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writes:For the most part I'm not a very romantic person, this doesn't bother my fiance but it does bother me when I think about it, I'm not completely unromantic (i.e. I took her out to dinner at a very nice Italian restaraunt and bought her flowers last weekend and I've got her some good gifts for Valetines day) but I would like to be more romantic.My question is, how do I be more romantic in general without overdoing it and going to the other extreme where I'm just crazy romantic all the time?
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reader, HelpyMcHelperson +, writes (27 January 2011):
HelpyMcHelperson is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know that on the special days like Valentines day I'm good but my question is about being more romantic on the normal days, we've been seeing each other for over a year now and I think I've only bought her flowers three times and I used to send her cute messages all the time. I think small things on a more regular basis are the way to go so thanks for the tip anon.When it comes to things like this I'm always wondering, how could I be doing better? Is there any way I could improve?
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reader, sammi star +, writes (27 January 2011):
 I'd say you're doing pretty well already! Flowers, a nice meal, cute gifts for valentines...a lot of girls would be more than happy with that!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011): Well..I dont't know you or your significant other but I will say that small things will always help.. A simple note by the bed when she wakes up or on her car when shes leaving for the day. Maybe surprise her with her favortie bottle of wine.. if she even drinks. If she doesnt you can always cook for her & set up an area to eat where u may have a candle or two.. you can even slide a sweet "just because" card under the plate so that when she picks it up it is there.. I don't know if these are the kind of things your looking for or not.. but here not too cheesy just thoughtful. Im sure I have other ideas though if these wont work! Might I add its very impressive that your concerned about doing these things for your parnter!! says a lot!! Good luck!
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