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writes:1.My husband everytimes he leave the house or come home even he go out of country he seldom to tell me where he went ?2.He always hide me what is doing with his works ? what should I do with these situation ? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 January 2011):
Before confronting, it might be a good idea to do some digging to fin out what he's up to.
The other posts are right, this is a problem, and it is disrespectful. He needs to come clean about what's happening.
But, I also know that without any kind of proof, you'll never get anywhere. If you know nothing, he can tell you anything he likes and get away with it.
I don't know what's happening with him, but I do know that you need to do a little digging around before you can confront him.
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reader, Abella +, writes (26 January 2011):
 he is thoughtless and inconsiderate to you. His bahavior is not respectful to you. A husband and wife should live in equitable harmony. With empathy between the two of you always paramount. Where respect and honesty co-reside.
When there is time (no work the next day) cook him a particularly nice evening meal and find time after that to ask him a consider the situation from your point of view. And to consider how his actions confuse and hurt you.
And point out that, while you would never do the same to him, as he does to you, BUT, how would he feel if you ever did replicate his actions?
Because his actions, to just leave the way he does, are not acceptable Ask him what he is willling to do, to address the situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2011): it may be cause hes cheating on u or hes going drinking with his friends. i'm not married but i have saw it happen before. I do not want to get peronal, but maybe you should ask him to talk and that you want to know whats going on in his life, and why he wants to be as far away from you as possiale
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