A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I don't know what to do with my feelings for another girl...We're 18, seniors in high school and extremely close friends. We hug and cuddle when we're alone or at other friends' houses. She's the total tomboy with pixie short hair and baggy clothes(who's often mistaken for a guy) and I'm the really feminine (fashionista and glam) one, so we're often mistaken for being a lesbian couple or even a guy/girl couple on the streets. Problem is, I've definitely liked guys all my life and I'm not sure if it's her "masculinity" that I'm attracted to or what. I really want to kiss her and embrace her from the back, and I KNOW I have feelings for her but I don't know what to DO about them. But when I see big breasts in movies or in magazines or anywhere, I'm turned off immediately. I'm not even when two femme girls are making out on screen. Somehow, my mind readily accepts the butch/femme relationship? I dunno.My feelings for this tomboy girl have been going on for more 2.5 years now, but always on and off and it's confusing for me. She says she's straight but sometimes, with the physical affection I get from her, I would think otherwise. I don't want to confess this to her because I don't want to ruin our 5 year friendship...what is this feeling and what should I do about them? I'm trying to forget and move on but it's hard...
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