when I didn't ... (258 words)

What do I do now that a friendship that I thought was golden is now tarnished with lies?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - About 3 weeks ago, my boyfriend and I started having some problems. At that time, I vented to a close guy friend, who, after hearing me out, commiserating, and joking around to cheer me up, professed his constant attraction to me. Flattered, I flirted back. Yes, I know th... (320 words)

How do I improve my self esteem?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - At school all the boys say how ugly I am to my face, and also behind my back. But all my Friends say i am pretty. and I try to eat less but i generally think i don't eat a lot but all the guys say how fat I am. But i don't weigh that much I am only a few pounds over... (160 words)

Will vanishing from his life make him realise what he has?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I and my love were together for 2 years. He moved to abroad 6 months back. From the last 3 months, we have been in an on and off relationship. This is exactly what was happening-he used to leave me without giving any reason. I never used to call or text him. After few days,he ... (181 words)

Should I trust my boyfriend when he says he's stopped talking to his ex?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey my boyfriend used to talk to his ex a lot and lied to me about it over and over. should i trust him that he says hes not, it has been a while since i found out?... (38 words)

Why am I being so rude to my mom?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Lately I have been rude to my mom, and like not rude to my dad and everything.. But it just started happening. And all my friends have been asking me why I am so rude to my mom, and I don't know why..It just started happening. And i don't know why?. Can you please give me... (65 words)

I think my boyfriend's mother is jealous of me!

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriends mum is all over him in front of me. She calls him her gorgeous man. She is widowed but has a good social life. She is polite to me but she makes weird remarks which can be taken two ways such as 'hands off he's mine' and laughs. She complains he doesn't see her ... (153 words)

How do you know if someone is really asking you out or its a joke?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - All these guys ask me out. But it is all dares. So how do you know if they are actually asking you out ?. because i don't want to say yes, when they are just joking, beucase i will loook like a foool. Can you please help me?.... (52 words)

Are my personal standards for my performance in the bedroom over the top?

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26 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Um I'm 15 years old and a dude and me and my girlfriend who I've been crazy for for well over a year and who I've been with for about a month having been talking a lot about sex lately and we've decided that we both want to loose our virginity to eachother in the near future. ... (121 words)

Boyfriend went away, kept boring money, wouldn't call me! Should I dump him?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiancée went back home to visit his mother who he hasn’t seen for 16years when he was leaving we agreed for him to be only gone for a month but he ended up extending his time to a extra months, where do i start before he left we were head over heels and all we talked about ... (786 words)

Why is my ex acting like this?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex told me that he wanted to be friends , usually im the 1 that is always chasing him, wanting to be back with him.. this time I decided not to do it. We have broken up so many times and qotten back togetha and its always him not knowing what he wants. I am tired of it. ... (130 words)

Do I sound like I am a lesbian?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I thought I was sure on my sexuality. But, lately I feel like I'm not a lesbian. Or I don't know where my feelings point to. Because I find both boys and girls attractive in 'that' way. But then again, lesbians aren't blind, and neither are straight people. They know when ... (210 words)

Boyfriend is always cranky!

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 2 years now and we love each other very much. I love him and I know he loves me but he has some temper issues that's usually caused by him being tired, busy, stressed, pressured, or uncomfortable. Unfortunately, I'm always at ... (453 words)

He acts like he likes me but always joins in on gay bashing!

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26 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i'm kinda in a pickle. I'm a 17 year old bi male and there is this friend of mine who I really like. He seems to like me also, but I really am not sure. The problem is that teen guys seem to "gay around" with each other, but this seems like more than average. I mean, I ... (399 words)

I'm jealous of all the gf's in my bf's past. What's the best way to get over being so jealous?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I, too, am jealous of my bf's exes...and I don't even know why? he is 43, never been married, and has only had a handful of girlfriends. I am 40, and have already been married. We have been together for 3 a little over 3 years, and have a son together. Neither of us have other ... (840 words)

I feel like I'm at the bottom of his list

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm questioning whether or not I should stay with my boyfriend? Lately I've been really frustrated with him. I don't know if I still want to be with him or just to walk away. We have been dating for a year and almost 4 months. Our relationship is long distance 9 months out of ... (414 words)

Help me save my relationship please

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26 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I really hope someone can give me advice before its too late....i am an 18 yr old female my partner is 23 i have known him for four years now and been with him for 12 months, everything was absolutely great when we first got together he was sweet caring understanding and he ... (688 words)

For the girls -- shaving?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hey everyone ! so i have a question for the girls , do you most of you shave the hair from your vagina? most guys i know do not like hair. so i want to shave mine, but ill shave it one day it will be smooth and the next day the hair will grow back and then ill shave that o... (101 words)

How to Build Confidence and Squash Fear?

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26 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - How does a man gain confidence around women and strangers? I enjoy talking to others and learning about them, but that's only with my friends. I've started a new semester at a new school, and I'm shy around all the people that I do not know. I want to be able to talk to women I ... (95 words)

I expect him to be honest about his ex

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, im in a relationship and have been with my bf for 4 months but i've known him for YEARS. Everyone tells me he's a good guy and he's proved it to me many times. I know there has to be trust in order for a relationship to work and i do trust him. But he has always ... (153 words)

My brand new husband is ogling often and breaking me in pieces

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 3 years and I just got married 3 weeks ago. This is our second marriage for both of us. He has been single 10 years and I 5. In the last year, he has started ogling other women often when we are out. What I define as ogling: He and I in a restaurant at a ... (587 words)

I'm feeling like I've been cursed given all the bad things that have happened

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26 January 2011 (F) age 51-59 - Does anybody ever felt cursed? I 'm very logical person, but almost on a mythological way, my life is getting destroyed one piece by piece. There is a consistency in it too. Like I work really hard to resolve something or get something, so i put all my energy in it. But tha... (167 words)

Do I fess up to my real age?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 16 years old and recently went on a dating site (which i no i shouldnt have done) and have got chatting to a 22 year old. We are getting on really well and he seems to like me. Only problem is he thinks i'm 18. So do i tell him my true age and what do i say to him? Please ... (64 words)

I never have orgasms when I finger myself

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i finger myself and i really like it but i never go it in to a orgiasm is this normal? Plus sometimes i pee mysself after i am done... (29 words)

Help! Do I give up on the girl of my dreams or be there for her and hope she gives us a chance later on?

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26 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright so I've been talking to this beautiful girl I met at my friends bday party for about a month now on the phone. We have awesome convos and sometimes we talk for hours on the phone. She always jokes about us getting married and tells me how awesome I am. Her best friend ... (245 words)

I really like this girl and need some good ideas!

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26 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - ok i like this girl in high school and we talk in class i have three periods with her she doesnt know i "Like" her like her but we talk and laugh! but i want to talk to her more! but she sleeps through all of her classes with me she talks to me but then she does of again, she ... (160 words)

Mistrust: I haven't seen where he lives or anything in his world!

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Help! Ive been dating this guy for 6 weeks and it has been like a whirlwind! have had a fantastic time with him. However he is in the process of moving into his flat. I have shown him mistrust as i haven't seen where he lives and haven;t seen anything in his world. However ... (171 words)

If two people are really attracted to one another, can they just be friends or are they kidding themselves?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - What are people's thoughts? If two people are really attracted to one another, can they just be friends or are they kidding themselves?... (23 words)

I think my boyfriend's mom doesn't like me!

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my bf for over a year. I go to his house at least once a week and so I see him mom alot. I feel like she doesn't make an effort to get to know me. I am shy and soft spoken and bad with small talk but I try to say hi and maybe give (an honest) compliment but ... (152 words)

Can she be on the pill without her parents help?

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26 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys I got some questions about birth controll, spacificly the pill. I am 18, and my girlfriend is 17 and will be 18 in a few months. I just told my parents about having sex and they reacted well. They said it would come some day, and want to make sure I'm being safe. My ... (279 words)

Should I have sex with my ex?

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex bf and I broke up 2 weeks ago. I initiated, but he agreed so it was mutual. We want different things in the future and it's for the best. Our relationship was short-term. I don't want him back. I do miss talking to him and miss his friendship. And I want to have sex with... (130 words)

He cares more about them than himself!

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26 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is my boyfriend doing this? I don't understand:(? my boyfriend is always depressed.. he says everything is not fine with his family ever since his dad died. he keeps saying his sisters and brother are not happy..but all 3 of them have university degrees and all have goo... (221 words)