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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why will he not go down on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend wont go down on me, his never done it before, and says it doesn't appeal to him. so I've stopped giving him oral sex to try and make him but he still won't. what else can I do? ... (40 words)

I know he likes his privacy but now he doesn't want me coming around to his house...???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so in love with my boyfriend of four years, he's perfect for me. The only thing is he's a very private person and I'm very open and honest so I just don't understand his need for secrecy, when we love each other. It's got to a ridiculous point now, that's hard to explain,... (288 words)

Am I lesbian or have I just not found the right guy yet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am definitely attracted to girls and boys but I am just not sure if I'm a lesbian or not! I'm still a virgin but I've kissed both, but have never been in a relationship with either because I'm quite self-conscious at 17! The thing is, the guys that I've made out with I've ... (328 words)

Should I tell him about the baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex boyfriend was married and i finished it for that reason, i was just lonely after my husband died, i have now met somebody that is single and we have been going out for 5 months and i decided not to tell him about my married ex boyfriend, we went to portugal where his ... (318 words)

Even although I've fallen for her... should I cut my losses?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

19 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I got so know someone a while back. We met up fairly recently, but since then things have cooled (on this person's part, or so it seems to me). I've had everything - no credit, lots on, need space, etc. Problem is, it's got to the point where contact has become increasingly ... (175 words)

What's it like moving on from your first love?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Has anyone got any experiences to share about getting over their first love/first relationship? My ex-boyfriend broke up with me in May last year. In some ways I feel that I've moved on, but recently I felt as if I still love him and will for a long while [I don't want to sound ... (185 words)

Why is she ignoring me... is she taking me for a fool?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4844 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, sorry this might be long but i need help!! i am in a relationship with my lesbian girlfriend and we are very happy together. My best friend is also a lesbian and is in a relationship with lets call her lisa, well when i first met lisa about 2 years ago we got along ... (670 words)

How do I gain experience with women this late in the game?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm an adult whose always struggled with confidence issues around women. I've made changes to my physical appearance, so I don't consider myself a bad looking guy. So obviously, I expect a woman who takes pride in her physical appearance too. I don't have much experience ... (192 words)

Am I just liking this guy because its an attention boost?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Things with my bf are a bit up and down at moment and I have met a guy at work who is genuinely interested in me. He asked me out on a date and I obviously rejected due to my bf. But now I can't stop thinking about him. I am trying to convince myself I am just thinking like ... (74 words)

Would he keep staring at me if he hated me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - it's been a little bit over two years since i seen my ex and before i did him pretty dirty by leaving him for my other ex.. sorry i just followed my heart which ended up being a mistake but than just this past weekend i saw my ex that i did dirty. as for me i believe he still ... (146 words)

I'm married and have a strong emotional attachment to a co-worker. How do I get out of this mess?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3541 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I apologize in advance for the length and breadth of this posting, as it's going to be quite a novel. I've been going through a self-inflicted emotional turmoil for about two years or so now and I've not shared it with anyone close to me because I'm too ashamed and too afraid ... (1343 words)

His brother tried it on with me and I also think my bf is cheating on me. How do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I been going out for almost a year....The thing is he used to be a player and so did i so we both have trust issues...Anyway The other day we got into a argument and he left me at his house with his brother. I was pissed and upset and his brother was ... (263 words)

I'm ashamed of what people would think if they knew I've never had a relationship. How can I interact more successfully with guys?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 years old, turning 18 and i never had a boyfriend. I never even went out on a date or kissed a guy. A lot of guys have asked me out especially these last few months, but i always said no beacause they're just not my type, apart from one guy. I only liked this guy and ... (255 words)

We started dating and now I've found out he has another girlfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I dont know what to do... i have been talking to this guy for 6 months now and we just started dating on jan 5th. then he left for basic training and i found out that he had/has another girlfriend. according to the other girl he broke up with her in the 5th, but he called her ... (102 words)

She says I'm pushing her further away and making her hate me. what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hey there peeps, im having a really hard time right now in my relationship or the allusion of what used to be. She found some conversations i had with an ex and flipped out on me...i can completly understand that. I have never cheated in my entire life but this girl was five ... (362 words)

Is he still faking or is he desperate? Or do you think I've surmised his real reasons?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Well, I'm 15 and gay, and probably full of overused cliché, but I was with a guy for 9ish months, then he broke it with me. Obviously I was distraught, considering he was the first person I'd had feelings for, first person I'd ever been with, and a lot of many other firsts. ... (477 words)

I'm wondering if I could be gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm a male in my twenties and i'm confused about my sexuality, i think i might be gay. i started being confused about it within the past 2 years but before that i was sure i was straight but since then i have had dreams of being with another man and i sometimes fantasize about ... (178 words)

If he really loved me would a 20 minute drive matter?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 years old, and I like this guy who just turned 17. He lives in my moms town, 20 minutes away. We both liked each other for almost 3 years, and just recently he told me he loved me, which considering he didn't even tell me that when we dated awhile back I am shocked, but ... (111 words)

Can I be sorry enough to fix things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

19 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My long term relationship has finally confirmed the end last week as she finally told me she would never get back with me. I know she has checked my fb page as I have given her my passwords to prove and show her I won't flirt with any other women again and I can be trusted no ... (134 words)

How do I improve the appearance of my breasts?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am so embarrassed by my breasts. All my girlfriends have nice ones with smaller areolas, but I'd describe mine as fat man boobs. They're pointy, with big aereolas and they sAg to the sides :( is there anyway to make them look better, and no I'm not talking about what kind of ... (59 words)

My wife told me how much she liked having sex with her ex!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

19 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Before my wife and I were together, she had a boyfriend that she lost her virginity to (at 16). She really liked him. She had a relationship with him that included regular sex, then after breaking up got back together after a couple of months "just for sex" for a few weeks. ... (463 words)

How should I go in for the kill(kiss)?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Basically, I really need some advice from someone on here. There's this guy I like, and he sorta likes me back , but I need some advice on how I can approach him. We have a somewhat turbulent past, but I know, on gut instinct, that if I can kiss him (we kissed once before, aft... (97 words)

I never said it was over but my girlfriend was sleeping with another man when we were supposed to be having space!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

19 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Is this considered cheating? So my GF and I have been going through a very turbulent part in our relationship, and we never said it was over but I just been very distant from her due to stress, so I told her that we need to have some space so I can get my thoughts together, but ... (147 words)

My girlfriend wants me to leave bruises during sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My Girlfriend wants me to leave bruises during sex? I am not sure what to take of this we have been dating over a year now. She wants me to hit her.. I dont know what to do is it normal?... (44 words)

I'm starting to wonder if he ever loved me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - how do you know if your man really loves you? i spent 12 years of my life tryin to figure out if mine loves me. mybe its because we started dating young.( 15 years old) and was each others first love, he is 28 now when do good guys get married? he didnt get me a christmas gift ... (134 words)

Can one just fall out of love like this?

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - we have been together for 3 years now. since 4 months ago he starting texting this girl from work and they got close. i dont think he has cheated on me physically, but surely emotonally. after i found there texts (which were sometimes sexual/affectionate...and exremely ... (293 words)

German boyfriend insulting me or just joking around?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a German boyfriend, we have been together long distance for five months now (I am American). He is a 28 year old PhD student in Physics, smart, organized, and nerdy. He seems quite considerate usually and loving, but sometimes he says some things to me that are just ... (187 words)

Am I asking too much? Relationship feels like it's falling apart.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is this asking too much?(this is long, sorry) I am in a fairly recent relationship with a guy I really like. He initiated it, and I originally skirted around the idea of a relationship altogether because life is very busy and stressful right now. He said he liked me a lot, ... (742 words)

My boyfriend is disinterested in sex, maybe porn is the root of the problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend doesn't want to have sex as often as we used to. We used to have sex maybe 3-4 times a week. Now... sometimes it's about twice a month. He always says that he just doesn't feel like it or the "chase" isn't there anymore because I'm always hot and ready to go. He ... (233 words)

I am not an ogler. I am a red blooded man who appreciates beauty, but only wants my partner!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

19 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am totally in love with my girlfriend of two years and we are both 35. The only problem is that when we go out she watches me like a hawk and if she sees me looking an attractive woman then she has a go at me. If a scantily dressed attractive woman walks in front of me of ... (467 words)

I gotta get over you!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I just wondered about something... Well I had a first love, we were together almost two years, he was abusive and nasty at times, but we had good times too. Well, he never ended it with me and he just got with someone else - it's been a year on valentines day t... (92 words)

Why does he drop like that after all the things he's told me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - About a year ago I met this great guy..Andrew We spent some time together and we seemed to really like each other then he suddenly just stopped talking to me.. So I licked my wounds and moved on and didnt bother him anymore.. I got into a relationship about two months later and ... (237 words)

I love my current girlfriend, but I still love my pregnant ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - im 25 years old and in a relationship with a 20 yr old woman i left my gf 8 months ago after been with her for 5 years. She just didn't interest me anymore plus i fell out of love with her, around the time i broke up with her she told me she was pregnant. I haven't seen her... (157 words)

My girlfriend got an anonymous tip that I was cheating! But I'm not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend has started recieving emails, texts and even phone calls from someone saying I've been cheating on her. When I haven't. I'd rather die than do anything to hurt her. But she doesn't know what to believe as she's been through this before with her ex's and because of ... (198 words)

How can I stop myself from feeling like I want to punch my partner in the face?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So here is my story..... I have been with my partner for 5 years, the first few were rocky as we were both young and didn't know what we wanted, but after all that we moved in together and got on great. He would still often act like a young boy going out not coming home, g... (486 words)

Why did he give me the cold shoulder?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Can you please tell me why a certain boy gave me the cold shoulder? Basically, I met him at a party, and we got chatting. We talked for ages about anything and everything and I immidiately felt a connection, and soon his arm was around me. He had only had a couple of drinks, ... (205 words)

I hate the mind games!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Aah this is a typical teenage question, but there is this guy and everyone says they can see something between me and him he texts me every night without fail since christmas when we first started talking, he makes an effort with my friends and comes and sits with my group at ... (122 words)

2 gay crushes, who to choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

19 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm sixteen years old and I'm homosexual. I've never had any kind of relationship, it's harder because I have a very specific taste on guys. Currently, I have two crushes and I was never that positive about my chances. There's this one year younger lad who studies in my school. ... (378 words)

Should I tell his girlfriend he cheated with me, now that I'm pregnant?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need advice from a non judgmental view point. I had been in a relationship with this guy for the last 2 years. He is in the army and so naturally things were always kind of difficult. But now I know that he was lying to me and cheating on me for a good part of our ... (351 words)

My girlfriend hides texts from her "friend"!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my partner for a little over a year now and we live together. She is 7 years older than I am, but all in all I would say we have a great relationship; I really love her and she tells me that she loves me all the time. However recently I've been having suspicions ... (293 words)

Lying about porn?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently found some hardcore porn on my boyfriends wireless device, which is attached to his computer via the TV. Now - can I just point out that I am no prude and I have no objection to porn, and myself and my boyfriend do not live together, so I understand he has 'needs'.... (322 words)

My boyfriend never buys me anything or tells me those 3 words!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I would just like some opinions on mine and my boyfriends relationship, sorry if this is long and I'm rambling i just wanna make sure I say everything I need to say. I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months. We both love each other, but sometimes I have doubts about him. ... (145 words)

Should I talk to my boyfriend about his taking advantage of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey Everyone. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months now. I'm generally not a long term relationship type fo person, but with him, it's been different. But recently, i just feel like he's taking me for granted. like i'm only there when he wants me, when he has ... (222 words)

I want to get married but my boyfriend is illegal!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im am 16 i will be turning 17 in a month , my boyfriend is 17 he will also be turning 18 in a month. well we want to get married and he doesnt have his papers so he is ilegal. what do i need to do. i am also a foster child and i dont have a clue how to get married. i dont need ... (75 words)

My ex bought me a gift, and I don't want it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend and I broke up 2 months ago due to him relocating to another place. In this time, he got back together with his ex gf.. and they even went on some kind of vacation together.. I had a hard time getting over this relationship.. and now when i'm finally feeling ... (84 words)

Can I stand up to these girls bullying my friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

19 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - one of my friends is a girl and really pretty, nice smart etc and most of the boys have crushes on her but becasue she so shy and wont stand up to the girls they treat her like rubbish and make her think shes not pretty and that shes stupid and stuff. There sort of emotionally ... (83 words)

Might be over thinking this, but do I have a right to be angry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Might be some overthinking on my part, but do I have a right to be angry here? My gfs exams just finished so I thought, finally some time for the two of us, but as it turns out she made plans with a (male) friend of hers, whom I don't know. This isn't the first time she's... (163 words)

Why would he now act distant after showing interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a bit confused...recently met this guy offline and we met once, had one excellent connection and have been writing and texting daily..We live about 200 miles apart. He came on very strong and showed great interest, we also have such a mental connection, that he can fini... (214 words)

I cheated on my partner, and now I caught him cheating on me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - For the first few years with my man i know i was a bitch. Its been over a year since i stopped seeing a married man who payed me compliments,more than my man could. Over the last year, more of what I did and who with ,my man has been finding out. He has no solid proof an... (404 words)

How will I know if he's serious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! okay here I go--- For the past 6 months I met a man online, we've lasted for 2 months,and after that unreasonably he stop connecting me, well I understand it so well that maybe he found another woman, I am openminded lady and can understand things, but this man is ... (197 words)

My partner wants to watch me have sex with another man. I'd rather have sex with me ex and tape it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am currently in an open relationship and my partner said he wants me have sex with another man while he watches,i am very doubtful about doing this as it may end the good thing we both share.i want to suggest that he and i watch a homemade movie that i have of myself and my ... (93 words)

How do I ignore this woman and all her antics?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I fell pregnant and the father of my baby denied paternity of the baby, he has now started dating someone i work with and (truly and honestly) i dont have a problem with their relationship, the problem i have is that this girl seem to be boasting around and mocking me about ... (156 words)

My husband treats his ex-wife better than he treats me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3098 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age - I am newly married but am frustrated as my husband still pays everything for his ex-wife even though he is not legally obligated to do so. His legal resposiblity at this point is child support and alimony (which is supposed to end in a few more years but my gut tells me that he ... (439 words)

Should I tell my wife I cheated on her with over 30 prostitutes?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

19 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 35, my wife 36, we have 2 kids, married for 7 years. Before our kids born we have really great relationship and have sex every day. Sine she got pregnant the first kid her interest for sex declined sharply. No matter what I tried the most we can have sex is twice a month. I ... (329 words)

Where is the middle ground between being a nerd and a player?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Back in high school i was a big nerd, constantly overlooked by females that i was interested in, or just completely not seen at all. Its been 6 years since i graduated high school and, still a nerd on the inside but with a lot more confidence, and a lot more able to talk to ... (132 words)

Is he having second thoughts after breaking up with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys! Would really appreciate your advice please... My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me a week ago after a period of just not getting on together. Otherwise we got on well. I feel the main source of our arguments were his mood swings and problems with binge drinking. ... (378 words)

They like me, I like both of them but they aren't willing to commit!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in such a fix! Hope to get some objective advice here :) I think I like two boys!! This has never happened to me before! Is it normal? Boy A is my ex, we went out for nearly 2 years before we broke up. We spent the first year and a half together and then he went to colle... (373 words)

Please help me out of this mess!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So ive been going out with a guy i met a few months back, we met for about a month and decided to start our relationship and things were going okay. Hes everything i could want in a guy and i was and still am absolutely smitten! I honestly fell for him bad! We just clicked so ... (835 words)

Am I gay, bi, straight, or what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

19 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. I need your opinions. A year ago i started *asturbating on gay porn, I wasnt really attracted to guys, I just wanted to see it. And me, stupid idiot, kept doing it, cos I thought "Ah So what, I can stop anytime". I also did it on some of my friends than :S . ... (577 words)

My ex girlfriend has a new man, how do I win her back?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

19 January 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am in a situation was with my girlfriend for 13yrs, we had no kids as i have a low count but she had a son from her first marriage, we never married it wasnt really dicussed, but we got on regardless...life was good but ...... she was always accusing me of cheating, ... (416 words)

How do I move on from the affair I had?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my now husband since I was a teenager. We got engaged my first year of college. He had joined the military, and was stationed outside of the continental united states for 3 years. During this time, I had a relationship with another person, and my husband was ... (315 words)

He always texts back, but since the message where I told him how I felt I have not heard anything! Have I scared him off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Few days ago I asked this question about telling someone who I'm sort of involved with, that I miss him http://www.dearcupid.org/question/if-i-tell-him-i-miss-him-do.html I felt really positive and sure about telling him this, but I was really nervous about sending a ... (145 words)

He's turned cold and distant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my boyfriend 9 months now, and I when we first got together things were more than perfect, i actually thought id found my soul mate! He made me feel like a Queen and our sex life was brilliant!! He even started talking about kids and marriage, which for me was a ... (372 words)

Crush trouble.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay heres how it goes.I am a fifteen year old gay guy and i have a crush on a fellow guy who goes to school with me and i am more than sure that he is gay.Well he is really shy,and all and he easily blushes around hot guys.So no doubt there.But the problem is that does he like ... (252 words)

It hurts when he enters me, why is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is quite long because i wanted to explain myself properly, please take time to read and help me :) Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly a year now and i was sexually active before i met him. It never used to hurt when we had sex within the first few months... (202 words)

I'm dating 3 men, 2 who love me and 1 who I can see falling for me! I cant handle this!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been speaking to my ex on the terms of possibly one day working things out if he can fulfil my needs. I have been very open and honest with him about my dating other men until I find what it is that I'm looking for even if it isn't him. He of course is not happy wi... (493 words)

Why do I keep thinking of him, dreaming of him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I don't know if I am at right place to seek advice. I don't know where to start from, to explain my issue. So I writing every thing in detail. Sorry for the long long story. OK. I am 24 yr old Hindu gal and the guy I have issue with is 21 yr old Malayali ... (831 words)

How do I deal with the death of my child?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age - I am a mother of three, have just lost our middle child to a seeming suicide. He leaves behind a wife and young son. He was diagnosed as bipolar recently, but chose not to take the medication. He suffered extreme mood changes, highs and lows, and terribly difficult to reach ... (98 words)

How can I stop worrying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy for about the past 7 weeks or so, and I really like him. We're exclusive but not official,but if he was to ask me out, I'd say yes in a heartbeat... but that's besides the point. Anyway, the thing is before I met him I had never even kissed anyone ... (191 words)

I feel like I was played in the worst possible way!

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey aunts. Little help will be appreciated. I've been going through a rough patch lately. So there is this guy, used to be my closest friend for a long time then, over a year ago his behavior started to change. To cut a long sory short he spent an entire year in hot romantic ... (585 words)

To trust or not to trust, that is the question. . .

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19 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Well hello! I've been with the love of my life for 9 months roughly 10. Our jobs are weird for the schedules are as abstract as our relationship. I see her only on Saturday's and Sunday's sometimes Friday nights. The issue is not that I don't get to see her but an incident... (436 words)

Recently engaged,but fighting more then ever. Is this all a mistake?!

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have been together for 3 years. He just got a house for us and then recently proposed to me. Of course I said yes, because I love him so much and can't imagine life without him...the only thing is we fight a lot. After the proposal I wanted everything to go ... (258 words)

Advice for a guy that can't stand his little sister's boyfriend?

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19 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been at a crossroads attempting to either force myself to like the guy or give up and pray my sister breaks up with him. I am not sure how long the questions usually are on this site, but if you have time for a back story, stick around! This is my younger sister (... (371 words)

Skeptical about my boyfriend's faithfulness after finding him talking to another girl behind my back......

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19 January 2011 (?) age 30-35 - j, 26, and i, 21, have been dating for over a year (off and on). what has caused us issues are the following: working together, his chemical dependencies, the lying and possibly cheating, my jealousy issues and lack of self esteem/trust, the fact that he isn't very experienced ... (277 words)

Am I now gay instead of bisexual?

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19 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Help!!!!! Right, i have had feelings for boys for two years now and thought i was bisexual however i havent been able to get a boner over a girl for about 2 weeks but i have easily over boys. help!? Please! I think i may be properly gay instead of just bisexual! Im 15, 16 in ... (64 words)

She says I am too quiet compared to her ex!

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19 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i've been in this relationship for almost two years now and most things we do argue about is me being quiet in the relationship..she said am too quiet compared with her ex.,.am fed up of the whole stuff.. I have my own ex, but being with her is still more live compared to her..... (69 words)

He has a long term girlfriend and I know nothing can happen between us, but I am starting to lose my resolve! Help!

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Back in June of last year, I began working at a company doing data entry (I'm a college student, and the hours are flexible, so... glorious!), and my boss and I immediately hit it off. At the time he was my direct superior, but he has since been promoted. We see each other ... (833 words)

Responsibly Dating/Committing After Enduring Emotional Trauma. Rebound Unacceptable.

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19 January 2011 (F)

age - My best friend is deeply in love with me and recently asked me to marry him. The thing is I also love him but I'm uncertain if I am in love with him. He knows I love him platonically but when he asks if deeper more I shut completely down and inform him I'm unable to answer... (805 words)

Middle of the night erections are painful and making me lose sleep!

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19 January 2011 (M)

age - I am a 50 year old male, I am awoken two to three times each night with erections that are so hard they hurt. The only way to relieve them so I can go back to sleep is by urinating, sometimes very little. Is there a way to prevent these erections so I can get better night ... (61 words)

What am I doing wrong and how do I fix it?

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm convinced there are people in this world that just aren't meant to develop relationships with significant others or ever maintain healthy ones... me being one of those people. I'm 24 and I have never had a boyfriend, and if one more person tells me that I'm still young and ... (265 words)

The lies are piling up, I think my husband married me for visa

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi ive been married for 6 years and have 3 children with my husband. when we used to date he told me he was 22 and just used to act like he was the best guy ever when i married him he told me he was actually a virgin and that he was actually 27 years old he also said that h... (359 words)

Girlfriend unsatisfied with the way life turned out for her

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19 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have been dating an older girl (by a few years) for a little over a year. She says she is very into me and that I am her world, as she is mine. From the start, my girl had a lot of baggage for me to handle, which I didn't mind at first because it was nothing I couldn't ... (301 words)

I'm starting to think I am engaged to the wrong man

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am engaged to a man i've dated and lived with for over 7.5 yrs he just recently asked me to marry him... after a long wait i had given up. but for a little over a yr. there has been some relationship troubles. i didnt even want to marry anymore like i used to. then since ... (433 words)

Affair: I wish I could back in time and just walk out the minute I seen him

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19 January 2011 (F)

age - I recently ended an affair that I've been in for seven months. If I could go back in time I would NEVER have done it. I was bored with my husband who I have been married to for 20 years. I actually thought that I could flirt around and that nothing would come from it. ... (666 words)

Teenage Hormones: Are mine acting up or average?

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a female, high school senior, and have just turned 17. I've been noticing that my hormones seem to have been truly "raging" as of late. I'm a virgin, yet I feel increasingly intense desires for the opposite sex, and it's starting to worry me. I have good self-control, bu... (162 words)

Will my ex realise he made a mistake, and if so, how long will it take?

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Will my ex realise he made a mistake? Honest opinion and advice and storys please :) My ex boyfriend and myself were together for quite awhile i moved in with him and he asked me to marry him but i said no in a nice way because i wasnt ready. After a couple of months ... (283 words)

Question on etiquette and American culture

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19 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello all, This is a question regarding etiquette and American culture. I am a student studying in the US but I am not an American (I am from South Korea). My student life in US has been, for most part, a very alienating experience with absolutely no friends, and no so... (349 words)

Is there a middle ground where I can be the pleasant girl he fell in love with but make sure he knows he needs to get on top of things if he wants to keep me?

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. For the first year, we rarely ever fought, and when we did it was nothing too serious. For the last six months things have been a lot more rocky (though we've had our ups as well). It seems like my attitude... (380 words)

Is this an acceptable way to dump someone?

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Good evening everyone, I dated my ex for a little over a year. He always had issues with communicating with me, and I too have my own issues that contributed to the fall of our relationship. He told me that he didn't know if he wanted to be with me anymore, but then when I ... (161 words)

He isn't physically affectionate, does he not like me or is he shy?

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Alright here's the thing, I have a boyfriend, his name is Alphonsus, he's real sweet funny and weird, we've been dating for about a month now and you'd think 'awwwww y'all are holding hands and hugging all day', but no...he's shy, or he doesn't like me. But he's told me he ... (173 words)

Boyfriend moved in with my best friend and they cheated on me!

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well where can I start, I had a best friend for six years , she hooked me up with this boy , and I ended up falling for him and we were a couple , our relationship was great until he moved in with her . I trusted them both because she knew him before me . She called this guy ... (191 words)

I don't feel much during sex!

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! I'm 19 years old and a sophomore in college. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 10 months now and were friends for a few years before entering into the relationship we have. We started having sex a few months ago. We talk to each other about... (166 words)

Help with my first date......

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19 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello on saturday I will be having my first date with this girl I met. She is really into me. Anyway thing is I can talk over texting but when it comes to talking on the phone it's hard for me because I have this disability where my thought processes is a little slower and you ... (132 words)

Can some women just not have a g-spot orgasm because it will make them pee?

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - The other night, a guy was stimulating my g-spot and I felt like if it continued, I could probably have an orgasm - however, I started feeling like I was leaking pee, so I stopped it. I was so angry, because I assumed I would never be able to have a g-spot orgasm because I ... (270 words)

How to get over a same sex friend who is straight?

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19, and I can't get over my feelings for my friend who is a girl. It is killing me. We were close friends but lately she has become distant from me. I wrote her a letter but I haven't given it to her yet. About our relationship. I think I am in love with the idea of being ... (165 words)

Does she like me? Is she confused?

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - This is sort of hard to explain, but there's this girl who I met in my geography class and I feel this strange connection between us. I had already sort of liked her before we even started talking. The first day back to school, second sememster, she came up to me and we ... (488 words)

I have a thing for this girl at work but she likes someone else, should I ask her out anyway?

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19 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Should I ask this girl out? I work with her and have recently realised I had feelings for her when I actually look forward to go to work just because she is there. Problem is while we flirt and stuff we aren't very much alike she hangs out with a lot of people and I am a pretty ... (145 words)

I have difficulty opening up my feelings

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19 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm having difficulty opening up with my feelings. My girlfriend wants me to trust her completely with the good and bad so she can share the same back with me. To me this sounds like the promised land of relationships but my every instinct, inclination and all of my wisdom... (111 words)

Scared of marriage, commitment and responsibility of bringing up a child

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i am a 30 year old woman and i am extremely scared of marriage and commitment. the guy i am committed to is extremely nice and everything i could have wished for, give or take a few annoying habits, but that's not the point. he has been hinting at marriage but i am extreme... (124 words)

What is a fair amount to pay?

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19 January 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has recently moved in with me and we're having a hard time deciding how much is an appropriate amount to pay in rent each month. We live in the house that I already own. I make about $17,000 more per year than he does and about $4,000 of his pay per year comes from ... (131 words)

Could I really be that off about how the date went? Title

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So last night I had a date with a guy I met on a dating site a few days ago. He's the one who actually contacted me first and after quite a few emails we decided to meet for drinks. I thought the date went well and I found him attractive despite the fact that he's 10 years ... (278 words)

How can a guy change his mind on a daily basis?

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - How in the world do I understand this man? I have been fooling around with a younger man for almost a year now. He told me recently that he doesn't want an emotional relationship with me. That made me laugh out loud! This guy is sensitive, emotional, sweet and says all the... (189 words)

Now I've got doubts about moving in with him. Can I trust him?

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has just been telling me about some of his usual behavior in relationships, and I'm not sure what to make of it. He said he's had one relationship that lasted over 3 months and all the rest he gets bored with and wants change, so suddenly splits up with them. Or ... (161 words)

Who is the best choice for me out of my two suitors?

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i have two suitors. one is a doctor the other suitor is a successful chinese businessman. the doctor is nice, sweet and passionate.but he has bad breath. While the chinese is caring and sweet. He has no bad breath and the chinese is very hygienic. the doctor is very good look... (283 words)

I want to be heterosexual but I don't know if I am, advice please!

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19 January 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - So, I'm 15 and sexually confused. I've only kind of liked one girl I've known, and that was this one brilliant/beautiful/charismatic girl that I knew in kindergarten, and I didn't even know her very well. Now I'm in highschool, and I don't think I've ever really been attracted ... (291 words)

Is she taking me for a fool and for someone to laugh at?

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19 January 2011 (F)

What's a cool way to tell her I like her and I miss her?

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19 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I started speaking to a girl and after some time i started liking her. We used to talk daily on phone until recently, when she got busy with her college work. Yesterday i cracked a light joke on her saying, 'she doesn't pick the call anytime i call her.' She became so defensiv... (131 words)

Does my driving instructor like me? we're both single. He's 40, I'm 26

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19 January 2011 (?) age 36-40 - So I'm having driving lessons at the minute. and i have feelings for my instructor he's a really nice guy in his 40's single tall dark, yada yada, anyway he's helped me out so much he's even got me a new job working for his brother at a local pub, which makes it even more ... (333 words)

The big 'O'....how hard is it to achieve one?

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How hard is it to Orgasm? I am 17 and my bf's cousin is one of those girls that is just filled with sex stories. She said that she had her first Orgasm at 16 ... (mind you her bf was 24) she says it's easy. But really what are your girls experiences. I am really curious on ... (69 words)

I'm bi. My loving man accepts my needs. But now I'm in love with a woman. Out of my mind with guilt. What can I do?

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Aunties I came her for some advice about guilt and love. I'm married to a good man for 22 years. we have 5 children and all but 2 of them are off to college. My husband treats us good. He's a good father and husband. He's always put us before himself and has never raised his ... (559 words)

Is it time for me to say enough is enough?

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i could use some advice...PLEASE.....HELP...... I am a 30 yr old single mother of three beautiful children.. I fell in love with a man a couple years ago we talked for a whole year before actually getting together and I really thought we were on the same page about everything... (757 words)

Why am I so sore after sex?

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and have a perfectly good sex lifem just recently tho after we finish sex, my vagina becomes very sore it last for a couple of hours and its sore when i go toilet as well. we had a check up last year and everything came back normal a... (93 words)

I'm not as physically attracted to my boyfriend as I would like to be....

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So here's the deal: I've been with my boyfriend for a year and I love him so much! He treats me like a queen, is caring, and I can't go a day without thinking about him. I like doing physical things with him as well as just talking to him because he is like my best friend. We ... (301 words)

My boyfriend's insecurity about his looks has shattered our sex life...how do I make him feel better about himself???

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hey so i dunno if im just overreacting but my bf hardly ever wants to have sex. Hes always too tired, not feeling well or in a bad mood cos of work. Now hes on Admin leave and I figure..well work shouldnt be the issue..but it seems we have less sex now than we used to.We've... (457 words)

Should I send him a message telling him that I am turned off?

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - So the guy I am seeing stills goes on pof every night. Approx a week ago I told him I would like for him not to go on pof, and of course he said he wasn't looking for anyone, just checks mail and has friends, and actually said his cousin was on it and he talks to her. BS?????? ... (410 words)

My wife's behavior is bizarre and I'm trapped in a loveless marriage

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19 January 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi! I don't know from where to start? I am 26 years old its been a year since I am married and now I get the vibes that everything is falling apart. Basically I am from India I moved into England only because my wife wanted me to. I have well established dad's real estate ... (489 words)

Why does he want to pick up women when he has me?

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A friend told me to look at some online forum for guys who feel like they need a little help with picking up women. It was filled with silly pick up lines and ridiculous little mind games. My friend thought it was hilarious but I found it a little sad that they don't know ... (331 words)

Can I trust my new Gf? Doubts keep creeping into my mind due to my previous gf.

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19 January 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've recently started a relationship with a girl I met online. We met up, after talking online a while and things went great. I was nervous upon the first meeting. My main concern was about our attraction to each other. But as I mentioned, things went great and we decided to ... (426 words)

I like him, but I'm worried about his ex gf. Should I back away or try to go exclusively with him?

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am seeing this guy I really like. But his ex gf used to be one of my best friends a until a few years ago. They broke up around 2 months ago. She put him through hell. She'd become very paranoid and jealous. She once snogged a guy who had eyes for her, in front of her bf, ... (192 words)

What does this text my ex sent really mean?

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I just wanted to get a little insight on my ex's recent text. Here's a quick background: The ex and I were living/together for 6 years. He left me 4 months ago for another woman. I was/am heartbroken. I began NC about 2 months ago and have stuck to it. He has been texting... (423 words)

Best friend of my Ex seems interested. How should I handle this? I'm not over my ex yet.

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So, my ex whom I lived with for two years (and still secretly have unresolved feelings for).. he left me 9 months ago and now has another girlfriend who is long distance.. Anyway, we always hung out with his one and only best friend.. I tried to delete his friend from Face... (269 words)

Do I have to tell this guy I'm seeing about my past sexual experience?

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19 January 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Do i have to tell this guy im seeing about my past sexual relationships and experiences or does it not matter?... things have been going really well, and weve been getting to know each other, i just wondered if it was neccessary to tell him? He hasnt brought it up? thanks ... (51 words)